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56 Wilmington, DE Woman


I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 42–58
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Feb 26
5′ 2″ (1.58m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Cancer, and it’s fun to think about
Working on university
Banking / Finance
Rather not say
Strictly monogamous
Has kids, but doesn’t want more
Likes dogs and has cats
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I'm going to say this up front...

I am no longer going to respond to anyone without a picture. It is a HUGE waste of my time. I do NOT want to hook up, have an affair with a married guy, chat just for the sake of chatting, or have a texting buddy, etc. If I give you my phone number, you should call me. If you're not looking to actually MEET someone, please move on! I'm looking for a real guy, so that I can finally close down my online profile!

I believe age is just a number, and I hope you do, too! I generally hang out with people who are about 10 years younger. With that being said, for all of you really young guys (18-40), let's be realistic! I'm not here to be that notch on your belt, or to fulfill your fantasy of being with an older woman.

I am an energetic woman, who LOVES having fun! As long as it involves music, thrill, adventure, and spontaneity, I'm in!

I love almost any kind of music! I sing in a large chorus, perform at karaoke, and occasionally sing backup with my daughter, who is a lead singer of a cover band and also does acoustic gigs. I play the piano and am trying to learn to play drums.

I like hanging out with my family and friends, getting out to ENJOY LIFE, living in the moment and not taking each day for granted. I like being involved and don't want to miss out on anything! I want to try some new things like scuba diving, kayaking, rock climbing, and ballroom dancing. I'm a quick learner, so please teach me, if you already know how. If not, wouldn't it be great to learn together?

I love to travel and see new places (and return to some favorite spots too)! Weekend getaways are great, and I have a Six Flags season pass! I want to go to Europe and still haven't been on a cruise. My passport is just waiting to be stamped again. :) I'm heading to Hawaii in November and I can't wait!

I'm not always on the go, though! I also like cozy nights spent at home, watching a movie with a big bowl of popcorn! I love to work in my yard, especially to plant a few things like herbs and tomatoes...

I miss having a friend, companion, lover, and confidant. I'm looking for an honest, positive, romantic guy to get to know, and hopefully develop into a monogamous relationship. He should like to have fun, smile a lot, love animals (I have 2 cats), and like to travel and explore.

I have been very blessed, in my life, and am very grateful to God, for my family and friends, as well as the gifts He has given me! I believe in an attitude of gratitude and that anything is possible, if you focus on it. I still have many goals in life, and would love to achieve them with my special someone.

Awards I've received:
septemberists gave me: Friends In Real Life
Awarded Apr 26

“She is a great friend and one of the sweetest people that I know. She is very talented and is also a lot of fun to be around. She is a great listener and has the ability to see things from a very practical view. I am lucky to have her as a friend. I can honestly say that the man who spends time with her will be a truly happy one and the man who wins her heart will be a truly blessed one. Treat her with kindness, compassion and above all-respect. She deserves the Prince Charming in her story and to find her "Happily Ever After". She is deserving of that. Are you ready to step up? She's worth it.”


gave me: The Perfect Mix
Awarded Jun 23

You stated in one of your answers to a question, that you and your kids are the only ones here on the east coast. So I have to ask, would you happen to be from Washington state too?
Sure would be strange.
Anyway, I would like to know more about you and see your smile in person.



gave me: Eye Candy
Awarded Jul 7

“Very nice profile. I enjoyed reading your questions and answers. You're an attractive woman but I'm not the first person to share that information with you..
Good luck here...sorry about the age difference.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I'm currently working in a multi-product collections area. We try to help our Customers, who are really struggling, by reviewing their entire relationship with us, and prioritizing what needs to be paid first (i.e. mortgage, car payment). We set up repayment programs, and get debt management assistance for them. I love helping people! I am in the process of looking for a new opportunity, hopefully involving education.

I also have a couple of side businesses and am trying to get them to "take off". I would like to go back to take a few classes, but I'm not sure when I can fit that in. Fortunately, there are so many online classes now, so I'm hoping to do that soon!

I do a lot of volunteering, for multiple organizations, and my company is very supportive of my volunteer time. In both 2011 and 2012, I volunteered over 600 hours, which I'm very proud of. I love giving back to my community!
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I love to sing and dance. I am also very crafty and like to find projects to make (self-taught).
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My smile and my eyes. I love to smile and one can usually tell my feelings through my eyes.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Authors: Janet Evanovich and Rosamunde Pilcher, motivational self-help books by Wayne Dyer, Tony Robbins, Bill Phillips, etc.

I love romantic comedies (otherwise known as chick flicks), but I also love sci-fi, action movies, etc. I'm not into horror movies or anything really gory.

Lately, I have been checking out entire TV shows, from the library, to watch them from beginning to end (or the present). I've watched, "Prison Break", which is one of my favorite shows ever!

I'm currently in the middle of watching several TV series from the beginning, including "Mad Men", "The Big Bang Theory", "Brothers and Sisters", "Glee", "Breaking Bad", and "Dexter". I really enjoy doing this because I can watch, when I have time, and there are no commercials. Also, you don't have to wait a week, or longer, to see the next consecutive show.

I have various tastes in music and love listening to almost anything! I go to karaoke and think it's a blast, especially when I'm with a group of friends.

I love seafood, sushi, Italian food, Mexican food, Chinese food, and good old steak and potatoes. Basically, I'm willing to try most foods.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My faith
My family
My friends
My pets
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How to improve my life and learn new things.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
out with friends, or family, either listening to LIVE music or sharing a nice meal and good conversation.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My hair is naturally curly. :)

I prefer guys who have no facial hair, or it's very neatly trimmed.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
If you like to have fun, meet new people, and are a bit on the spontaneous side.

Please note: I'm not looking for a texting buddy, or an email pen pal. At some point, we should talk on the phone. Then we can make plans to meet. I'm also looking to meet a guy who is looking for a relationship, not for casual dating (as they call it these days).

Just to let you know...if you're currently a "serial" dater, seeing multiple women, please keep moving to the next profile... When I'm interested in someone, I focus all my attention on them. I know how hard it is to find a relationship online with someone. I have no idea how some people can juggle several people. I think you'd forget what you told each one of them! LOL I'm not a game-player. Life is too short and our time is too precious! Please be honest and direct with me, and I'll be the same with you!