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52 Lafayette, CA Woman


I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 36–65
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Today – 10:31am
5′ 4″ (1.63m)
Body Type
Mostly vegetarian
Not at all
Other, and very serious about it
Pisces, and it matters a lot
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Has kids, but doesn’t want more
Has dogs and has cats

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My self-summary
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I Hope the holidays are a happy time for you. Although I don't decorate much ( or at all some years) I love the season. The lights. Food. Families and friends. I pray that it doesn't stress you so you feel joy this season no matter what your practice or religion

Recently I saw this on the back of
a fishing boat:

"I ran out of sickleave

So I called in dead instead!"

It cracked me up.

We are all amazing in our own way. The trick is to see and appreciate it in ourselves. Finding someone else to reflect this back to us just leaves us dependent on their view. Believe in yourself

Yes. My hair is blue these days. Why? Cuz it's fun. All these amazing dyes these days. Just like a paint box for humans.

I'm searching for someone who chooses a path outside the norm. Who cares about others well being but not what they think of him so much. You'll make decisions based on what you believe or feel is right rather than what others think you should.

You are someone who has learned from life's difficulties. It's made you understanding and more tolerant of other people's shortcomings.
Your life is what you've made of it. Chosen. Not just what you were stuck with.
You'll be clear in your conviction that there is more than what we see with our eyes. You'll know that there is a force greater than us and that ultimately we are a part of it as it is a part of us.
If you do or don't have money it won't be what defines you.

Whoo! That was intense. I usually make people laugh not cringe. In fact I spend much of my day doing just that. Making people laugh at work, in stores, on the phone. We all need a little break in our days and sometimes just a smile from a stranger will do it.

You know how some- well most- people go to work, come home and then get to be themselves? Their work is separate from their inner lives.
My work defines me. My connection to spirit is the cornerstone of my life. I don't wander around in robes pouring predictions on the unsuspecting though.

It's important that you relate to the next paragraph if you'd like to know me.

I'm a psychic and an energy healer. Hey. It happens. It runs in the family. I come from a very long line of Scottish seers. I grew up on tales of my ancestors predictions. My clients tell me my accuracy rate is in the high 90%. I use it in conjunction with other healing modalities ( touch, kinesiology, Pilates, homeopathy, nutrition etc) to help people overcome or recover from long or short term injuries and illnesses. Other times just the information from a reading can give someone enough impetus to change their lives. Don't worry. I've never done a reading for someone who was famous in a past life. There can only be so many Cleopatras or King Solomons. 😁

If you don't believe in or aren't comfortable with the idea of psychics that's fine. Just move on to the next delightful lady.

Food. Food. Food . New restaurants and tastes are some of my favorite things in life. I eat ORGANIC FOODS ONLY so I'm looking for someone who is into health on this level. I don't use drugs or drink at all.

I love the creative energy of Musicians and artists.

I will have no idea if you "Liked me " because I'm not on the A list. If you want my attention just say so. I really like people who are confident.

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What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I'm a Holistic Health Practitioner and I love my work. Watching people achieve what they thought they'd never have is an amazing thing.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
There in lies the mystery...
Tying knots.
Seeing the humor in a situation.
Making you laugh despite yourself.
Lots more.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Lately it's that I have blue hair...
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Writers are- John D McDonald, Evanovich, Moning, Mosley, Coben, Harrison the list is long and colorful. Writers are artists, the page their canvas, the world their subject, words their medium. Paint me a world to step into.

Music is Rock, Blues, worldbeat. Anything with a back beat you can't resist. Lately I've been listening to Boy and Bear, Xavier Rudd, Arctic monkeys, Kongos, One republic, Ashley Mac Isaac . I sing shamelessly to Carrie Underwood, Dido, Adele, Bonnie Raite, cowboy junkies, Lady antebellum and anybody else I can wrap my voice around.

Movies are Avatar, Life as a House, House sitter, Bringing down the house, The Devil Wears Prada, Mama Mia, love song for bobby long, Forrest Gump, Philadelphia . And I admit to liking iron man, the whole Marvel series, hansel and gretle whitch hunters, hellboy,, the librarian, transformers etc. I know! It's ridiculous and I have no excuse. I just like them.

Warning: I DO NOT WATCH TV AT ALL. Never. I haven't since I was 17.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
These I "couldn't" live without.
What makes it worthwhile?
Great food
Love in it's many forms
Great sex
Friends & family
Work that I love
Natures wonders
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
The quality of life as opposed to a life of accumulating possessions. We seem to fill the emptiness with things, mind altering substances and food instead of looking for what will fulfill us.

And play. 😊
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Reading a book
The beach watching the waves
Wall climbing
At a festival
Laughing at something you said
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Here's my real question:

Why settle for a glass half empty or half full?

Fill it up!

Life is for living not measuring.

I'm really 59. The photos are actually what I look like with no photoshop enhancement.
You should message me if
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Your heart is true yet your soul untamed.

If you want something more in your life that's new, fun, warm and challenging.

If you have more to offer than "hey baby want to meet and have sex?" Geez guys I mean really?

Im sorry but I do not do long distance relationships with people I have never met. I try to keep it within 1-2 hours' drive of where I live. So if you live on the other side of the country I will not respond. I find unrealistic to try to build something real with someone you've never met.