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TheBayer

33 / M / straight / Single

Santa Clara, California

The Skinny

Last Online
Join Date
Ethnicity
White
Height
6' 0" (1.82m).
Body Type
Average
Looking For
New friends, Long-term dating, Activity partners, Long-distance penpals
Smokes
No
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Never
Religion
Christianity but not too serious about it
Sign
Cancer and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from college/university
Job
Computer / Hardware / Software
Income
Rather not say
Kids
Likes children
Pets
Likes cats
Languages
English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly)

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I am inquisitive, creative, and jovial.

My Self-Summary

I'm a fairly content person who enjoys finding the humor in life. I love to create art in any way I can, be it photography, painting, music, or poetry. I love to be out in nature, nothing is as soothing as green hills and blue sky. I have a job in software engineering, but nearly everything interests me to some degree. I'm looking for someone who enjoys life and creativity as well. I love all sorts of music, but I have an affinity for Industrial and 70s Rock.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

Books: I tend to really like sci-fi, but enjoy other fiction as well. Most things by Heinlein, Clifford Simak, and Andre Norton. I really enjoyed the Clan of the Cavebear books as well.

Movies: Oy... favorites... this is a tough one. I love so many movies, and the list changes with mood. That said, the ones I find amazing are: American History X, Eternal Sunshine on a Spotless Mind, Dummy, Code 46, Salton Sea ...; Fun films: DEBS, Princess Diaries, But I'm a Cheerleader, Eurotrip, Blade Series, X-Men Series, ...; Emotional Films: Stepmom, Unbearable Lightness of Being, As Good As It Gets, 13 Going on 30, Bridges of Madison County ... ; Interesting Films: Pi, Requium For a Dream, Dark City, 12 Monkeys, The Price of Milk ... Okay, I could go on and on...

Music: VNV Nation, Assemblage 23, Tori Amos, Pink Floyd, Delerium, Toto, Linda Dunn ... so many more. I like almost everything but Hip-hop, modern RnB, Rap, and twangy Country.

Food: Good steaks, french fries, creme brulee, fresh fruit, curries, good marinara... Basicly almost anything Chinese, Mexican, Italian, Thai, Indian, Afghanni, Russian, Polish, ...

I spend a lot of time thinking about

Why things work the way they do. What motivates people. What is important in life.

On a typical Friday night I am

Dinner with friends, hanging out, etc.