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37 Massapequa Park, NY Man


I’m looking for

  • Everyone
  • Ages 24–40
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, casual sex

My Details

Last Online
Dec 8
5′ 4″ (1.63m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Judaism, but not too serious about it
Libra, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from masters program
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Has a kid
Has cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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I'm looking for a good person who is loving and warm and intelligent and stimulating. I prefer someone who doesn't follow the crowd, whose priorities and interests are the intrinsic result of their passions and values. I am attracted to people who clearly think for themselves and have emotional depth. I want someone I can talk to and relate to and trust. What I don't want is someone who is cold, pretentious, phony, superficial, or materialistic. That's basically it. I don't care if you are wealthy or poor, sophisticated or simple. As far as looks are concerned, it isn't your body or your pretty or handsome face that will attract me on any meaningful level. I am deeply attacted to people who are beautiful on many different levels. You don't need a perfect body or a perfect face to be attractive to me. We're all human. We're supposed to be imperfect. Imperfection, physically and in our souls, is what makes us beautiful and relatable to one another. It brings us closer to one another than trying to be perfect and super clean, and hiding our flaws. And anyway, we all age. Our bodies and faces age and so do our souls. True beauty transcends all aging. True beauty is usually compassion and love.

Who am I? That depends a lot on how you would perceive me. Depending on what you are looking for, you may only see a thin part of me, and may not even see that part correctly. Or, you may perceive me on deeper levels, and find some things you appreciate and value. Who knows? Even my own perception of myself may be very misleading. Therefore, I think it is best for us to discover one another as we would naturally get to know one another, and see where that takes us. I will say that I think I am reasonably intelligent, creative, compassionate, unpretentious and colorful. Feel free to prove me wrong, of course. I try to be the best person I can be, every day, but that doesn't mean I don't make mistakes or that I'm incredibly ambitious. I make plenty of mistakes and I really wish I had more ambition. Anyway, have a look around, and if you think there might be something there with me, please contact me. If nothing else, I will appreciate the attention! Thank you for viewing my profile.

Oh yeah, as far as interests are concerned, it's pretty much music, comics books, mythology, history, reading in general, nature, traveling, sex, food, movies, videogames, children, cats, animals in general, and learning about the world. I love good conversations as well. We can talk about everything a lot more when and if we meet.

One last thing: if you listed your cell phone or Starbucks as one of the things you can't live without, then sadly, you are probably not my type. Then again, you never know.

Good luck in your searching.
What I’m doing with my life
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I currently work for a great company that has allowed me to cement a career based on my values and my strengths. Granted, it is not my ideal job, nor is it something I plan to do forever, nor does it pay what I would prefer to be making. However, I am grateful that I never dread going to work, I like my co-workers and upper management, and my work is stimulating and at least mildly rewarding. My problem is that I still haven't found what I am looking for in terms of what I would love to do for a living. I haven't given up though, and I refuse to settle for meaningless, soulless work, or work that causes indirect harm to others, even if it pays more.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Talking and not knowing when to shut up! I think am good at writing, creative problem solving, teaching, computers, graphic design, working with difficult people, working with children, being analytical, and especially, being tenacious! I don't give up easily! I love being helpful and trying to give people something positive to make their lives a bit easier. I try hard to be understanding and fair, and I try to keep an open mind and experiment with new experiences and ideas.
The first things people usually notice about me
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In the past, various people have loved my eyes and my ass, and the fact that I am caring, laid back, and easy to talk to. What you see is what you get with me. I am pretty easy to talk to because I don't try to prove anything. I also joke around a lot. But I'm sure the first thing people notice is, "Well, this guy is a little different, but in a good way." I don't usually get noticed for my amazing good looks. G-d didn't give me such gifts! But I suppose that is okay. Then again, there actually have been times when people were attracted purely by my looks, and honestly, no punn intended, it wasn't pretty. It led to superficial attraction which led to things fizzing out pretty quickly. Again, not what I am looking for. I would rather be my ok looking self if it means I can attract people who want more than a good looking body or face.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Well I love comic books. I am mostly a DC, Dynamite, Image, and independent comics kind of guy, with some Marvel thrown in as well. But I read regular books too. I have many favorites. Too many REAL BOOKS to list here. Music-wise, my top favorite bands are Led Zeppelin and REM, but I have MANY other favorite bands and artists from a variety of eras and genres. I love rock, from 50's up to some modern (though I think a lot of modern music is shit), I love classic and more modern metal, 80's pop, and I am also into jazz and blues and also like some broadway and bluegrass is pretty decent, as well as some old school country, Johnny Cash type stuff. Food... I love it! Mexican, BBQ, and chocolate are my favorites! As for shows, I watch That Metal Show, and now Arrow, and The Flash, but I generally don't follow TV shows. I love a lot of classic cartoons and shows though. As far as movies are concerned, my tastes run the gammit from OLD movies, to more recent classics, to comedy, scifi, fantasy, action, drama, documentaries, you name it. I love many different types of movies, including independent and foreign films.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My penis. My brain. My heart (no wait, I could get a transplant). Okay, penis, brain..... I'm a very visual person so not having eyes would be difficult for me I think. And then food and water. Who really needs clothes anyway? Well, it's true. I really could live without a cell phone, and even electricity. But the basics? I need those!
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
The most random shit.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Well, I am either sitting at home, or sometimes out with friends. It depends on what the plan is. I tend to be more of a homebody than a partier. I don't really like clubs. Bars and coffee shops are more my style, but then iI dont drink that often. I prefer to stay in and watch movies, listen to music, talk, create things, read, and get cozy, or go out and explore, and enjoy the outdoors, maybe see a concert. Not all on a Friday night, though! I meant in general!
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I'm actually not from Earth and I have mostly robotic parts. I tend not to be so private, so let's see.... I love to dress in a trench coat and wait outside the school yard....NO! I'll save that one til later. I have two penises! No... I don't know. I'm pretty open.
You should message me if
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you are a good person who keeps it real and has emotions and compassion, and can be a good friend. Also, if you love comics, or you love music, or you love both, and you also meet the above criteria, then definitely message me. Just please be down to Earth and don't be pretentious or phony. To me, intimacy and trust is about not being afraid to admit who you are and that you're far from perfect. I am who I am, like it, love it, or move on. It's about who you think I am, how I might make you feel, and whether or not you think I can make your life better. Use those criteria to decide whether or not to message me. Don't bother if you're just interested in a lifestyle or a pretty house. Message me if you are genuinely interested in love and companionship.