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27 F San Francisco, CA

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Last Online
Today – 10:01pm
5′ 3″ (1.61m)
Body Type
Mostly vegetarian
Atheism, but not too serious about it
Capricorn, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Sales / Marketing
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Mostly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids
Likes dogs and likes cats
English, French (Poorly)

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I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Making ice cream.
Traveling light.
Being single. I have a full and great life and don't date out of boredom or just because. This means I'm also pretty good at being in relationships.
Figuring out how things work, and how to recreate cool things I've come across.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My super-straight posture sometimes makes those around me feel uncomfortable and slouchy.

My petiteness. Sometimes random drunk girls in bathroom lines tell me they want to put me in their pocket. This has happened multiple times.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: Shantaram, Oscar Wilde, Paul Krugman, David Sedaris, Bill Bryson, Malcolm Gladwell

Movies: Cherry Blossoms, Fight Club, Babel, Dogma, Brick, The Cabin in the Woods, Children of Men, Searching for Sugar Man, Tsotsi, Beasts of the Southern Wild and anything directed by Jean-Pierre Jeunet (Amelie, City of Lost Children)

Shows: The Wire, Mad Men, Pushing Daisies, Six Feet Under, Treme, Sons of Anarchy, Always Sunny, Breaking Bad, New Girl, Arrested Development

Music: Pixies, Joy Division, Brand New, The xx, Colour Revolt, Edward Sharpe, The Growlers, Black Keys, Minus the Bear, MuteMath, Portugal. The Man, Cold War Kids, Bon Iver, The Smiths, Alabama Shakes

Food: Who doesn't love eating? I'm becoming a decent home chef and love cooking for groups and accepting culinary challenges.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Passport. Exercise. My freedom, and using it ways that scare me sometimes. Laughter. Meaningful relationships. Goals.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Avocados are really just the perfect food.

Travel, and where I'll get to go next.

What would happen if The Big One hit during pretty much every space/situation I'm in, and why again did I pick this fault-riddled place to live? Also, how come everyone here has a plan for the zombie apocalypse but not the earthquake?

The distance between who I've been, who I am and who I want to be. My username is from Kierkegaard's quote "Anxiety is the dizziness of freedom" and I think about this concept often, about my own freedom and potential, and all the directions in life I can choose. I like being anxious sometimes because it means my life is mine to do with as I please.

Did that dude over there really just complain about only having one company-paid massage per week?*

*New subject of thought since moving to SF
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
*Standing at the center of Off the Grid, paralyzed by indecision. Practice-assembling my new tent to be sharp for camping the next day. Making guoba dumplings because the recipe looks amazing and I've never had them before. Having friends over, projecting a movie on the wall and not paying much attention to it because we're too busy talking about our weeks and the coming weekend. Exploring new bars that are on the list. At a restaurant, again paralyzed by indecision. Walking really far and fast because somehow I got lost on my way to meeting people, even though I have a smartphone to guide me. Folding and stacking freshly-laundered socks, organizing my closet just-so, and feeling gratified by having a week of laundry perfectly back in place. Calling friends and family, then starting a book one of them recommended and I forgot about. Dancing at a club for 20 minutes before remembering why I sort of hate clubs. Hopping up and down at a concert to try to see because everyone there is 8' tall and determined to block my view. At a story-telling, lecture, or other event I saw on Fun Cheap and couldn't pass up. Falling down a Wikipedia rabbit hole. Finishing up some work and trying to swallow the bitterness of the Friday night sacrifice. At yoga, worn from the week and almost asleep by shavasana. Sitting on a friend's countertop, drinking and talking for hours about what we should do, only to realize it's already 1.
*Everything subject to change.

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The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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In some corner of the internet I'm sure there exist real estate commercials and public service announcements I filmed in my teens during my wannabe actress phase.
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 25–37
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
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Truth be told I love my life as it is and don't tend to make much time for this site. That said, if you think we might find each other interesting then take a couple minutes and tell me why.