PLEASE read my whole profile or at least the "You should message me if" part before contacting me😊
Well, I had the fairy tale once & although we didn't live "happily ever after" they were some of the best years of my life. I have no regrets & believe everything happens for a reason. I don't believe in a relationship being 50/50, it takes 100% from both to make it work. I'm very independent & secure with my life so I'm looking for the same in a partner. I LOVE having a man in my life but I'm not one of those women that fall apart without a man. I have 2 awesome boys (18 & 20) Oldest lives on his own & is in college here...youngest is a Freshman at NC State so I will be spending a lot of football wknds in Raleigh...And it makes it even better since red is my fav color👍 I'm not on here just lookin for a hookup or FWB, those are easy to find & not what I'm after. I have a wonderful life & only need ONE man to share it with. I'm very optimistic, not afraid to speak my mind & I'm far from shy. I love a confident man but arrogance & negativity are huge turnoffs. I'm also a very loyal friend, great listener & would be the first one there to help a friend in need.
I've lived in Charlotte for 15 years & have lots of wonderful friends here, but I still don't consider it home. Not sure where I will end up...may just throw a dart at a map & go from there. I may be ready for a change in a couple years but I'll cross that bridge when my boys finish college. Will probably end up at the beach or on a lake somewhere...I love the water!
***I am not interested in meeting, responding to or dating a guy that's young enough to be my son...I'm flattered but it isn't happenin:)) AND if you have shirtless bathroom/bedroom pics (while flexing) on your profile, well it isn't happenin either...BIG turnoff guys! If you are at the beach or on a boat that's cool😊 WHAT IS UP WITH ALL THE SHIRTLESS BATHROOM MIRROR SELFIES? SMDH 😝
AND BTW...brushing your teeth ONCE a day is NOT good oral hygiene guys...just sayin :)