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53 Charlotte, NC Woman


I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 45–58
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Today – 8:19am
5′ 5″ (1.65m)
Body Type
Strictly monogamous
Has kids, but doesn’t want more

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My self-summary
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Trying this one more time...I'm beginning to think my soulmate is lost & refuses to ask for directions😊 About to give up👎😜 *** If you're just lookin for casual sex don't bother...I'm not your girl!!!
I know there's honest men out there...but amazed at the game players on here!! I'm far from stupid, naive or desperate so plz don't waste my time😉
AND PLEASE read my whole profile or at least the "You should message me if" part before contacting me😊

Well, I had the fairy tale once & although we didn't live "happily ever after" they were some of the best years of my life. I have no regrets & believe everything happens for a reason. I don't believe in a relationship being 50/50, it takes 100% from both to make it work. I'm very independent & secure with my life so I'm looking for the same in a partner. I LOVE having a man in my life but I'm not one of those women that fall apart without a man. I have 2 awesome boys (19 & almost 21) Oldest lives on his own & is in college here...youngest is a Freshman at NC State so I will be spending a lot of football wknds in Raleigh...And it makes it even better since red is my fav color👍 I'm not on here just lookin for a hookup or FWB, those are easy to find & not what I'm after. I have a wonderful life & only need ONE man to share it with. I'm very optimistic, not afraid to speak my mind & I'm far from shy. I love a confident man but arrogance & negativity are huge turnoffs. I'm also a very loyal friend, great listener & would be the first one there to help a friend in need.
I've lived in Charlotte for 15 years & have lots of wonderful friends here, but I still don't consider it home. Not sure where I will end up...may just throw a dart at a map & go from there. I may be ready for a change in a couple years but I'll cross that bridge when my boys finish college. Will probably end up at the beach or on a lake somewhere...I love the water!
***I am not interested in meeting, responding to or dating a guy that's young enough to be my son...I'm flattered but it isn't happenin:)) AND if you have shirtless bathroom/bedroom pics (while flexing) on your profile, well it isn't happenin either...BIG turnoff guys! If you are at the beach or on a boat that's cool😊 WHAT IS UP WITH ALL THE SHIRTLESS BATHROOM MIRROR SELFIES? SMDH 😝
AND BTW...brushing your teeth ONCE a day is NOT good oral hygiene guys...just sayin :)
What I’m doing with my life
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Enjoying it!! But it would be nice to have a fun man with a great sense of humor to share it with. Being a mom & dad to my boys since their father passed away 7 yrs ago😢 and now adjusting to being an empty nester but, I must say, I kinda like it😊👍
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Lots of things:)...I'm a great handy girl & will attempt to try & fix something myself before asking for help...but I LUV having a handyman around😉
The first things people usually notice about me
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Not will have to tell me
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Huge Pink Floyd junkie... Led Zeppelin, Stones, Rush, Stevie Ray Vaughan, AC/DC, Moody Blues, Seether, Collective Soul, Staind, Aerosmith, Hinder, Mötley Crüe, Santana, Bon Jovi, 3 Doors Down, Eagles, Depeche Mode, Yanni, Enya, Enrique Iglesias just a few fav's..Mainly Classic Rock & Alternative. And of course growing up in Texas I do like some Country. Not into Rap...sorry that's not "music" to me😝
Last read the 50 Shades Trilogy...currently reading Steven Tyler's book...Prefer non-fiction but like Sidney Sheldon, Nicholas Sparks & Stephen King
Good Italian & Seafood are fav foods. I've recently tried Sushi & like what I've had so far
Love to snow ski & spend time in the mountains...Also enjoy live music & a great concert.
DALLAS COWBOYS & HOUSTON TEXANS...ok & I guess I'm a Panther fan too:)
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My 2 son's
Feather pillows
Great friends
Toothbrush/Dental floss
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Selling my house & downsizing now that my boys are in college & running away to a little cabin in the woods...Lake Lure maybe? Or may end up at the beach in a couple years... I'm definitely ready for a change & new adventure.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Usually out with friends or have friends over. I'm far from a homebody but I do enjoy those quiet nights at home...But it would be much nicer to have a fun man to enjoy it with too😉 Just became an empty nester so kinda lost without a house full of teenagers😒
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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You should message me if
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YOU LIVE WITHIN DRIVING DISTANCE & WANT TO MEET!!! Not into chatting, txt'n, emailing or messaging on here...BORING!!
You are OVER your divorce or past relationship & you are not just lookin for casual sex...I'm waaaay over the fling thing or FWB stage👎
You have a great sense of humor & don't need meds or alcohol to be happy.
I've been back on a serious health kick
& feel awesome so definitely not interested in any couch potatoes...I'm certainly not a size 2 but I want an active man that will exercise & be active with me.
You don't smoke cigs AND you brush your teeth more than once a day...yes this is a MANDATORY requirement😁 I WILL NOT DATE A CIGARETTE SMOKER...Sorry I like to kiss too much & cigs are just nasty😝👎 Not into the game players, serial daters, cons, liars or married men! If there's no chemistry I'm always up for making a new friend.
PS...I'm using the OKC app on my phone & there is no way to sign I guess it shows me online 24/7...but I promise I don't like this site that much to stay on it constantly
PSS...U cons are SOOOOO obvious & all say the same shit! So plz don't bother...I'm far from stupid, naive or desperate!! Sad that there are so many insecure women that fall for it tho👎 NO...JOHN, JOE OR BOB "BY NAME"...I DON'T WANT TO GET TO KNOW YOU "MORE BETTER" OR "HOPE TO READ FROM YOU SOON" 😂😂 You all say you are "new" to online dating, usually widowed & raising a kid on your own BOO F'N HOO😨😥😪 such a flippin joke!!