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30 Millburn, NJ Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 22–28
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Today – 1:28pm
6′ 2″ (1.88m)
Body type
Mostly anything
Judaism, and laughing about it
Taurus, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from two-year college
Doesn’t have kids
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
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Hello there fellow online dater!! My name is Drew (it's not short for Andrew incase you were wondering).

So, you'd think that the fact that I just got my degree in Communications, I'd be better off at communicating what I'm looking for, but that seemingly seems to be out of my grasp for some oddball reason. (Which seems to be the trend on OKC.)

I think the first big question is what am I looking for, and how does it relate to me. I've finally realized that if someone is offended by something on my profile, that probably indicates that they are not the one for me.

I'm looking for someone whose geeky (if you keep reading, you'll get what I mean by that), but into sports, whose cute and quirky, considers themselves to be in good shape, and understands that relationships are about a mutual respect in all aspects, and that communication and not being controlling are also a bid deal.

As far as me, I wear my heart of my sleeve, when I meet someone I really like (or I'm even interested in based on say, their profile), I'm pretty much all in from the get go, considering me an optimistic, and that can sometimes come off as over enthused, but not sure how showing that much interest is a bad thing. I haven't been in many relationships, so I still do boneheaded things while dating (who doesn't), and hope that whoever it is that I'm dating understands that. I am also upfront, and honest about my feelings, and I don't like playing games (well, video games, board games, and sports are okay). I don't think it's fair, and I think too many people do this. If you want to meet, fine, if you don't, but I think too many people do this, and it's just not cool.

I'm a big fan of my sports teams (in order of how much I like them. Devils, Jets, Mets, Seton Hall Pirates (Men's Basketball), Nets, Rutgers Scarlet Knights (Football). I do also watch Men's Tennis and I have a few favorite players, but if you're interested in who, you'll have to ask.

I'm a person that will be willing to try almost anything if I'm with someone I am interested in. It doesn't matter what we are doing, but I'll more than like enjoy it due to the company, save for a select few things, which I already know I don't enjoy. However, if you want to know what I don't like, or even what I really do like, feel free to ask. I'm sure I know how to do a few things that might surprise you, or even my friends.

I do have some nerdy tendencies, like playing the Pokemon Trading Card Game (Pokemon) that has taken me all across the US (and parts of Canada). I was actually able to go to Hawaii (twice) because of that. Last year it was Washington D.C., this year it's Boston (in August).

If that sounds interesting to you, just message me, if not, keep reading. :)
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
While I'd love for it to be paid, I'm starting an unpaid internship in May doing Promotions and Event Management for a baseball team. I'm super excited!! (March 2014)
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Why don't you message me and find out. I could say a bunch of things, but truthfully, it'd all be biased. Maybe I'll ask some friends to tell me what they think I'm good at, but until then, this'll have to be a mystery, well unless you shoot me a message. ;)
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
That I may or may not look like actor Jim Parsons in some way.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I've only updated the TV Shows recently. (Nov. 2014)

Favorite Books - My favorite three series are Star Wars, Hunger Games, & Harry Potter.

Movies - I'm usually willing to see anything once. I'm not a huge fan of horror, but I will occasionally watch one. Some of my favorite movies are A Knight's Tale, Silver Linings Playbook, The Last Samurai, 10 Things I Hate About You, Crazy. Stupid. Love., & The Princess Bride.

Shows - I've listed my favorite 5 shows currently on TV, and 10 shows that are no longer being shown.

Shows currently on TV - Game of Thrones, Arrow, The Big Bang Theory, Hawaii Five-O, & Last Week Tonight with John Oliver.

Shows no longer on TV - The Fresh Prince of Bel Air, Stargate SG-1, Angel, 24, Dragonball Z, Frasier, Star Trek - Voyager, Burn Notice, The "NEW" Battlestar Galactica, & Xena - Warrior Princess.

Music - I've been told that I have some weird taste in music, which is most likely true, however I'm not a huge fan of rap or country. My some of my favorites are Meat Loaf, The Offspring, Simple Plan, & Good Charlotte.

Food - My favorite types of food are Mexican and Italian. However, if we are talking dessert, I'm a big fan of brownies and marzipans.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
I had some generic things, but decided to change it up a bit.

1. I love sports.

2. The Internet.

3. My geeky tendencies.

4. My weirdness. I 'm incredibly weird, this shouldn't be taken as awkward, but weird (or goofy). I'm pretty sure it's why my friends are my friends. Also, who are we kidding, weird people are more fun to be around!

5. Travel. I would love to have someone who would go exploring all over the world with me. I have an empty passport which needs to be filled. I need a partner in crime (well not actually crime, that would be bad, maybe some non-criminal mischief) to do this.

6. My family (my mom and sister) and my friends. I don't know how you don't put this on here. They are important, and they help me along my journey in life, and are there for me when I need. I would be doing a disservice if I didn't mention them on this list.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How to improve the condo I currently live in via renovations. I'm currently working on replacing my hardwood floor over the summer.

Past and previous decisions, learning from them, and what the future holds for me.

Why people in NYC are so reluctant to meet high matches that live in NJ, even if you seemingly get along really well, and are willing to come to NYC to meet.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
It varies from week to week.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I really don't like most bugs, they creep me out. However, that doesn't mean that I can't kill them if I need to do so arises.

I do have some minor D/s tendencies (but not all the time). Feel free to ask me what they are.
You should message me if
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You want to know more about me. You have a question for me. You find me somewhat interesting. You want to hang out. I'm positive that there are a lot of good reasons to do so, but those are the main ones.

There is NO harm in sending a message to try and get to know someone. So take the risk and send me a message. :)

(If you like me, you'd be better off shooting me a message, as I don't have A-List so I can't see that you did, so that I know that you liked me. If you don't, it's pretty much the equivalent of giving someone a compliment while passing them on the street, but not actually telling them you'd like to get to know them more.)