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28 Huntington Beach, CA Man


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  • Ages 18–42
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My details

Last online
Today – 1:48pm
5′ 8″ (1.73m)
Body Type
Strictly anything
Graduated from masters program
Entertainment / Media
Open relationship
Mostly non-monogamous
Likes cats
English, Japanese (Okay), Sign Language (Okay), C++ (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly)
My self-summary
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I have big dreams about little things.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I'm an independent game designer who left the AAA industry to work fulltime on a passion project. When I'm not programming/arting/musicing I'm usually learning something new.

I've had periods of my life that were totally different. I've written plays (a few produced), performed stand-up, briefly reared a kid, led a group of twenty people into repeated foam combat, taught game development at both a middle school and a university. But right now I'm just focused on self-enrichment and I quite like it.

the first thing that comes to mind (devblog)
I’m really good at
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Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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B: The Color Purple, Divine Comedy, Asterios Polyp

M: Scott Pilgrim, Palindromes, The Secret of Kells, Harold and Maude

S: Over the Garden Wall, Adventure Time, BBC Sherlock, Avatar TLA/Korra, JoJo's Bizarre Adventure, Veronica Mars, Pushing Daisies, Steven Universe

Mu: Frank Ocean, Alina Baraz, Bach, Justice, Stevie Wonder, Ella Fitzgerald, Radiohead (I can listen to the 0110 playlist on repeat)

F: Ethiopian (Kitfo & Tej), Vietnamese (Banh Mi & Pho), Korean (!!!), and everything else

G: Fez, Divinity: Original Sin, Shovel Knight, League of Legends, Castlevania 3, Shining Force, SaGa Frontier, and every SNES RPG (even the ones that didn't get localized outside of Japan).

wip made-for-okc youtube playlist
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
-music accompanying my evening
-alone time
-together time
-incomplete lists
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Mostly hypothetical shit like half vampire/gorgons.

(You can't see a vampire in a mirror, and you can't really fight a gorgon without using a reflection to look at it. It'd be a real pain in the ass.)
You should message me if
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You want to party with crime. I mean be crime-partners.

You try to listen to what people mean, not just what they say.

You think getting stoned and listening to music like this while talking long into the night sounds lovely.

You ain't afraid to call something lovely.


Or invent your own reason!