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TheCactus

29 M Jesup, GA

My Details

Last Online
Jun 26
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 11″ (1.80m)
Body Type
Average
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Other, and somewhat serious about it
Sign
Virgo, but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from high school
Job
Other
Income
Relationship Status
Married
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
Offspring
Pets
Has dogs
Speaks
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
My name is Sir Ricky F Cactus, CCE , I'm 5'11", I play drums and I'm awesome. Oh, and I'm humble too. In fact, I'd go so far as to say I'm the most humble person on the planet.

THE CACTUS - now in 3 exciting colors - KHAKI, GREEN, and BLACK

I'm honest. By "honest" I mean I don't lie. If someone lies to me or to someone I care about, I find it very difficult to get over it for a long while. I find it very hard to trust anyone very much, mostly because I've been backstabbed and lied to so many times in the past, but also because I tend to be a bit paranoid at times. To be honest, there isn't a single solitary person on this entire planet that I trust 100%.

I'm an asshole. I don't mean that in the "I do mean things to people because I think it's funny" kind of way. That's what I call a dick. An asshole, to me, is someone who respects others' feelings, but is completely honest without holding back. In this line of thought, if a woman asks me "Does this make me look fat?" and it does, I'm going to tell them. Sorry, ladies.

I have incredibly high standards when it comes to my friends and family. I treat everone with respect and expect the same in return. If someone, either friend or family, lies to me, uses me, or in any other way shows me disrespect, I generally lose interest in them. I'm not the vengeful type, I usually just quit talking to them for years at the time. I've done it multiple times. I expect honesty as well.

I absolutely DESPISE absolutely ANY sort of discrimination to ANY degree. I loathe racism and sexism especially.

Instead of "Do unto others as you would have them do unto you" I live by the philosophy of "Do unto others as they do unto you." I'm more REactive than PROactive. I'm sure most people wouldn't agree, but sucks for them. If someone does me wrong, I don't do that whole "turn the other cheek" crap. I turn their cheek with my forehead. Actually no, I'm being sarcastic. In reality I am very anti-violent. I think violence is immature and only in the rarest of circumstances is it required. Even then..it's pretty fucking stupid. I, however, am sort of an unforgiving bastard. So in that sense, I'm very reactive. Realistically if someone does something to me I simply remove them from my life, never speaking to them again. I said I was reactive, not HOW reactive. ;)

Despite my rather negative way of expressing myself and the poor way I'm sure I come across, if you're a good friend to me, I'm a great friend in return. I'm nice and I'll always be honest with you, good or bad. I try my best to be there for my friends, through anything that comes up. In general, I'm really pretty awesome if you let me, but I can be pretty fucked up, too. Take the bad with the good, as they say.

According to OK Cupid, I am a 93% Match, 98% Friend, and 1% Enemy with myself. Yay!!

The word fuck is used in this profile 9 times. I'm actually surprised; I thought it'd be more.
[edit] This may be inaccurate. I haven't counted in ages, I've made several edits, and far too lazy to do so now.
Edit, 2 May 2012 : I was right, it was inaccurate, it's only six. I'm REALLY surprised.

Three words that describe me (besides the other ones): BETTER. THAN. YOU.

My family:
Well, my father's a dick. My sisters are attention-whores (and occasionally take the latter word literally). The rest of my family is made up of liars, thieves, users, gossip-mongers, etc. There's one exception-- my mother. And of course, she died. I was 13 at the time, 1997.
Before you ask: cancer.

boxes are awesome. I love boxes. you can hide in them. i like to hide in boxes

I am cactus, genius, and awesome

Edit, 2 May 2012
Lulz, so much of this is either not quite true or blatantly false, but I can't be bothered to correct it. I'm still just as honest and full of myself as ever, but some of the other stuff has changed, so message me at your own will. Well, except the details section. I corrected that since it was check and drop down boxes and easy. I'm also still lazy.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I like to pretend I'm a writer. I've been working on a book named Day Walker since fucking high school. It's a "dark fantasy" (mostly because that makes it sound cool). It has vampires, werewolves, etc. I messed around with a non-fiction book that revolved around my life and stuff I'm into. I actually managed to write out a couple hundred pages before I realized that no one on the planet will give a fuck, probably including myself. If you're interested in reading my work, you can find it at:
http://www.booksie.com/cactus

I'm in a band. I play drums. We're called Optical Delusion and we have one album out titled, oddly, Self-Titled. We're on itunes (search for Optical Delusion) and MySpace.
http://www.myspace.com/opticaldelusionsc

That's about all, I suppose. I'll update if I think of anything interesting.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
The only thing I'm REALLY good at is being an asshole. People fuck with me and they get the whole kharma thing back on them from me personally. Not that I'm cruel, I'm just really good at pissing people the hell off.

I'm decent on drums. I seem to learn fast. I think some of the beats I've come up with are pretty creative, not exactly within the "norm." I was playing for less than a year before I started recording for our record, so I guess I must be doing something right. My influences include Jess Margera of CKY, Jean-Paul Gaster of Clutch, and John Bonham of Led Zeppelin.

I'm half-ass decent at HTML and general programming. I pick it up pretty quickly. I have a website which I did entirely in notepad, which means every single line of code I've either typed by hand or at least copied/pasted from something I've typed by hand.

I'm okay at writing, though I'm not nearly good enough, by my own standards. I've allowed a few people to read my two books, what I have of them thus far, and I've gotten some good reviews thus far. I actually had a guy at work say "Anything Ricky writes is bound to be interesting. He loves to joke but ends expressing the profound." Pretty sweet, huh?
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I dislike this question because I'm not other people, so I couldn't possibly answer this question without spending time taking a survey. However, my guess, with my knowledge of how your species thinks, is that they notice what I'm wearing, the style of my hair, brand of my shoes, etc. Fascist assholes.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
(a) Anything by the following authors: Steven King and Dean Koontz. Also Anne McCaffrey, Todd McCaffrey, Edgar Allan Poe, Jim Butcher, Ray Buckland..

(b)Tim Burton: Beetle Juice (1988), Batman (1989), Edward Scissorhands (1990), Batman Returns (1992), Mars Attacks! (1996), Sleepy Hollow (1999), Planet of the Apes (2001), Big Fish (2003), Charlie and the Chocolate Factory (2005), Corpse Bride (2005)

by James Cameron: The Terminator (1984), Aliens (1986), The Abyss (1989), Terminator 2: Judgment Day (1991), True Lies (1994)

Kevin Smith: Clerks. (1994), Mallrats (1995), Chasing Amy (1997), Dogma (1999), Jay and Silent Bob Strike Back (2001), Jersey Girl (2004), Clerks II (2006)

Mel Brooks: Blazing Saddles (1974), Young Frankenstein (1974), History of the World: Part I (1981), Spaceballs (1987), Robin Hood: Men in Tights (1993), Dracula: Dead and Loving It (1995)

(c) AC/DC; Black Sabbath; Blue Oyster Cult; Bon Jovi; CKY; Clutch; Dredg Led Zeppelin; Metallica; No Charge; oiL; Optical Delusion; Queen; Rush; Strapping Young Lad; Tenacious D.; Van Halen; ZZ Top

(d) My favorite foods consists of pretty much one thing: Bacon Double Cheese Burger
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
I'm not overly fond of this question. First of all, there are few things we can't do without. Food, water, and shelter about sums it up. I suppose if I wanted to answer it like everyone else does, assuming it means "The six things I'd like to never do without"

computer- I love to write, so that's pretty important. Not to mention internet, games, etc. I love my laptop. *hugs*

book access- I read all the time, almost constantly, so a constant source of new books is required.

gaming system- This includes at least one game, a TV, and the console itself. I know it's technically three items, but you can't have one without the other two, and I'm not making games half my list.

sprite- drink of the gods

Oh look, only four items. How will you ever manage to go on, oh OKC reader.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
It's hard to pin down any one thing I think about.
My mind often drifts on about whatever games I'm playing.
I often work out how I think different conversations might work out, etc.
I think about my life a lot, where it's going, where I'm going, where I'll be in X years, am I making the right decisions, etc.
I wonder a lot about whether the people around me, my friends and family, actually care of if they're just using me for their own personal gain (like I said above, paranoid), whether or not they actually care about me.
I think about how stupid it is that OKC asks me to answer these in Yiddish and French. I suppose I should take those off as languages I sort of speak.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
The same thing I do every night.. trying to take over the world!!
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'm afraid of spiders. By afraid, I mean if I see one I scream like a very young girl and run away. Seriously.
I’m looking for
  • Everybody
  • Ages 18–29
  • Located anywhere
  • For new friends
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You feel the need to. I'll talk to anyone.
Edit, 2 May 2012 : I originally had this whole spiel here about quality grammar being mandatory, and that's still true, but it made me come off as a dick so I removed it. If you don't use netspeak, you're probably safe.

Oh, and if you see any typos/errors or have questions and want to point them out to me, that's welcome, too.