Find better matches with our advanced
matching system

—% Match
—% Enemy


21 Boston, MA Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 20–32
  • Near me
  • For new friends, short-term dating, casual sex

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 7:01pm
6′ 0″ (1.82m)
Body Type
Strictly anything
Working on space camp
Science / Engineering
Open relationship
Mostly non-monogamous
Doesn’t want kids
Likes cats
English, Spanish (Okay)

Similar Users

My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
First things first: have some music while you read:

I like urban photography, high places, and 60-degree weather. I seek out occasions on which to ostentatiously overdress. My friends have jumped off bridges because I did first.

I am a firm believer in Robert Frost, open source, and the Oxford comma. I'm a feminist, and I aim to be an ally. I like trains and stubby sentences. I harsh mellows and damage calm; I am he whom your mother warned you of.

I like my poetry slammed, my blues dirty, and my mail spindled but not mutilated. If your picture is you atop a mountain, I'm probably going to message you.

I am ethically nonmonogamous. I don't do possession; I do honesty and respect. I'm rather kinky, but not exclusively so.

Okcupid seems to match me almost exclusively with people whose listed age range does not include me. I'm not sure what that means; I do apologize for sometimes ignoring that.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Perpetual student; rocket scientist. You know I've spent too much time in the machine shop when I have a favorite manual milling machine.

I am not a runner; I hate running. And yet I'm dangerously close to signing up for another half marathon.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I probably know more about long-gone rural trolley lines in New England than anyone else. I can probably offer several hours of MBTA facts if no one is kind enough to stop, gag, or sedate me.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'm a beanpole. Please do note that previous attempts to use to as a tomato stake, flagpole, fishing rod, and javelin have been - for the most part - unsuccessful.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Neuromancer and Johnny Mnemonic; probably everything that Richard Feynman and Arthur C. Clarke wrote; The Longest Day; the Black Widowers short stories; Elegance of the Hedgehog, Cloud Atlas, The Time Traveler's Wife, Catch-22, Slaughterhouse-Five. V for Vendetta. Mathematical philosophy. I have a love-hate relationship with The Great Gatsby that's not going anywhere.

Currently reading Rant and Astro Turf. At any given time I am usually bitextual.

The conversations that introduced me to my two most recent meaningful partners started with The World According To Garp and Snow Crash.

Somehow I got out of the habit of watching television, save an occasional episode of Daria. You and your netflix subscription are welcome to attempt to convert me to the ways of your religion...errr, favorite show.

I'm still a fucking Firefly fanboy.

If TSO, Black Sabbath, Arcade Fire, Wuthering Heights, the Dropkick Murphys, Live, or Emilie Autumn did or would play it, I probably like it. I saw the Protomen live and it was among the most insane experiences of my life.

Namedropping: The Who, Van Canto, Uriah Heep, Toto, Survivor, Styx, Scorpions, Queen, Nighwish, Molly Hatchet, King Crimson, Hevisaurus, Flogging Molly, Faster Pussycat, Enter The Haggis, Dire Straits, David Bowie, Boston, Bloc Party, Bad Company, and Alice Cooper.

I'm pretty fond of classical, particularly Rachmaninoff and Holst.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Whiskey and cheap white wine are probably at least four of these.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Religion, and why some people have it and some don't. Trying to understand why bodily autonomy is not a universal concept. Feminism. Rape culture. How to make things better. Sentence fragments as an occasionally preferable stylistic choice. How to photograph ordinary things in interesting ways.

Also, trains, far more than I'd like to admit.

tl;dr: intersectional feminism; butts.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I never finished reading the Harry Potter series.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
Your version of a good time involves rocky coastlines, whiskey sours, and/or cat facts.

You're looking for excitement without expectations but with honesty. I am nonmonogamous but not polyamorous; I currently have a romantic partner (who is overseas for the first half of 2015) and am not looking for a romantic partner. I am potentially up for a casual to regular non-romantic partner, if you're interested.

Alternately, if you're looking for a platonic cuddle-buddy. I'm told I have excellent thermal properties.