BUT if you just wanna get beer or drinks and talk about books and romance and relationships and stuff that could be nice.
(Dear guys visiting my profile because you're interested in my wife's profile: she is amazing. She's also picky, so be sure to write her something really impressive if you want to hear back.)
(Sorry for the lack of real pictures. My wife and I are out to friends and family but not so much in our professional lives, so we lean toward the discreet. Photos are of course available if we get to talking.)
I'm a professional writer (mostly fantasy/science fiction) and editor with a day job at an arts nonprofit. I like cooking, spirited arguments about books, drinking with friends, watching and talking about movies and TV, walking around the East Bay, and making things up and writing them down for fun and profit.
I'm happily married (in an open relationship with the wonderful VioletWheat). Looking for people it would be fun to talk to and hang out with, and if those friendships develop into more, fantastic.
I've pretty much achieved the things I always dreamed about -- my life revolves around love and art, I'm successful in my creative endeavors, and I can afford to get brunch most weekends -- so at this point I'm just looking to make things even more awesome.