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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 35–50
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Online now!
6′ 2″ (1.88m)
Mostly anything
Catholicism, but not too serious about it
Gemini, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from university
Strictly monogamous
Has a kid, and might want more
Likes dogs and has cats
English (Fluently)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
About me and who I am looking for:
I'm a Firefighter/RN, Have Tattoos, Drive a truck,Target Shoot and listen to country music what else needs to be said!

My ideal relationship isn’t one of wild extremes (arctic mountain climbing or bombastic breaking up and making up). For me, and I hope for you, it would more than suffice to share our thoughts, our triumphs, our failures (may they be few) and a fun, meaningful, lasting love.

Why You Might Enjoy Having Me on Your Arm

People say that I’m cooler than the other side of the pillow, and with 25 years working in firefighting and healthcare I guess I can handle myself in a good number of situations. However, if we hit it off I don’t expect any evening news-type experiences unless it’s something like: “Breaking News: Couple spends summer evenings watching sunsets on boat while drinking wine. Will they ever stopping smiling?”

My hobbies include: boating on summer days, appreciating excellent food (from German to Japanese), babysitting when needed, autumn festivals and apple picking, on and on. I also love setting out on the road to explore historical sites. My top 2-5: Gettysburg, Maine, Vermont and New Hampshire. Guess #1 and you can pick the first date restaurant.

How This Might Become Our Best Relationship Ever

Partnerships don’t get far without equality so I only ask for what I offer: a nonjudgmental heart, a commitment to positive and open communication, personal and fiscal responsibility (no need to be a Rockefeller), and a willingness to try almost anything twice. I want us to always feel that we can be ourselves around each other and that we will be all the more loved for it. Of course, we’ll only have eyes for each other - a fact we’ll communicate verbally, physically and often. Laughing is essential. Perfection is impossible.

Charmed? Mildly Intrigued? Bewildered?

They’re all very good reasons to write.

My perception of an ideal relationship:
Complete and utter comfort. Can be myself around you without feeling judged. You can sit in your room working while I watch a classic movie and I'm entirely content. I only have eyes for you, you only have eyes for me and we communicate this verbally, physically and often. Fights are rare and when we do get into it, we don't stop talking until we've reached some sort of peace. Unparalleled companionship, unprecedented generosity and unconditional love grant us the foundation for a lasting long-term relationship.

What I've learned from past relationships:
Communication is paramount. Flossing is important. Laughing is essential. Perfection is impossible. It's better to be single than to be in a bad relationship. If it's worth it, I'll work for it, If it's not worth it, I wont waste my time. Don't say anything you'll regret because you can't take it back, words really do hurt! Finally, you must expose yourself emotionally -- it's the only way to reap love's greatest rewards.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Taking care of family. Spoiling my granddaughter.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Bringing order to chaos, Following my gut instincts and making snap decisions. Listening and being a good friend.
Being trustworthy, loyal, helpful, friendly, courteous, kind, obedient, cheerful, thrifty, brave, clean and reverent.
Oh and I give a damn good hug. I believe we transfer our “vibe” in a hug.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My stunning charm and warm personality!
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Favorite Movies - Anatomy of a Murder, Lost in Translation, Say Anything, Uncle Buck, Great Outdoors, Summer Vacation, To Kill a Mockingbird, On The Beach, The Cain Mutiny, The Hangover, Casablanca, Schindler's List, Rear Window, North by Northwest, The Searchers, An American in Paris, The Last Man on Earth, Inglourious Basterds, Taxi Driver .
Favorite Book - I don't really read that often except for boating and nursing magazines.
Favorite Food - Italian and seafood.
Favorite Music - 70's & 80's but learning to like older country.
Favorite Hobby - Being on my boat, traveling in the off boating season and target shooting.
Favorite vacation - A cruise or Walt Disney World.
Favorite Beer - Sam Adams Octoberfest
Favorite Wine - Fat Bastard Shiraz
Favorite Season of the year - Fall, love leaf peeping!
Favorite color - depends on my mood
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Besides food, water, air, clothes and a shelter ?
My Daughter & Granddaughter
Indoor plumbing
A comfortable bed
Reliable Transportation
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
* My mom, dad and brother and how I miss them.
*My Granddaughter!
*Why do people do stupid things ? In my 25 years of public safety, I have seen a lot of people do a lot of stupid things and I have often asked myself what the hell were they thinking?
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Dinner and or movies with friends.
Coffee with friends I went to school with.
Maybe just watching a classic movie on TCM.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Wishing I was as sauve as Cary Grant.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
If you think we’d have a good time talking over drinks or breakfast/lunch/dinner and you don’t often get into bar fights, that would be great. The occasional one is fine, though .Short of that, if you want to, just do it. Life is too short to wonder “what if".