Quick note before you go any further - I'm polyamorous. That means I have multiple intimate and romantic relationships, with the full knowledge & consent of everyone involved. If you don't like the fact that I frequently share my life, my love, and my bed with multiple, wonderful people, then I suggest you fuck off now.
Oh yes, I also tend towards exceptionally straightforward communication. This does mean that I am frequently described as an arsehole, but I prefer to be considered a git for speaking my mind than to ingratiate myself with someone who I evidently won't get on with, through falsehoods. Tis a matter of simple philosophy, really - if you don't like me as I am, what sense is there in trying to make you like me? In short - I'm a dick to people I dislike, but an unfaltering friend to those I like.
The general suggestion is to meet me in person if you really want to experience me properly, for written words never can quite cover the entire truth of anyone. Especially not someone to whom so many labels can be applied: bipolar, pansexual, polyamorous, web geek, sadist, activist, artisan, performer, writer, and anarchist.
In case you're curious, the webdesigner me lives at http://imakeawesome.co.uk these days.
And more can be discovered about my art, performing and writing by visiting http://thebobbu.com