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TheBluesMan

30 M Victoria, TX

I’m looking for

  • Women who like men
  • Ages 18–50
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My Details

Last Online
Oct 18
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Average
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Other, but not too serious about it
Sign
Cancer, and it’s fun to think about
Education
University
Job
Art / Music / Writing
Income
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Mostly monogamous
Offspring
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Hi my name is Patrick. I'm a musician. I play guitar and sing. I play guitar in a local band called Crossroads. I'm really into music. It's a huge part of my life. I enjoy most kinds but my favorites are blues rock and jazz. I love to joke around, anytime I'm with my friends, that's for sure gonna be happening a lot. I'm also a member of the music fraternity Phi Mu Alpha Sinfonia, which is a huge part of my life.

How to Get Along with Me

• If you want me to do something, how you ask is important. I especially don't like expectations or pressure.

• I like to listen and to be of service, but don't take advantage of this.

• Listen until I finish speaking, even though I meander a bit.

• Give me time to finish things and make decisions. It's OK to nudge me gently and non-judgmentally.

• Ask me questions to help me get clear.

• Tell me when you like how I look. I'm not averse to flattery.

• Hug me, show physical affection. It opens me up to my feelings.

• I like a good discussion but not a confrontation.

• Let me know you like what I've done or said.

• Laugh with me and share in my enjoyment of life.****

What I Like About Being the Kind of Person I Am.

• being nonjudgmental and accepting

• caring for and being concerned about others

• being able to relax and have a good time

• knowing that most people enjoy my company; I'm easy to be around

• my ability to see many different sides of an issue and to be a good mediator and facilitator

• my heightened awareness of sensations, aesthetics, and the here and now

• being able to go with the flow and feel one with the universe

What's Hard About Being the Kind of Person I am.

• being judged and misunderstood for being placid and/or indecisive

• being critical of myself for lacking initiative and discipline

• being too sensitive to criticism; taking every raised eyebrow and twitch of the mouth personally

• being confused about what I really want

• caring too much about what others will think of me

• not being listened to or taken seriously

I am laid back, musical, and a Sinfonian
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I am the lot manager at Killebrew, I also play guitar with a local blues and rock band called Crossroads.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Music, playing guitar, singing, been doing them since I was 14. Especially playing the blues, thats my thing. I love playing the blues more than anything else, so naturally I do it more and I've become pretty good at it.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My Laugh, I've been told by several people that I have a great laugh and that when I laugh they can't help but laugh too.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Books - Darkly Dreaming Dexter. James Bond Books.

Movies - I'm into most kinds of movies. Some of my favorites are The Blues Brothers, The Dark Knight, 007 films, Star Wars, Star Trek, Lord of the Rings, The Avengers, Wayne's World, Ghostbusters, Back to the Future.

Shows - Dexter, Breaking Bad, The Big Bang Theory, How I Met Your Mother, Burn Notice, Star Trek, Battlestar Gallactica, The Walking Dead, Arrow, Doctor Who, Supernatural, and a bunch of stuff off of Netflix.

Music - I enjoy most kinds but my favorites are blues rock and jazz. Aerosmith, Stevie Ray Vaughan, The Doors, Jimi Hendrix, Albert King, B.B. King, Freddie King, Robert Cray, John Lee Hooker, Robert Johnson, Howlin' Wolf, Derek Trucks, The Allman Brothers, Eric Clapton, The Bridge, The Black Keys, Pat Metheny, Wes Montgemery, Jaco Pastorius, Miles Davis, John Coltrane, Django Reinhardt, Muddy Waters, Lightning Hopkins, Bobby Bland, Buddy Guy, Joe Pass, Johnny Winter, Silverchair, Son House, Pepe Romero, Frank Sinatra, Kiss, Guns 'n' Roses, Nirvana, Goo Goo Dolls, Incubus, Stone Temple Pilots, Third Eye Blind, The Rolling Stones, Led Zeppelin, The Beatles, The Red Hot Chili Peppers, Pete Yorn, Coldplay, Weezer, The Sharp 5 Jazz Quintet, The Hot Attacks and Crossroads.

Foods - I love most kinds of food, but my favorites are Mexican, Italian, Chinese, and BBQ.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
#1 Music, there is just something about music, I love listening to it, I love making it, I love everything about it. The Power of Music is a very incredible thing.
#2 My Guitar, It's my main instrument and I'd feel lost musically without it.
#3 Friends, I love my friends, since I live on the other side of Texas from my family, they are like a second family to me.
#4 Family, I wouldn't be the man I am today without them.
#5 Good Food, I love food, its so great!
#6 Phi Mu Alpha Sinfonia, I love this fraternity so much, I've put a lot of time and effort into it and its given me so much more back. My experiences with Phi Mu Alpha have been some of the greatest of my life.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
I definitely spend a lot of time thinking about music. If I'm at home and not doing anything, its very likely I'll have my guitar in my hand.

I also spend a lot of time thinking about my fraternity. If I'm hanging out with any of my brothers, its very possible we could be discussing various things about our fraternity, that is if its just brothers hanging out.

I also think about Politics a lot.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
either hanging out with some friends or just chilling at my apartment relaxing.

And every now and then, I may be participating in a jam session.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Music is my Religion
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
if you are big into blues music or just music in general(Cause I love it all).

You're a musician as well and want to play some music together.

You find me interesting and want to get to know me better.

You're looking for a cool new friend who's easy to get along with.