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52 F Lafayette, CA

I’m looking for

  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 36–60
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Today – 10:06pm
5′ 4″ (1.63m)
Body Type
Mostly vegetarian
Not at all
Other, and very serious about it
Pisces, and it’s fun to think about
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Has kids, but doesn’t want more
Has dogs and has cats

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My self-summary
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We are all amazing in our own way. The trick is to see and appreciate it in ourselves. Finding someone else to reflect this to us just leaves us dependent on their view. Believe in yourself. Shine.

Today is one of those absolutely perfect Fall days.
The quality of the air is soft.
It touches and slides across your skin
almost thick enough to roll in.
The light begins it's change into a hazier version
leaving the beautiful harshness of summer
a memory.
The colors have changed to deeper
richer golds and ambers.
No reds yet
but you can smell them on the horizon.
Autum. Fall. Harvest.
It makes me think of rewards and riches from the simplicity of ones labors.
A cycle of natural origin
instead of man's constant demand.

I'm looking for someone who really enjoys their life. You'll be someone who knows that there's so much more than this but that being here now is the important thing. Being present to each precious drop of sunshine or rain.
You probably have been through a lot in your life. This just deepens the well of your knowledge and your compassion for others.

I took a poll among my friends - those who have known me both long and short periods of time.
I asked each one what were the first 10 words or phrases that came to mind when thinking about me. Here's what they gave me: Kind, thoughtful, caring, intense, patient, energetic, dangerous, untamed, playful, reliable, scary intelligent, natural healer, honest, decisive, shy, filled with life, wicked humor, quick wit, joyous, trustworthy, direct, psychic, intuitive, sensuous, irreverent, loud, passionate, sexy, real, fiery, creative, inventive, can't fit her in the box kinda girl..
Yep. That's what they said. Unfiltered.

I'm a healer and psychic. My clients tell me my psychic accuracy rate is in the high 90%. This number is my success rate for people overcoming or recovering from injuries and illnesses. I use homeopathy, light ray energy healing ( like reiki but more intense), nutrition, intuition, Pilates rehabilitation, yoga, brain gym, ear candling and more. I have my own line of healing body care products and a recycled textile line.
If you just want a reading or a healing session with me instead of a date that's fine. Don't hesitate.

If you don't believe or aren't comfortable with the idea of psychics then just move on to the next delightful lady. Dogs are Color blind so they don't know rainbows exist. Parrots see dozens more colors than we do. Mind blowing but it's there. There are many things we don't know yet and may never. The world was flat, the sun revolved around the earth. Now things fly, you can be heard around the world in seconds, you can tap a few keys and see china on satellite. Impossible things that are everyday norms now.

I eat only organic foods. So sorry but I'm not interested in dating anyone not into health on this level. If you eat "everything" we will not get along. While we are on the subject of limitations if you are alcoholic or addict prone that won't work either. I don't use at all. I tend to like things as they are or I change them. Using a substance for temporary alteration bores me.

Age isn't terribly important but health. Intellect and mobility are.
Musicians and artists welcome. I love the energy and creativity.
I support myself just fine and you need to do the same.

Life is never long enough...enjoy every minute, question everything and push your limits as often as you can because we never know where the finish line is and there's so much adventure to be had.

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What I’m doing with my life
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Driving all over northern Ca and Oregon wishing summer would never end.
I'm a Holistic Health Practitioner and I love my work. Watching people achieve what they thought they'd never have is so wonderful. I use homeopathy, Pilates rehabilitation techniques, nutrition, psychic readings and energy along with many other techniques to help people.
I read, listen to music, go to rock concerts, take and teach yoga classes, hike and dance. Exercise is a major joy.
I have a cat and a dog who like to go for walks. Yes the cat too. I have to take the dog away in the car for walks or the cat comes too. Crazy cat.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Many things...unveiling one's talents is a part of the mystery.
The first things people usually notice about me
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That I have a quick smile and laugh a lot. I sing when I'm happy.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Writers are- John D McDonald, Evanovich, Moning, Mosley, Coben, Harrison the list is long and colorful. Writers are artists, the page their canvas, the world their subject, words their medium. Paint me a world to step into.
Music is Rock, Blues, worldbeat. Anything with a back beat you can't resist.
Movies are Avatar, Life as a House, House sitter, Bringing down the house, The Devil Wears Prada, Mama Mia, love song for bobby long, Forrest Gump, Philadelphia . And I admit to liking iron man, hellboy,, the librarian, transformers etc. I know! It's ridiculous and I have no excuse.
Warning: I DO NOT WATCH TV AT ALL. Never. I haven't since I was 17. When I'm at someone's house who does it is so strange it like taking drugs.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
These I "couldn't" live without.
What makes it worthwhile?
Great food
Love in it's many forms
Great sex
Friends & family
Work that I love
Natures wonders
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How grand life is. How beautiful the world. How to help.
What did I see today that was beautiful or amazing?
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Reading a book
The beach watching the waves
Wall climbing
At a festival
Laughing at something you said
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I love tattoo art but have no tattoos.
I never want to grow up. Play is for everyone not just the young in body.
You should message me if
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Your heart is true yet your soul untamed.
If you want something more in your life than the known...