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TessaMessa

25 F Austin, TX

My Details

Last Online
Jul 23
Orientation
Bisexual
Ethnicity
Height
5′ 7″ (1.70m)
Body Type
Average
Diet
Anything
Smokes
Sometimes
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Religion
Atheism, and laughing about it
Sign
Aries, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Working on university
Job
Education
Income
Relationship Status
Open relationship
Relationship Type
Offspring
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
hey, sorry ya'll, I'm not taking on new suitors at the moment... just not in a position to meet up with any more people for a while. but I'm having fun with cupid, so I wanna keep my profile up. feel free to read and message and whatnot. just keep in mind my current limitations. I'll chat when I can chat, and I'll always appreciate your interest, warms my heart :D ya'll are awesome! ok, anywayzzz:

I'm easy-going, generally up for anything. I love the beach, the sun, naps, sports, driving, writing, walking, exploring, watching movies, philosophizing...

I'm an eternal optimist.
What I’m doing with my life
I guess I'm in the middle of things. some travel. some stability. some love. friendship. work. play. exploration of the self, of the world... little from column A, little from column B *shrugs*
I’m really good at
enjoying things. conversing. editing papers. staying calm. kissing and related activities. certain sports. long distance driving. patience. foosball.
The first things people usually notice about me
physically, my skin color. I get asked about my ethnic background all the time. feel free to take a guess if you want.

could be my sense of humor depending on who you are to me. I'm not particularly funny, but I laugh easily, at myself or anyone else who has a sense of humor.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
not a big reader, but suggest something good and I'll definitely try it out.

I LOVE movies. too many to make a list that would represent me well. let's just go with everything except horror (although Insidious was pretty great).

music is awesome. I'm not super savvy, but I like at least a few songs from every genre. know any cool open mics?

food is delicious. I really can't think of a type that I sweepingly dislike. what's good here? oh, I went to Salt Lick--that bbq was AMAZING! I wanna go back during the day sometime, check out the winery. basically, I'll try anything once. and probably like it.
The six things I could never do without
-parents and friends (can they just count as two?)
-warmth--interpret as u will
-car (Wanda the honda)
-lap top--with netflix account
-touch
I spend a lot of time thinking about
the present. (and a little about the future and past).
On a typical Friday night I am
-somewhere fun and cheap for dinner/drinks/dancing. or...
-home with friends/movies/wine/snacks/hookah. or...
-on a drive/walk, talking to someone interesting. or...
-doing something else, heh.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I've called cheeto puffs "cheesy poofs" since I was 5 and will probably continue to do so for the rest of my life.

oo oo, maybe a bit embarrassing, but I love answering the questions on cupid, especially with friends. if you wanna message me but can't really think of anything to say, bring up a question you found interesting/funny/controversial/etc. and I'll prolly wanna chat about it!
I’m looking for
  • Guys and girls who like bi girls
  • Ages 21–30
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
you'd like to.

BUT keep in mind, I kinda gave up on answering every message I receive :-/ sometimes I simply wanna wander cupid however I wanna wander cupid; I don't wanna feel obligated to spend my time going through messages/profiles so that I might respond with adequate consideration/sincerity (I guess it can be a whole process for me, haha). so now I just go into my messages when I'm in the mood and don't put pressure on myself to react any which way.

the POINT IS, please don't take offense if I don't answer you (or don't answer you right away), even if I've been online. it doesn't mean there's anything wrong with you (or with me)! the timing was simply off.

side note: if you REALLY wanna chat, and I haven't gotten back to you in a while, message me again--sometimes I read em but don't feel like responding right then, and since I can't click *mark as unread*, they get lost in my mailbox.

it's also a good idea to keep in mind that I will not likely feel attracted to you (romantically speaking), unless you are:

-very good-looking
-queer-positive
-poly-positive
-notably confident
-critical thinking
-willing to consider lifestyles/values different from your own
-light hearted

(of course I feel like a total tool for making such a list, but I'm honestly just trying to save everyone time and energy)