I'm just interested in finding someone who I can share real love and happiness with. I don't care about the rest. I am somewhat intelligent, but I stay focused on what I feel is most important in life. That consists of a handful of simple things, as well as improving the lives of others and spending as much time as possible doing the things that bring me the most joy and have the most meaning for me. It also includes sharing my life with someone who genuinely loves me and who brings tremendous joy and meaning into my life. That's all I want. I'm an honest guy, I am sincere, I am not materialistic, I'm not trying to impress anyone or win any competitions, or have the biggest house in the neighborhood, or the most expensive car. I care very little about money, except as a means to live a modest and enjoyable life. I can definitely have intelligent conversation, and I am absolutely looking for much, much more than just sex or a wife or a girlfriend, or a boyfriend. I want something we can both feel, and I want it with someone who I can always trust to love me and be there for me, and be focused on what matters most in life.
***If I make the effort to message you, please at least have the DECENCY AND COURTESY to respond, even if it is just to say you are not interested. Otherwise, you are just being incredibly rude. Thanks!***
What I’m doing with my life
I spend a lot of time reading and listening to music, watching
movies, and spending time with friends. Beyond that, I am fortunate
to have a full time job that I genuinely enjoy. It is definitely
not my ideal career choice, but I enjoy what I do, and I enjoy the
work environment and being around my co-workers. It is a very
special place to work, and I never dread going to work, nor do I
count the minutes until it is time to leave. I definitely believe
in the company and what it stands for. A good place to work isn't
always a place that pays the highest salary. It has a lot more to
do with values and happiness than anything else. That said, the
biggest downside is definitely the pay. I certainly wish I got paid
more, only because it would make it easier to afford the
necessities in life. However, I have received a raise and a
promotion recently, so things are slowly looking up. The truth,
however, is that I still haven't found what I am looking for in
terms of a career. I kind of wish I knew myself better, which is
odd since I am an only child, and feel like I know myself very
well, but for whatever reason, knowing exactly what I want to do
when I grow up has mostly eluded me. It's almost like I have a
mental block. In terms of my goals, I am trying to figure out what
I can do careerwise to increase my income and have a more
meaningful career, while also achieving the goal of living closer
to my daughter.
I’m really good at
Talking and not knowing when to shut up! I think am good at
writing, creative problem solving, teaching, computers, graphic
design, working with difficult people, working with children, being
analytical, and especially, being tenacious! I don't give up
easily! I love being helpful and trying to give people something
positive to make their lives a bit easier. I try hard to be
understanding and fair, and I try to keep an open mind and
experiment with new experiences and ideas.
The first things people usually notice about me
In the past, various people have loved my eyes and my ass, and the
fact that I am caring, laid back, and easy to talk to. What you see
is what you get with me. I am easy to talk to because I don't try
to prove anything or be someone I am not just to impress others. I
also joke around a lot. But I'm sure the first thing people notice
is, "Well, this guy is a little different, but in a good way."
While I suppose I am decent looking, I doubt that I usually get
noticed for my amazing good looks. Maybe I am just insecure, but I
get the feeling G-d didn't give me such gifts! I suppose that is
okay, though. There actually have been times when people were very
attracted to me purely because of my looks, and honestly, no punn
intended, it wasn't pretty. It led to superficial attraction which
led to things fizzing out pretty quickly. Again, not what I am
looking for. I would rather be my ok looking self if it means I can
attract people who want more than a guy with a good looking body or
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Well I love comic books. I am mostly a DC, Dynamite, Image, and
independent comics kind of guy, with some Marvel thrown in as well.
But I read regular books too. I have many favorites. Too many REAL
BOOKS to list here. Music-wise, my top favorite bands are Led
Zeppelin and REM, but I have MANY other favorite bands and artists
from a variety of eras and genres. I love rock, from 50's up to
some modern (though I think a lot of modern music is shit), I love
classic and more modern metal, 80's pop, and I am also into jazz
and blues and also like some broadway and bluegrass is pretty
decent, as well as some old school country, Johnny Cash type stuff.
Food... I love it! Mexican, BBQ, and chocolate are my favorites! As
for shows, I watch That Metal Show, and now Arrow, and The Flash,
but I generally don't follow TV shows. I love a lot of classic
cartoons and shows though. As far as movies are concerned, my
tastes run the gammit from OLD movies, to more recent classics, to
comedy, scifi, fantasy, action, drama, documentaries, you name it.
I love many different types of movies, including independent and
The six things I could never do without
My penis. My brain. My heart (no wait, I could get a transplant).
Okay, penis, brain..... I'm a very visual person so not having eyes
would be difficult for me I think. And then food and water. Who
really needs clothes anyway? Well, it's true. I really could live
without a cell phone, and probably even electricity. But the
basics? I need those!
I spend a lot of time thinking about
The most random shit.
On a typical Friday night I am
Well, I am either sitting at home, or sometimes out with friends.
It depends on what the plan is. I don't really like clubs. Bars and
coffee shops are more my style. Honestly, I don't drink that often.
I prefer to either stay in and watch movies, listen to music, talk,
create things, read, and get cozy, or go out instead and explore,
enjoy the outdoors, maybe see a concert or a movie or a show. Not
all on a Friday night, though! I meant in general! I also travel
kind of often, which brings some added adventure to my Friday
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I'm actually not from Earth and I have mostly robotic parts. I tend
not to be so private, so let's see.... I love to dress in a trench
coat and wait outside the school yard....NO! I'll save that one til
later. I have two penises! No... I don't know. I'm pretty open.
You should message me if
you are a good person who keeps it real and has genuine emotions and compassion, and if you can be a good friend. Also, if you love comics, or you love music, or you love both, and you also meet the above criteria, and you can actually have a decent, intelligent conversation, then definitely message me. Just please be down to Earth and don't be pretentious or phony. To me, intimacy and trust and a good relationship is about not being afraid to admit who you are and that you are far from perfect, and accepting one another as imperfect beings. Let the walls come down. I am who I am, like it, love it, or move on. Believe me, I know I am not everyone's idea of the perfect lover or even friend. I am not for everyone, but that's ok. That's a good thing. Also, don't bother to contact me if you are just interested in a lifestyle or husband or a pretty house. Message me if you are genuinely focused on love and companionship, and if you see things about me that you really like. Please start with that.