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  • Ages 24–34
  • Near me
  • Who are single
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My details

Last online
Today – 4:32am
Relationship Type
5' 7" (1.70m)
Body Type
Other and laughing about it
Post grad
Might want kids
English (Fluently), Indonesian (Fluently), Japanese (Somewhat), C++ (Fluently)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I am an Indonesian Chinese. Lived in Singapore and USA before I got stranded on this weird, awesome land called Japan.

My 6th year in Japan but I still see/meet many new awesome things/people that make me fall in love with this country all over again.

I like to laugh, sometimes at the inappropriate times, and also to make lame jokes~ If you like bad jokes, maybe you haven't heard really bad ones yet :D

What I’m doing with my life
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Managing a hostel for backpackers in Tokyo~
I really like Japan and travelling in Japan, there are so many things to do here, from hiking to just relaxing in the countrysides. I love talking with the locals, just talking about everything. I want to make more travellers who are visiting Japan to know about this fact. Most of the travellers who come to Japan just visit the major cities. My hope is to popularise backpacking in Japan and get more cities in Japan to be noticed by everyone in the world!

Going on 1 day hikes around Tokyo and then drinking with friends or just drinking with strangers I meet in Izakayas.
Basically enjoying life and all that nature can offer.

Finding the balance:
"I must learn to love the fool in me-- the one who feels too much, talks too much, takes too many chances, wins sometimes and loses often, lacks self-control, loves and hates, hurts and gets hurt, promises and breaks promises, laughs and cries. It alone protects me against that utterly self-controlled, masterful tyrant whom I also harbor and who would rob me of human aliveness, humility and dignity but for my fool." - Theodore I. Rubin, MD
"Why so serioussss?" - The Joker (Heath Ledger; The Dark Knight)

Looking for that special someone who will laugh at my lame jokes and counter-joke me, accompany me drinking, eating, dancing to the tunes of lives and sometimes just to be there together without doing anything or saying anything

Found this online and have started using it: 'When I'm scared to tackle an obstacle, I close my eyes and pretend i am an 80 year old man who regrets not tackling all the obstacles he wanted to in life. Then when I feel like that old man, I say to myself, "I wish I was young again", then I open my eyes....And BOOM! I'm young again.'

Next in the list of things to learn: Dance, Another language(probably Korean), Scuba Diving, Kendo, drumming
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
- Eating spicy food
- Creating the mood in nomikai
- Taking exam
- Finding direction by getting lost first
- Making decision when noone wants to
- Using Google
- Making lame jokes
- Listening to people
- Facilitate a discussion
The first things people usually notice about me
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I like to smile and joke
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Author/Books: L.E.Modesitt Jr, Robin Hobb, The Alchemist, Stephen R. Covey, Daniel H. Pink, Mitch Albom
Manga: 星の五月雨, Doraemon, Drifters, Pluto, Monsters, Hajime no Ippo, Death Note(1st half)
Anime: Cowboy Bebop, Bakemonogatari, Durarara, Baccano
Movie: The Matrix(Sadly there is no sequel to it), The Dark Knight, Inception, 転々, Walk Hard, Hot Fuzz, King of Comedy, Kung Fu Hustle, フィッシュ・ストーリー, Ashes of Time, Mad Detective
TV series/drama: Friends, House, Glee, Supernatural, Nodame Cantabille, Love Shuffle, Galileo, Big Bang Theory, HIMYM, Running Man, Hannibal, 深夜食堂, 孤独のグルメ, Infinity Challenge
I like comedies and movies with good character developments. If you have any recommendation, please send me a message. Seems to be very difficult to find good movies nowadays~
Music: Background music, Game music, OSTs, Eric Satie, Jazz, pop, rock, anything. My mood is influenced easily by music
Food: Sweet and spicy, I am from Indonesia, and we like our food sweet and spicy there. But I am at the extreme end of the spicyness spectrum, I can't live without spice. Don't worry, Indonesian separates the spicy sauce from the dishes ;) And I eat basically everything except for bugs & balut.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
- Humour to enjoy life and everything that it has to offer
- Music, if there is a venture that is trying to create automatic background music selector based on heart-rate, count me in
- My sketchbook to just make rough sketches of the world as I see it
- Health, I want to climb all the famous mountains in the world
- My kindle, just to read books
- My Backpack, to keep my towel and other necessities, I want Doraemon's pocket :(
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How to conquer the world...
Other than that just be happy
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Dinner with friends, walk around Tokyo to find something interesting, Karaoke, drinking in a neighborhood bar and just enjoy talking with new & old nakama
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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Ask me, I will probably tell you after a few glasses of beer
You should message me if
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You love eating food from a street-side vendor as much as food from a high-class restaurants, you like drinking in a rowdy place as much as drinking in a quiet bar
You know and love Stephen Chow and wants to discuss about his movies.
You are feeling lucky
You want to be a heroine in my life. I am looking for a partner in crime.
You want a friend to eat spicy food with
You are just bored and want to talk to someone