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40 M Medford, OR

My Details

Last Online
Apr 10
5′ 11″ (1.80m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Other, but not too serious about it
Aries, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Has cats
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
I was born during the deadliest tornado outbreak in the 20th century, and my life has been interesting ever since.

I'm living The American Adventure and I'm looking for someone to share the experience with. Someone with an open mind, an open heart and who is willing to tell me what she has on her mind. The world is amazing if you know how to look at it.

I moved here from Ohio last year and I don't regret it. I do miss the thunderstorms, however. While my adventures aren't ending, I do want to find someone to settle down with, raise a family, and embark on Griswold-like road trips across America.

I'm nerdy and well traveled; back in my Navy days I traveled all over the south Pacific - so I have a more cosmopolitan outlook than most people I've met. That does tend to draw interesting people into my world.
What I’m doing with my life
I work for a software company as a system administrator for over 200 companies scattered across North America.

On my off time I like to hike the various local trails, usually listening to a podcast (current favorite is Jay and Silent Bob Get Old). If I can find a perfect view reachable by a trail, I will seek it out. I usually end up driving out to the coast once or twice a month for a short day trip.

When I'm not hiking I working on my current passion, writing.
I’m really good at
Asking questions that need to be asked.
Making people laugh at funerals.
The first things people usually notice about me
My Camus smirk and my necklace.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Music - I'm partial to ambient and electronica. Aphex Twin,Boards of Canada, Nine Inch Nails, Orbital, Peter Gabriel, KMFDM, Puscifer, Girl in a Coma, Garbage, LL Cool J (before he bought in), Ice Cube (before he sold out), Corvin Dalek, Underworld, Johnny Cash, Thomas Tallis, Placebo, Buddy Holly and The Crickets.

Television - Archer, Dexter, Doctor Who, Burn Notice, How I met Your Mother, Venture Brothers and Parks and Recreation . I was a fan of Torchwood, Breaking Bad and Battlestar Galactica back when it was on. I survived all 10 seasons of Smallville. And Alton Brown on Good Eats taught me to enjoy cooking again.

Movies - Moon, Drive, Natural Born Killers, District 9, Scott Pilgrim and Kick Ass. And if a Kevin Smith movie is on, I'll usually get drawn into it. Oh, and zombies, I love bad zombie films (Cinemageddon FTW!).

Food - Steaks and unusual foods. I'll try anything once!

Books - I'm revisiting philosophy and seeing things in a far new light. I used to be a voracious sci-fi, mystery and horror reader.
The six things I could never do without
An open mind.
A view of the night sky.
Challenging conversation.
My cat Loki.
My 110 year old cast iron skillet.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
ditching it all and becoming a wandering monk like Caine from Kung-Fu.
On a typical Friday night I am
Heading out to the coast or finding a new trail to hike in the area.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I'm ready to settle down and raise a family.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 28–43
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating
You should message me if
If you are not allergic to cats and you would enjoy watching the sun rise on Little Table Rock, or going on a random day road-trip to the coast just to see the ocean (obviously not on a first date, LOL).