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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 20–32
  • Near me
  • For new friends, short-term dating, casual sex

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Last online
Today – 3:42pm
6′ 0″ (1.82m)
Body type
Strictly anything
Working on space camp
Science / Engineering
Open relationship
Mostly non-monogamous
Doesn’t want kids
Likes cats
English, Spanish (Okay)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Hello, my name is David, and it's been 36 hours since I've bored anyone to death talking about the T.

...wait, this isn't the support group?

I like urban photography, high places, and 60-degree weather. I jump off bridges as often as possible.

I am a firm believer in Robert Frost, open source, and the Oxford comma. I'm a feminist, and I aim to be an ally. I like trains and stubby sentences. If your picture is you atop a mountain, I'm definitely going to message you.

Disclaimers: I am ethically nonmonogamous; I am not sure whether I'm also poly. I currently have a romantic partner (who is overseas for the first half of 2015), and I'm super into her. I don't do possession; I do honesty and respect.

Okcupid seems to match me entirely with people who are looking for people older than me. I apologize in advance if I inadvertantly ignore this.
What I’m doing with my life
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Perpetual student; rocket scientist. You know I've spent too much time in the machine shop when I have a favorite manual milling machine. I'm finishing up my undergrad right now; I'll be starting my masters at MIT in the fall. I'm gonna spend two years geeking out about bus route analysis.

Trying to surround myself with kind, loving people and a lazy, antisocial cat. Still working on the second part.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I make a good steak and a mean set of cocktails.
The first things people usually notice about me
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I get the Harry Potter jokes a lot.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Neuromancer and Johnny Mnemonic; probably everything that Richard Feynman and Arthur C. Clarke wrote; The Longest Day; the Black Widowers short stories; Elegance of the Hedgehog, Cloud Atlas, The Time Traveler's Wife, Catch-22, Slaughterhouse-Five. V for Vendetta. Mathematical philosophy. I have a love-hate relationship with The Great Gatsby.

I just finished Rant and The Atrocity Archives; currently I'm reading The Broom Of The System and a collection of Hemingway short stories on the advice of some friends.

The conversations that introduced me to my two most recent meaningful partners started with The World According To Garp and Snow Crash.

Somehow I got out of the habit of watching television, save an occasional episode of Daria. You and your netflix subscription are welcome to attempt to convert me to the ways of your religion...errr, favorite show.

I'm still a fucking Firefly fanboy.

I've recently gotten addicted to NPR Tiny Desk Concerts. Fifteen minute servings of random artists in a tiny space with full creative reign.

If TSO, Black Sabbath, Arcade Fire, Wuthering Heights, the Dropkick Murphys, Live, or Emilie Autumn did or would play it, I probably like it. I saw the Protomen live and it was among the most insane experiences of my life.

Namedropping: The Who, Van Canto, Uriah Heep, Toto, Survivor, Styx, Scorpions, Queen, Nighwish, Molly Hatchet, King Crimson, Hevisaurus, Flogging Molly, Faster Pussycat, Enter The Haggis, Dire Straits, David Bowie, Boston, Bloc Party, Bad Company, and Alice Cooper.

I'm pretty fond of classical, particularly Rachmaninoff and Holst.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Whiskey and cheap white wine are probably at least four of these.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Religion, and why some people have it and some don't. Trying to understand why bodily autonomy is not a universal concept. Feminism. Rape culture. How to make things better. Sentence fragments as an occasionally preferable stylistic choice. How to photograph ordinary things in interesting ways.

Also, trains, far more than I'd like to admit.

tl;dr: intersectional feminism; butts.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I never finished reading the Harry Potter series.
You should message me if
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Your version of a good time involves rocky coastlines, whiskey sours, and/or cat facts. You want to go do something completely nutty with a stranger on a whim. You want to go to the beach or climb trees and kiss.

You're looking for excitement without expectations but with honesty.