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52 F Lafayette, CA

I’m looking for

  • Men who like women
  • Ages 36–65
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
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5′ 4″ (1.63m)
Body Type
Mostly vegetarian
Not at all
Other, and very serious about it
Pisces, and it matters a lot
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Has kids, but doesn’t want more
Has dogs and has cats

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
We are all amazing in our own way. The trick is to see and appreciate it in ourselves. Finding someone else to reflect this to us just leaves us dependent on their view. Believe in yourself
I'm looking for someone dynamic and independent. Someone who has a heart and is not afraid to use it. 😊
You are someone who has learned from life's difficulties. It's made you understand and more tolerant of other people's shortcomings. Your life is what you've made of it. Chosen. Not just what you were stuck with.
You'll be clear in your conviction that there is more than what we see with our eyes. You'll know that there is a force greater than us and that ultimately we are a part of it as it is a part of us.
I took a poll among my friends because sometimes others see us differently than we see ourselves.
I asked each one what were the first 10 words or phrases that came to mind when thinking about me. Here's what they gave me:
Kind, thoughtful, caring, intense, patient, energetic, dangerous, untamed, playful, reliable, scary intelligent, natural healer, honest, decisive, shy, filled with life, dry sense of humor, quick wit, joyous, funny as hell, trustworthy, direct, psychic, intuitive, sensuous, irreverent, loud, passionate, noisy, sexy, real, fiery, creative, inventive, can't fit her in the box kinda girl..
Yep. That's what they said. Unfiltered.

You know how some- well most- people go to work, come home and then get to be themselves? Their work is separate firm their inner lives.
My work defines me. So it's important that you relate to the next paragraph if you'd like to know me.

I'm a psychic. It runs in the family. I come from a very long line of Scottish seers. I grew up on tales of my ancestors predictions. My clients tell me my accuracy rate is in the high 90%. I use it in conjunction with other healing modalities to help people overcome or recover from long or short term injuries and illnesses. Other times just the information from a reading can give someone enough impetus to change their lives. I do not flatter or lie and I've never done a reading where someone was a famous person in a past life. Myself included.
If you don't believe in or aren't comfortable with the idea of psychics that's fine. Just move on to the next delightful lady.

I love food. New restaurants and tastes are some of my favorite things in life. I eat only organic foods so I'm looking for someone into health on this level. I don't use drugs or drink at all.

Musicians and artists welcome. I love the energy and creativity.

Here's my real question: Why settle for a glass half empty or half full? Fill it up! Life is for living not measuring.

I have no idea if you "Liked me " because I'm not on the A list. If you want my attention you'll have to say so.

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What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I'm a Holistic Health Practitioner and I love my work. I've been doing this for 33 years. Watching people achieve what they thought they'd never have is so wonderful. I use Homeopathy, Pilates physical rehabilitation, nutrition, psychic readings and deep energy techniques, gait mechanics and other modalities to help people.

I read, listen to music, go to rock concerts take yoga classes, hike, dance- both ballroom and ecstatic dance, theater is a major love I don't get to enough
Going to new places. Seeing new things. Exploring.
In travel I'm more prone to off beaten path than following a tour. I'm usually more interested in who people really are than what they prepared for me to see. But not always. Performances are nice too.

I have a cat and a dog who like to go for walks. Yes the cat too. I have to take the dog away in the car for walks or the cat follows/ slinks along too. Crazy cat.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Being easily entertained
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Lately it's that I have blue hair... A quick smile and an easy laugh.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Writers are- John D McDonald, Evanovich, Moning, Mosley, Coben, Harrison the list is long and colorful. Writers are artists, the page their canvas, the world their subject, words their medium. Paint me a world to step into.

Music is Rock, Blues, worldbeat. Anything with a back beat you can't resist.

Movies are Avatar, Life as a House, House sitter, Bringing down the house, The Devil Wears Prada, Mama Mia, love song for bobby long, Forrest Gump, Philadelphia . And I admit to liking iron man, the whole Marvel series, hansel and gretle whitch hunters, hellboy,, the librarian, transformers etc. I know! It's ridiculous and I have no excuse. I just like them.
Warning: I DO NOT WATCH TV AT ALL. Never. I haven't since I was 17.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
These I "couldn't" live without.
What makes it worthwhile?
Great food
Love in it's many forms
Great sex
Friends & family
Work that I love
Natures wonders
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Fun things to do. Course I enjoy working and creating so some of my fun looks like work.
Other parts of it look quite different. 😈
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Reading a book
The beach watching the waves
Wall climbing
At a festival
Laughing at something you said
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I Sing with or without the radio when no one is around.

I love tattoo art but have no tattoos.

If you are a "D" I'll tell you everything... eventually. 😇
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
Your heart is true yet your soul untamed.

If you want something more in your life that's new, fun, warm and challenging.

If you have more to offer than "hey baby want to meet and have sex?" Geez guys I mean really?

Im sorry but I do not do long distance relationships with people I have never met. I try to keep it within 1-2 hours' drive of where I live. So if you live on the other side of the country I will not respond. I find unrealistic to try to build something real with someone you've never met.