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Thanatos_Inc

42 / M / straight / Single

Junction City, Kansas

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Ethnicity
White
Height
5' 8" (1.72m).
Body Type
Average
Looking For
Long-term dating
Smokes
Yes
Drinks
Not at all
Drugs
Never
Religion
Judaism but not too serious about it
Sign
Cancer but it doesn’t matter
Education
Job
Other
Income
Rather not say
Kids
Likes children
Pets
Likes dogs and Owns cats
Languages
English

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I am honest, witty, and intelligent.

My Self-Summary

(LOTS OF LOOKERS...but no messages. Ladies, it's been a LONG time since I've tried to get back into the singles game. I was content for some time as merely being an observer...for the most part. So even a mesage suggesting how I fix this profile up to be more appealing, while maintaining my integrity and honesty, would be appreciated.)

I may well be one of the last honest people when in comes to speaking with those on the Internet. Put simply, don't ask a question if you don't want a truthful answer.

I spend a great deal of time at home, usually doing something that engages my imagination. Movies, books, writing, and games...these are the things that fill my day. If you're seeking someone to earn tons of money and spoil you, you've come to the wrong profile. I'm on a limited income, and would rather fall into a relationship with a beautiful woman who is financially set...but not for her money...for the fact that there would be one less worry in the future. (Love is not the size of a bank account, but the love and understanding in one's heart.)

That may require a bit of explaining. You see, because I'm disabled and on a limited income, I've struggled for several years. The economic downturn we all seem to have experienced was that much harder on people like myself who cannot work overtime, and/or can't seek another job. Thankfully, I have some of the greatest friends on the planet, with many of them helping me through my perpetual rough patches. So to stumble upon a relationship with a woman who has plenty of money to spare would mean not having to worry about where the next dollar is coming from, should things take a turn for the serious. But I am *NOT* looking for a romance based on money. That would be foolishness incarnate.

Oh...On the chance that you're wondering where my user name came from, its origin lies in a screenplay that I've written. I haven't made a sale on any of my work, but that's mostly due to an inability to send anything out to agents and producers. That may change in the immediate future.

What I’m doing with my life

Not a whole heck of a lot at the moment. I just moved from Phoenix, AZ, to Junction City, KS, and am still trying to adjust to my new life here. I'm hoping to settle in before winter does, but I no longer do anything as fast as I once could.

I’m really good at

Communicating. Be it telling a tale, to discussing current events, I'm told I'm well-spoken and often entertaining. Sometimes I will say something shocking to go for the laugh, as laughter...well, it may not be the BEST medicine, but it's certainly a good one.

The first things people usually notice about me

...are my broad shoulders. Even as a kid, my shoulders were an "issue"...but I'll save that for the "getting to know you" chats.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

In terms of books and movies, sci-fi, fantasy, and comedy are my favorites. I listen to many different kinds of music, with the exception of rap. As for food...Italian, Chinese, and Jewish foods are favorites.

The six things I could never do without

1: Love
2: Friends
3: My prescription meds
4: Clothes
5: Food
6: Shelter

I spend a lot of time thinking about

How freakin' lonely I am. Honestly, the last serious, long-term relationship I was in ended in January of 2000. It was seemingly the last betrayal, and until a friend pushed me to coming to this site, I don't think I'd have the courage to risk my heart one more time.

On a typical Friday night I am

Home, killing time on the computer, reading a book, or watching a movie. I have no life to speak of. =(

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

How much more honesty could you want? I'm physically disabled (but not deformed or maimed) by diabetes, come with enough emotional baggage to require a valet, and have already confessed on my public blog that I have issues galore! Want details? Ask...but be prepared for the truth.

You should message me if

...you want to get to know a guy who's been told often that he has a GREAT heart. Not a "good" heart...No, some folks on the web have threatened to start worshiping me because they think I'm the greatest thing to come along since sliced bread. (I, in turn, usually suggest they seek professional psychiatric help.) This is not an attempt at flexing my ego...more of a report as to what others have said.