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21 M Boston, MA

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  • Ages 18–33
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  • For new friends, short-term dating, casual sex

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 1:17pm
6′ 0″ (1.82m)
Body Type
Strictly anything
Working on space camp
Science / Engineering
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Mostly non-monogamous
Doesn’t want kids
English, Spanish (Okay)

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My self-summary
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First things first: have some music while you read:

I like urban photography, high places, and 60-degree weather. I seek out occasions on which to ostentatiously overdress. My friends have jumped off bridges because I did first.

I am a firm believer in Robert Frost, open source, and the Oxford comma. I'm a feminist, and I aim to be an ally. I like trains and stubby sentences. I harsh mellows and damage calm; I am he whom your mother warned you of.

I like my poetry slammed, my blues dirty, and my mail spindled but not mutilated.

None or all of that may matter to you, but this should: I live with my brain running at a thousand miles an hour. If you do too, we can do great things.

I am ethically nonmonogamous; I often have more than one partner. I don't do possession; I do honesty and respect. If I'm looking at all, then I'm looking for someone who wants flirtation and head games and kissing in unexpected places. I'm don't believe I'm looking for anything more right now.
What I’m doing with my life
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At school, I'm part of a group that's attempting to be the second civilians to launch a rocket to space; we're in the "actually testing big fucking rocket motors" phase. This results in me spending ridiculous amounts of time in the machine shop, covered in 3-in-1 oil and aluminum shavings. At work this summer, I worked on a medium-lift space booster. I love my life.

I do a lot of things, sometimes at once. I do build for a theatre group of crazy and wonderful people. I go on late-night walks to wherever, via everywhere, with whoever.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Definitely not taking this seriously.
The first things people usually notice about me
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I'm a beanpole. Please do note that previous attempts to use to as a tomato stake, flagpole, fishing rod, and javelin have been - for the most part - unsuccessful.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Neuromancer and Johnny Mnemonic; everything Richard Feynman and Arthur C. Clarke ever wrote; The Longest Day; the Black Widowers short stories; Elegance of the Hedgehog, Cloud Atlas; and anything that happen catches my eye at the library. V for Vendetta. Mathematical philosophy. I have a love-hate relationship with The Great Gatsby.

Currently reading Tess of the D'Urbervilles and The Right Stuff. For context, I recently greatly enjoyed The Time Traveler's Wife, Catch-22, Slaughterhouse-Five, and Trainspotting. At any given time I am usually bitextual. I'm slowly reteaching myself to enjoy serious fiction.

I have a bad habit of reading books and forgetting to watch the movie.

My two most recent meaningful partnerships began with conversations about The World According To Garp and Snow Crash.

Somehow I got out of the habit of watching television, save an occasional episode of Daria. You and your netflix subscription are welcome to attempt to convert me to the ways of your religion...errr, favorite show.

I'm still a fucking Firefly fanboy.

If TSO, Black Sabbath, Arcade Fire, Wuthering Heights, the Dropkick Murphys, Live, or Emilie Autumn did or would play it, I probably like it. I saw the Protomen live and it was among the most insane experiences of my life.

Namedropping: The Who, Van Canto, Uriah Heep, Toto, Survivor, Styx, Scorpions, Queen, Nighwish, Molly Hatchet, King Crimson, Hevisaurus, Flogging Molly, Faster Pussycat, Enter The Haggis, Dire Straits, David Bowie, Boston, Bloc Party, Bad Company, and Alice Cooper.

I'm pretty fond of classical, particularly Rachmaninoff and Holst.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
A skillet - most of my meals are made in it.
Onions - they're fucking delicious.
WiFi - I'm not tethered to my devices, but I consume a lot of information on a fairly regular basis. Keeping abreast of my various interests, and keeping up with my research, are simply not things I can do without the 'net.
Places to walk around at night - I miss the hell out of my city.
My bicycle - it's become surprisingly useful local transportation on the island.
Self-referential placeholders - irony is still cool, right guys?
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Religion, and why some people have it and I don't. Trying to understand why bodily autonomy is not a universal concept. Feminism. Rape culture. How to make things better. Sentence fragments as an occasionally preferable stylistic choice. How to photograph ordinary things in interesting ways. How to write efficient code. What to have for dinner, because sadly the answer can't always be "cereal".

tl;dr: intersectional feminism; butts.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Making steak and pouring scotch for whoever's in my apartment at 10pm
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I never finished reading the Harry Potter series.
You should message me if
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Mrs. Robinson.... Are you trying to seduce me?