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60 Lafayette, CA Woman


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I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 40–65
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 6:51pm
5′ 4″ (1.63m)
Body Type
Mostly vegetarian
Not at all
Other, and very serious about it
Pisces, and it matters a lot
Has kids, but doesn’t want more
Has dogs and has cats
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I hope your life is all you want it to be.
We live in such an amazing time and place. Lucky lucky people.

You: You've had a life. Bumps, bruises. Maybe a couple scars but they made you richer and deeper. You are healthy and full of life and imagination. Curiosity still motivates you. Conscious about the world and others around you yet clearly you walk your own path and do not need permission. You can be kind about others short comings. Spirituality is real and constant for you. That is : that you know there is more than just here existing the grind. That you also know that being here in this moment is what we came for.

Organic foods, recycling, health focused, love to play and ramble. Music is a passion and constant in my day.
I'm direct and honest. Too direct for many. Never fear...That is not an excuse to be rude or brusque to anyone however. Caring, kind, thoughtful, frequently late. Independent. Self employed. Wicked sense of humor my friends tell me. I love making people's day better by giving a kind word. A smile for no reason. Making someone laugh in the middle of a rough day. We all love to be seen and some peoples' jobs make them the faceless machines we talk to forgetting that they aren't all machines ...yet.
Energy healer. Psychic. Yep. I'm from a long line of Scottish seers. Oh well. It happens. Its fun and helps others.
I'm lobbying for a 36 hour day because I just can't get everything done in 24. I could really use some sleep but life is so interesting it's hard to let go of each day.
For health reasons I eat ORGANIC foods pretty much exclusively. I'm happy vegan, vegetarian or omnivorous but it's ORGANIC.
I'm looking for someone who is mindful of his health through natural means.
I'm passionate and committed to the health of individuals and the planet. This makes me a pain in the Tukas to those more casual about it. 😱 If this is not your lifestyle then just move on to the next delightful lady. In this amazing time and place we all have the ability to choose our path.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I spend my days helping people become healthy and pain free using homeopathy, nutrition, Pilates, kinesiology, massage, energy and caring.
Also eating yummy (usually organic) foods, going to concerts, dancing, yoga (of course. What woman in Ca doesn't claim to), hiking, camping, laughing.
Life with all its crooked roads is joy.
Come play with me.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Being a friend.
Finding the positive in an unpleasant situation.
Overlooking the small stuff
Losing my keys
Finding the places we are going to
Finding great restaurants/food
Being kind
Seeing another point of view
Getting cats to listen
Being late
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My hair. It's blue.
I laugh easily.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Writers are- John D McDonald, Evanovich, Moning, Mosley, Coben, Harrison the list is long and colorful. Writers are artists, the page their canvas, the world their subject, words their medium. Paint me a world to step into.

Music is Rock, Blues, worldbeat. Anything with a back beat you can't resist. Lately I've been listening to Boy and Bear, Xavier Rudd, Arctic monkeys, Kongos, One republic, Ashley Mac Isaac . I sing shamelessly to Carrie Underwood, Dido, Adele, Bonnie Raite, cowboy junkies, Lady antebellum and anybody else I can wrap my voice around.

Movies are Avatar (if you didn't love Avatar we have nothing to talk about), Life as a House, House sitter, Bringing down the house, (hmmmm is there a theme here?) The Devil Wears Prada, Mama Mia, love song for bobby long, Forrest Gump, Philadelphia . And I admit to liking Iron man, the whole Marvel series, Hansel and Grettle witch hunters, Hellboy,, The Librarian, Transformers etc. I know! It's ridiculous. I just like them.

Warning: I DO NOT WATCH TV AT ALL. Never. I haven't since I was 17. I LOVE movies though.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
These I "couldn't" live without.

What makes it worthwhile?
Great food
Love in it's many forms
Great sex
Friends & family
Work that I love
Natures wonders
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
The quality of life as opposed to a life of accumulating possessions. We seem to fill the emptiness with things, mind altering substances and food instead of looking for what will fulfill us.
or frequently
... Daydreaming
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Surprise me... I LOVE surprises.

What I'm normally doing may have nothing to do with what we do. 😎
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Hmmm... I love tattoo art but have no tattoos.

I think the world is our cosmic playground.

People frequently move me to tears in their search for more. They also move me to swearing like a long shoreman on the freeway. 😏
You should message me if
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Your heart is true yet your soul untamed.
You are self employed. You are Non conformist yet have found a way to live amongst it all.

If you are truely comfortable with who you are.

If you have more to offer than "hey baby want to meet and have sex?" Geez guys I mean really?

I'm sorry but I do not do long distance relationships with people I have never met. I try to keep it within 1-2 hours' drive of where I live. So if you live on the other side of the country I will not respond. I find it unrealistic to try to build something real with someone you've never met.

Unless you live in another country and want me to come visit. I LOVE to travel. Hahaha