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28 F Chicago, IL

I’m looking for

  • Guys and girls who like bi girls
  • Ages 27–38
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Today – 6:58am
Hispanic / Latin, White
5′ 6″ (1.68m)
Body Type
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids
Likes dogs and has cats
English (Poorly), Spanish (Poorly), French (Poorly), C++ (Okay)

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My self-summary
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Just another Trixie looking for that 666

Recently left my day job to transition into iOS dev; I quickly realized that spending 3 years in an office had seriously cramped my social life. Now I'm looking for friend-o's living in the Near West 'hoods (Logan, Wicker, UK, etc.) who like frequenting small neighborhood bars & coffee shops.

Interests include art, design, tech, cats, vinyl, British comedy, quasi-gourmet cooking, yoga, Keds, trying to the find ever-mysterious "perfect jeans for my shape", and iced coffee.

My Universal Truths:
1) you can totally judge a man by his pants
2) a video is worth more than 1,000 words.

Me in a nutshell

IG: alabastergold
Twitter: alabaster_gold
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Decorating a room in 30 minutes flat, picking out clothes for my friends to wear on dates, getting animals to like me (communing with squirrels outside my window), budgeting, and coming up with hair-brained ideas that hopefully can be patented.

Also, Overthinking thingz
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
You tell me (but only if you see me in real life)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: A Wrinkle in Time, The Stand, Murder on the Orient Express, Everything is Illuminated

Movies: Adaptation, 2001: A Space Odyssey, Mystic Pizza, The Last Emperor, Zoolander, Mr. Smith Goes to Washington, Arsenic & Old Lace, Nightmare Before Christmas, It Happened One Night, Gone with the Wind, Pride & Prejudice (both 30's & 90's versions), Hocus Pocus, 12 Angry Men, Chinatown, The Pervert's Guide to Ideology

Shows: Game of Thrones, True Detective (Rust's [pre-breakdown] pants = perfect pants), Charmed, Dexter, Gilmore Girls, That Mitchell & Webb Look, Sherlock, Louie, Peep Show, Bob's Burgers, The Wire

Music: Bach, Beach Boys, Vampire Weekend, The Replacements, Vivaldi, Sky Ferreira, LCD Soundsystem, ELO, Ennio Morricone, Talking Heads, PSB, Stereo Total, Diego Garcia, 311 (yes, 311... *hits bowl*), Lavender Diamond, Marcos Valle, Hum, Vashti Bunyan, The Ramones, ABBA

Current Fave

Podcast: T(oo) B(eautiful) T(o) L(ive)

Food: Napoli style pizza, Korean BBQ, Milanesa Tortas
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
*No Particular Order*

1) Good Music
2) My cat (animals in general)
4) An internet device (preferably a computer)
5) Vacations
6) Delicious Food (I basically cook all my meals)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.

The big picture, minute details, adopting a dog (basset hound mix), traveling, utility patents, my vague ambitions, etc.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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When I was little, I was SOOO obsessed with traditional Chinese culture that when people asked me what I wanted to be when I grow up I would solemnly, and honestly reply: "Chinese"
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