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36 M Massapequa Park, NY

I’m looking for

  • Everybody
  • Ages 24–40
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, casual sex

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 7:33am
5′ 4″ (1.63m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Judaism, but not too serious about it
Libra, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from masters program
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Has a kid
Has cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I see people as becoming more and more plastic. Too clean, too rational, too cautious, too bland, and too fake. I am interested in meeting someone who is not stuck in the matrix. I want a real person, who has depth and personality, and isn’t afraid to have fun, get loud, relax, indulge, or get dirty; someone who understands that the most important things in life are also the most simple. I am interested in finding someone who wants to experience true love and true happiness in whatever forms they may take, and who is not blindly obsessed with procuring a certain lifestyle, as so many people are these days. My goal is not to live like the people on TV, or like the people I see in magazines, or even like my neighbors. My goal is to find the right person, and have something real, something meaningful, and something that makes us feel a lot better than if we were not together.
Who am I? As always, it’s difficult for me to answer that question accurately. I usually feel that I do not completely know myself. By my estimation, I am a creative person, who tends to gravitate towards creative ideas and creative forms of expression that I perceive as being meaningful and at least somewhat entertaining. I am very into comic books and graphic novels, music, books, and movies. I also enjoy art museums and traveling and being exposed to different national and regional cultures. I am also a foodie. I can go on forever about food, and I am fascinated by all the variables that make food taste better or worse.
One quality of mine that may separate me a lot from the plastic people is that I feel I have a very strong connection with nature and with natural instinct. I feel that nature, the earth, the seasons, the night, the senses, sex, etc, all have powerful roles to play in our lives, if we let them.
Another important thing to know is that I have the easiest time connecting with people who are truly themselves around me, and who have actual interests that they are passionate about, instead of just being obsessed with shopping, the suburban lifestyle, or the latest reality show. I have a strong aversion to pretentiousness, as well as to arrogance and superficial banter. I prefer compassionate people who are down to earth and genuine.
In conclusion…. no, really. I think I’m a fairly down to earth guy, but I also have my head in the clouds a lot of the time. I like to think that I have it balanced, but I probably don’t. I’m a nice guy though, and I am fiercely loyal. I joke around a lot, maybe a little too much, but I never forget to stay focused on the serious stuff as well. Thanks for watching.
What I’m doing with my life
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I guess I am supposed to know the answer to this question, and be financially successful and all settled and driven at this point; but I'm not any of that. Sorry if that is a turn off. Right now, I am working in IT, making okay money. I have a lot of big goals though. Priority number one is being geographically closer to my daughter. Second to that is finding a great lover, best friend and partner (see above). Third is figuring out exactly what my dream career is and then pursuing it. I have spent a lot of time on this, but have yet to completely realize what that dream career is. Go figure. I don't really understand what's taking me so long, either. Fourth is living in a place where I would love to live. Probably some place rural and beautiful, but not too remote from a quaint downtown or some kind of urban center. By the way, did I mention that I live at home with my mom? Heh, no of course I did not yet mention that! Oops, I just did. Well, I do. But only due to money still being tight, though I should be able to live on my own again very soon. No mommy issues, I assure you. I would gladly live on my own again now, if I could. So what am I doing with my life? Trying to live it, figure it out, and do the best for my daughter.
I’m really good at
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Talking and not knowing when to stop, writing, computers, making people laugh, or at least laugh at me, graphic design, advertising, marketing, teaching, working with children, creative problem-solving, and especially, being tenacious! I don't give up easily! I also like to think that I am good at being there for others and being helpful and a good listener.
The first things people usually notice about me
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I've been told people love my eyes and my ass. But I'm sure the first thing people notice is, "Well, this guy is a little different, but in a good way."
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Well I love comic books. But I read regular books too. I have many favorites. Too many REAL BOOKS to list here. Music-wise, my top favorite bands are Led Zeppelin and REM, but I have MANY other favorite bands and artists from a variety of eras and genres. I love rock, from 50's up to some modern (though I think a lot of modern music is shit), I love metal, 80's pop, and I am also into jazz and blues and also like some broadway and bluegrass is pretty decent, as well as some old school country, Johnny Cash type stuff. Food... I love it! Mexican, BBQ, and chocolate are my favorites! As for shows, I watch That Metal Show, and now Arrow, but I generally don't follow TV shows. I love a lot of classic cartoons and shows though.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My penis. My brain. My heart (no wait, I could get a transplant). Okay, penis, brain..... I'm a very visual person so not having eyes would be difficult for me I think. And then food and water. Who really needs clothes anyway? Well, it's true. I really could live without a cell phone, and even electricity. But the basics? I need those!
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
The most random shit.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Well, I am usually sitting at home.....But you have the POWER to change that!
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I'm actually not from Earth and I have mostly robotic parts. I tend not to be so private, so let's see.... I love to dress in a trench coat and wait outside the school yard....NO! I'll save that one til later. I have two penises! No... I don't know. I'm pretty open.
You should message me if
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you are a good person who keeps it real and has emotions and compassion, and can be a good friend. Also, if you love comics, or you love music, or you love both, and you also meet the above criteria, then definitely message me. Just please be down to Earth and don't be pretentious or phony. To me, intimacy and trust is about not being afraid to admit who you are and that you're far from perfect. Right now, all I can ask of you is to like me and love me for who I am, not just for what I can do for you.