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Thanduril

34 / M / straight / Single

Vienna, Austria

The Skinny

Last Online
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Ethnicity
White
Height
5' 10" (1.80m).
Body Type
Looking For
New friends, Long-term dating, Short-term dating
Smokes
No
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Never
Religion
Catholicism but not too serious about it
Sign
Aquarius but it doesn’t matter
Education
Working on masters program
Job
Computer / Hardware / Software
Income
Kids
Pets
Dislikes dogs and Likes cats
Languages
English (Fluently), German (Fluently), LISP (Okay), C++ (Okay)

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I am thoughtful, caring, and sarcastic.

My Self-Summary

A summary of myself... me, in a nutshell. Hmm. This is hard, because there's a whole world hiding behind words like 'you' or 'me'.

I probably qualify as a geek. I'm interested in science, almost every aspect of it. I was born with a natural curiosity to understand "how things work", be it computer science, astronomy, physics, or engineering. Because of this scientific mind, I'm also a rationalist; I'm more likely to act on consideration than on impulse. I'm not a typical geek though. My clothes are usually clean, my hair is washed, I dislike beer (!), and my weight is closer to 50 kilos than to 100 ;)

I'm quite ambitious, but unfortunately also quite lazy... so usually I don't do much and then feel bad about it. From time to time I have some bursts of energy though. I wish they were more frequent, or lasted longer.

I'm neither social nor anti-social. I'm not shy, but reserved, and thus feel more comfortable in small groups of people than in large ones. If there is something to add to a conversation, I will do so, otherwise I'll remain silent; I'm not too fond of smalltalk, but I realize this might be a skill that needs some training.

I'm neither possessive nor jealous, but nonetheless, I like openness and honesty. If I like you, I'm not afraid to say so, and it amazes me to no end how easily you seem to be able to scare people by doing just that!

What I’m doing with my life

I study computer science at the Vienna University of Technology, and work a halftime job as a software developer. I go jogging, even ran a marathon once, and play badminton occasionally. I also have a creative side I try to find the right outlets for; I'm an ok woodworker, I dabble in glassblowing, and enjoy crafting things in general. I can play classical guitar, and are currently learning to juggle (working on 4 clubs and 5 balls at the moment... recently, I'm making some progress with 5 balls, so I'll be able to do it quite soon! Yay!)

The first things people usually notice about me

"Doesn't this poor guy get anything to eat?"

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

Favorite things include, but are not limited to:

Books: Essays in Love (Alain de Botton, a must read for everyone!), Discworld novels (Terry Pratchett)

Movies: Amélie (cute love story), The Life of Brian (the Monty Python classic), The Big Lebowski, Muttertag

Music: Very non-deterministic, so let's do the opposite. Notable specimens in the category "makes me want to punch innocent people in the face" are: Hansi Hinterseer, Eros Ramazotti

Food: Spinatstrudel mit Schafkäse (yum!), chinese food

The six things I could never do without

- The Internet (hope this isn't cheating):
but really, it's great. The possibilities are endless.

- Sarcasm:
what better way to deal with the sad truth than to laugh it right in the face?

- Goals and Challenges:
something to keep you moving in a direction... any direction.

- Love/Intimacy:
well ok, technically this is incorrect, because I AM doing without... I don't want to, though.

I spend a lot of time thinking about

Everything. I think entirely too much, mostly because I spend a lot of time on my own. Usually that's not a bad thing, but occasionally I wish there were less thinking, and more doing (on my part). Not infrequently, I think about my search for love. I have to admit, I'm a bit of a romantic. You know... evening walks, holding hands, feeling closeness, intimacy... that's what I'm looking for. Being there for someone, caring for someone. I've been living without that for a long time, and it's not getting easier. Statistically, there are more women on earth than men, so why is it so bloody hard? ;)

On a typical Friday night I am

Kicking myself to study more.

Programming, tinkering, playing board games with a few friends.

Or doing other stuff most people would consider immature or boring. Because going out and drinking yourself senseless is a lot more mature, and much less boring. Really! ;)

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

Hmm... I'll think of something.

You should message me if

You feel like it. I may or may not be a bit reserved initially, since I'm not an expert at striking up animated conversations with total strangers, but this'll change if I get to know you a bit.