New!   Incognito Mode. Now you can hand-select who sees you on OkCupid. That means total control of your visibility.

Find better matches with our advanced
matching system

—% Match
—% Enemy


41 Toronto, Ontario, CA Man


I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 29–48
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My details

Last online
Apr 19
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body type
Atheism, and somewhat serious about it
Leo, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Art / Music / Writing
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Likes dogs

Similar Users

My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I'm a small town guy living in the city looking for the same. Just regular guys who like guys.

Here are some things about me I'd like to share - I read before bed, listen to classical music, knit, draw, watch science fiction and old black and white movies. I own a lot of comic books and more than a few action figures.
I like talking to people, and watching people and making up stories about their lives. I like body contact, holding hands in public, hugs, old-fashioned (no tongue) kisses as well as new-fashioned (tongue) kisses.

I'm forgetful. I don't always keep in touch with my friends. I get grumpy when I'm hungry. I can be opinionated and stubborn. I'm impatient, don't have a steady income and I really, really hate most music.

Physically -- I like dark haired, scruffy, guys with chest hair. I'm into slim to fit to average body types and guys within, say, eight years of my age (40), please. Basically, and this is completely narcissistic of me, but I like guys who kinda look like me.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I'm an illustrator who mostly draws comic books.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Drawing, knitting, reading.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
That I'm skinny?
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Authors - Jane Austen, Isaac Asimov, Arthur C. Clarke, Richard Dawkins, Christopher Hitchens, John Wyndham

Movies - Raiders of the Lost Ark, Ratatouille, The Incredibles, Pride and Prejudice. I'll pretty much watch anything sci-fi, animated or adapted from a Jane Austen novel. I also like anything with monsters destroying stuff.

Shows - I don't really watch TV but online I'll check out The Walking Dead, Sleepy Hollow, The Daily Show, and SNL if I remember to tune in when it's on.

Music - Classical, orchestral movie soundtracks, Madonna, Gaga, Beyonce, I've got showtunes and I'll occasionally put on disco/house just for something different.
When it comes to music I promise not to push my taste in music on you if you promise to do the same. Especially if you have a taste for anything with an electric guitar. If I could remove any instrument from the world of instruments it would be the electric guitar. And the saxophone. Those two instruments were invented to torture.

Food - Thai, stir fry (Sweet Lulu, yum), Mexican, bbq chicken and ribs, roast beef with yorkshire pudding and gravy, apple pie, strawberry rhubarb pie. I'm told I'm very British in my tastes though I have never eaten an Englishman.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Food, sleep, hugs, books...more food and naps.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How I'm not getting any work done because I'm thinking about stuff I'd rather be doing knowing that when I'm doing those other things I'll be thinking about the work I'm not getting done.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Quietly doing quiet activities.