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ThatsBeat

23 / M / straight / Single

Dayton, New Jersey

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I am sardonic, sassy, and stark.

My Self-Summary

I strive to be brief.

What I’m doing with my life

Completing my higher education and attempting to write.
Attempting to dream but failing to sleep.
Going to concerts and getting my ass kicked.
Not going to concerts, still getting my ass kicked.

I’m really good at

Some video games, eating, copy editing, coming up with simple chord progressions, I'm a halfway decent writer.

The first things people usually notice about me

My tattoo.
Hair.
Shirt?

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

Books:
Killing Yourself to Live
Invisible Monsters
Cat's Cradle
High Fidelity
Sex, Drugs, and Cocoa Puffs
The Tao of Jeet Kune Do
The Tao of Wu

Movies:
High Fidelity
Amelie
Life Aquatic
Diner
Way of the Dragon
An assortment of campy old films and martial arts flicks with a pinch of romance and comedy.

Music:
Metric
Thee Michelle Gun Elephant
D.O.A.
Bane
Trial
Feist
Wu-Tang Clan
This is a poor representation of the music I like.

Food: Mexican, Chinese, and Italian are the holy trinity.

The six things I could never do without

Guitar
Pens
Paper
Friends
Music
Film

I spend a lot of time thinking about

Music.
The world around me.
What could I be doing right now?
Why people think it's trendy to wear eyeglass frames that lack lenses.
How remarkable it is that illiteracy is still an issue in a country where education is provided to everyone.

On a typical Friday night I am

Either working or going out somewhere. Philadelphia and New York are primary targets when I have nothing to do. Or if that's where my something just so happens to lie.

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

I brush my teeth in the shower. Honestly, it's not that private, but creativity eludes me at the moment.

That while I hold a deep contempt for my job as a valet, I secretly love it in the way that I get to see others make fools of themselves.

You should message me if

Simple curiosity or you can't come up with an honest reason not to.