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36 Toronto, Ontario, CA Man


I’m looking for

  • Everyone
  • Ages 18–46
  • Near me
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 8:37pm
Pansexual, Queer, Bisexual, Sapiosexual
6′ 1″ (1.85m)
Body Type
Strictly anything
Sagittarius, and it’s fun to think about
Art / Music / Writing
Strictly non-monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), Hebrew (Fluently), French (Poorly), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I'm a rather honest/blunt sort. Most find it endearing :) As such, I just put it all out there.

And I'll start with this...
If any of the following is a dealbreaker for you:
Thanks a ton for stopping by, best of luck, and have a great day.

Otherwise, please read on :)

I'm a(n)
- actor/director, a musician and a writer.
- huge foodie and love to cook
- energy worker, and good with my hands.
- supporter of the Oxford comma.
- huge cheeseball - I love to laugh and make (bad) jokes :)
- possibly the biggest geek you'll ever meet. Possibly.
- maker and liker of lists
- total cuddleslut
- Sagittarius - most definitely
- kinky - been into the BDSM lifestyle for over a decade now. If you're curious, ask. I'm really open about it:) It's not a requirement of my partners (see poly), but it's something I'm into (if you're on FL, feel free to send a message with your username)
- wearer of pants, sometimes in kilts, skirts, shorts, or none of the above. My space welcomes any type of clothing one chooses to wear (including none).
- fan of and missing Wreck Beach.
- poly. I just want you to know what you're getting into (see thoughts on it below).
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Working on my acting / theatre career is currently the most important thing in my life and I take it rather seriously.

I've produced theatre and acted in a number of productions, been in commercials, indie films and on TV.

I actually do work in my industry and when I'm not in front of the camera, I'm doing production or other tech work. It does make it hard to plan stuff, so if you're up for spur-of-the-moment, all the better!

Lately really gotten into rock climbing :)
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Cooking - I make seriously yummy food
writing - I used to tour & compete as a slam poet
acting - It's my passion (also directing, and anything else related to the theatre
not being a 9-5er - nor am I likely to ever be
music - I'm a trained singer / brass player. I've toured as a singer-songwriter
computers - I can build 'em, take 'em apart & put 'em back together
geeking out - ie being me :)
making you laugh - see cheeseball
Cards Against Humanity - 'cause I have no shame
Munchkin - If you don't know, look it up.
Trivia - seriously, bring it.
stuff - ohh the stuff. I like stuff... where was I? Oh right...
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
my eyes, my height, my personality.
Not necessarily in that order
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
a) I don't think I've read anything in a while that wasn't a play, but I do love a good satire.
b) The Princess Bride - 'nuff said
c) stage or tv?
d) many many types - I've got a really eclectic collections
e) I like food. I'm a big foodie, so too much to list here

But hey, here's some good conversation fodder :)
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Community, the arts, learning, honesty, sex, love, connection

(Yes that's 7, meh :p )
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Theatre. My personal artistic goals and direction. How to cultivate a rewarding and financially viable career in the arts.

Dynamics in friendships/relationships/poly/kink
One of the things that I've learned in my journey is that 'ranking' relationships, really doesn't work for me. Each relationship I have is its own separate thing with its own dynamic and is not a relation to any other relationship I or any of my partners may have. So rather than 'primary/secondary/etc' I find it really gives me the freedom to fully explore a connection with a specific person.
I very much value the friendships in my life - they're very important to me - and I feel fortunate to be able to explore different levels of intimacy with those close to me.

OKC's new orientation & relationship options! (well done!)

And a myriad of geeky things!
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
I don't have a typical Friday night. On any given Friday, I can be found working, at a show, out hanging with friends, or just enjoying some down time at home
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I've played naked Rock Band. It's. Ton of fun.

I really don't like zombies. They squick me out. There, I've said it.

Also, I can not make it through Les Miz without crying. It's just not possible.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
- have a brain and can carry on a conversation.
- know to laugh at the world (or at least near it).
- know the difference between "your" / "you're" & "their" / "there" / "they're" (yes, I will correct you). ( it's mandatory that you agree with this!)
- actually want to meet (at least for a coffee) rather than exchange endless emails.
- are cool with someone who's poly - or at least want to find out more.
- want to talk theatre, music, politics, philosophy, gaming, computers, superheroes, or any other interesting/geeky thing

Or if you think I'm hot; Or interesting;
Or you just wanna ask me something;
Or you've gotten this far and are still looking over my profile;
Or if I visited your profile and you're sad I didn't send you a message, hehe.
Or you wanna go climbing with me, or take me riding!
Really, just about any reason :P