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TheEGE

22 Medford, MA Man

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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 19–32
  • Near me
  • For new friends, short-term dating, casual sex

My details

Last online
Online now!
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
6′ 0″ (1.82m)
Body Type
Thin
Diet
Strictly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Science / Engineering
Status
Open relationship
Type
Mostly non-monogamous
Offspring
Doesn’t want kids
Pets
Likes cats
Speaks
English, Spanish (Okay)
My self-summary
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Hello, my name is David, and it's been 36 hours since I've bored anyone to death talking about the T.

...wait, this isn't the support group?

I'm a nerdy and energetic person, currently in the summer between undergrad in rocket science and grad in Fixing the T, Seriously. Gravity and I have a tempestuous relationship; I hike up mountains and ski down them and jump off bridges. (If your profile picture is you atop a mountain, I'm definitely going to message you.)

I'm a feminist, and I aim to be an ally.

The standard disclaimer: I'm ethically nonmonogamous, and maybebutnotquitesureyet also poly. I currently have a romantic partner and I'm super into her. I don't do possession or expectations; I do honesty and respect and consent and flirting while climbing trees.
What I’m doing with my life
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Faking my way through a 9-5 job for the summer; living in Medford and working in Andover and exploring Massachusetts by car, train, and bike. After four years I finally brought my bike to Boston; I love the freedom and the sense of being part of the city rather than driving through it, but I'm still working back up to having real thigh muscles. So it goes.

In the fall, I'm headed to grad school for transportation. I wasn't kidding about talking about the T!

Trying to surround myself with kind, loving people who do great things, and a hauty, antisocial cat whose highest ambition is to nap in sunbeams. Still working on the second part.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Doing dishes.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books:
Neuromancer and Johnny Mnemonic; probably everything that Richard Feynman and Arthur C. Clarke wrote; The Longest Day; the Black Widowers short stories; Elegance of the Hedgehog, Cloud Atlas, The Time Traveler's Wife, Catch-22, Slaughterhouse-Five. V for Vendetta. Mathematical philosophy. I have a love-hate relationship with The Great Gatsby.

I just finished The Broom Of The System and Silent Spring; currently working through Anna Karenina, A Widow For One Year, and a poorly translated history of the Sacred Valley of the Incas

The conversations that introduced me to my two most recent meaningful partners started with The World According To Garp and Snow Crash.

Shows:
Somehow I got out of the habit of watching television, save an occasional episode of Daria. You and your netflix subscription are welcome to attempt to convert me to the ways of your religion...errr, favorite show.

I'm still a fucking Firefly fanboy.

Music:
I've recently gotten addicted to NPR Tiny Desk Concerts. Fifteen minute servings of random artists in a tiny space with full creative reign.

If TSO, Black Sabbath, Arcade Fire, Wuthering Heights, the Dropkick Murphys, Live, or Emilie Autumn did or would play it, I probably like it. I saw the Protomen live and it was among the most insane experiences of my life.

Namedropping: The Who, Van Canto, Uriah Heep, Toto, Survivor, Styx, Scorpions, Queen, Nighwish, Molly Hatchet, King Crimson, Hevisaurus, Flogging Molly, Faster Pussycat, Enter The Haggis, Dire Straits, David Bowie, Boston, Bloc Party, Bad Company, and Alice Cooper.

I'm pretty fond of classical, particularly Rachmaninoff and Holst.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Completos italianos, the most delicious and disgusting drunk food the western hemisphere has invented.

Wikipedia, where most of my spare time seems to disappear to.

My slightly-out-of-focus but fortunately unbreakable point-and-shoot.

A big college-rule notebook to think on.

Google Maps.

Thick blankets.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Religion, and why some people have it and some don't. Trying to understand why bodily autonomy is not a universal concept. Feminism. Rape culture. How to make things better. Sentence fragments as an occasionally preferable stylistic choice. How to photograph ordinary things in interesting ways.

Also, trains, far more than I'd like to admit.

tl;dr: intersectional feminism; butts.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Drinking nice bourbon and/or truly terrible white wine.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I have no real middle ground between incomprehensibly busy and instant ennui. The best I can do is to channel that into doing cool stuff.
You should message me if
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You're okay with meeting up (however you feel safe doing so) after not too long. Messages are nice, but lately I've been craving actually seeing people. Let's have a coffee or a beer, or just walk around some part of Boston we've never seen before.

Your version of a good time involves rocky coastlines, whiskey sours, and/or cat facts. You want to go do something completely nutty with a stranger on a whim. You want to go to the beach or climb trees and kiss.

You're looking for excitement without expectations but with honesty.