Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
ok soooo, I don't have time to meet anyone new right now, I'm
sorry. sometimes I have fun on cupid, so I'll go online for a bit,
but I'm finding it impossible for me to make plans with anyone new
in the near future - which can be the whole point here, so I wanted
to say that up front. message me if you like, I sporadically enjoy
chatting, but if you're hoping for something beyond that, I have to
send you on your way with gratitude and good luck! anyway, here's
I'm bi, I'm poly. I'm a burner, I'm a switch. (If any of these
terms are confusing to you, feel free to ask me about em). I'm
confident, open-minded, open-hearted, honest, ever-curious. I love
the sun, the night, the road, philosophy, naps, sports, animals,
movies, kisses, vodka-pineapples, travel, peace, smiles.
I'm an eternal optimist.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I guess I'm in the middle of things. some travel. some stability.
some love. friendship. work. play. exploration of the self, of the
world... little from column A, little from column B :)
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
enjoying things. conversing. staying calm. kissing and such.
certain sports. long distance driving. patience. foosball.
The first things people usually notice about me
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physically, my skin color or dreadlocks. I get asked about my
ethnic background all the time. feel free to take a guess if you
personally, my optimism/compassion maybe. I tend to point out the
light in any given event or person or whatever you got. and I'm
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
not a big reader, but suggest something good and I'll definitely
try it out.
I LOVE movies. too many to make a list that would represent me
well. let's just go with everything except horror flix.
music is awesome. I'm not super savvy, but I like at least a few
songs from every genre. know any cool open mics?
food is delicious. I really can't think of a type that I sweepingly
dislike. I just moved back to the bay from Austin, and I already
miss Texas BBQ. Thai and Indian have been favorites of mine
lately.. basically, I'll try anything once. and probably like it.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
-people I love
-open lines of communication
-my car (although interestingly enough, I'm sort of without one of
those at the moment)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
the present (and a little about the future and past). non-judgment,
non-attachment, non-resistance. the four agreements.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
-somewhere fun and cheap for dinner/drinks/dancing. or...
-home with friends/movies/wine/snacks. or...
-on a drive/walk, talking to someone interesting. or...
-doing something else, heh.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I've called cheeto puffs "cheesy poofs" since I was 5 and will
probably continue to do so for the rest of my life.
oo oo, maybe a bit embarrassing, but I love answering the questions
on cupid, especially with friends. if you wanna message me but
can't really think of anything to say, bring up a question you
found interesting/funny/controversial/etc. and I'll prolly wanna
chat about it!
You should message me if
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you'd like to.
BUT keep in mind, I gave up on answering every message I receive :/
sometimes I simply wanna wander cupid however I wanna wander cupid;
I don't wanna feel obligated to spend my time going through
messages and profiles so that I might respond with adequate
consideration/sincerity (I guess it can be a whole process for me).
so now I just reply to my messages when I'm in the mood and don't
put pressure on myself to react any which way.
the POINT IS, please don't take offense if I don't answer you, even
if I've visited your page. it doesn't mean there's anything wrong
with you (or with me)! the timing was simply off.
it's also a good idea to keep in mind that I will not likely feel
attracted to you (romantically speaking), unless you are:
-willing to consider lifestyles/values different from your
of course I feel a little awkward making such a list. and I want
you to know that you are amazing just the way you are! I simply
know myself well enough now, and I'm honestly trying to save
everyone time and energy.
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