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That_Deity

32 M Oakland, CA

My Details

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Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
Black
Height
5′ 11″ (1.80m)
Body Type
Diet
Smokes
Drinks
Drugs
Religion
Agnosticism, and laughing about it
Sign
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Art / Music / Writing
Income
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids
Pets
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
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Back West after long hiatus...

Indie dude seeks witty gal with style, attitude, and impeccable grace for walk along arboretum, dynamic conversation, and bebop jazz over Manhattans. New Zealand accent and penchant for vintage records a plus.

(Or, something.)
What I’m doing with my life
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Wrapping up first novel, three chapters into YA piece.

Instructing six-year-olds in finer points of cello technique.

Helping my friend build her loft.

Applying to MFA programs.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Extreme walks. Accruing late fees from the library. Not driving. Sporting long johns.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Recently, A Visit from the Goon Squad, Der Mann ohne Eigenschaften and Zadie Smith (anything).

Just saw The Grand Budapest Hotel - possibly Anderson's best yet.

Mad Men is fun, but my nephew doesn't approve of the subject matter so we watch Frasier instead. Louie is next level programming.

Tibetan monks in the morning, Neo-Soul at night.

I try to keep my diet healthy and adventurous. I'm an unfathomable pit for the good stuff; I can usually be caught in the act with a plate of Pad Thai or Indian.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
books
tea
laptop
perspective
smelly cheese
toothbrush

honorarble mention: socks, preferably fresh
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
unsure of anything, really. But, this morning I sat in a Vinyāsa class for the first time and I now look forward to getting back to it!
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
blerp
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 25–33
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, short-term dating
You should message me if
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You seek value in the concrete, as well as the abstract. You're charming and you can handle it.

I have an expressive face, emphatic communication style, and I can sound like Obama, so I'm basically interested in meeting someone who isn't frightened of me and, you know, wants to makeout.