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29 Tokyo, Japan Man


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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 24–33
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Today – 4:52am
5′ 7″ (1.70m)
Body type
Strictly anything
Other, and laughing about it
Libra, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from masters program
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Likes dogs
English (Fluently), Indonesian (Fluently), Japanese (Okay), C++ (Fluently)
My self-summary
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I am an Indonesian Chinese. Lived in Singapore and USA before I got stranded on this weird, awesome land called Japan.

My 6th year in Japan but I still see/meet many new awesome things/people that make me fall in love with this country all over again. It is not the perfect country but, who wants perfect anyway? The imperfectness of things are what make things interesting. The possibility of new things happening :)

My view on life is that the day I stop improving or learning is the day I die. I always want to improve myself if every way. It may be physically, mentally or spiritually.
Good and evil doesn't have any meaning to me, my life revolves around just 2 meanings: Interesting and not interesting.

Other than that, I like to laugh, sometimes at the inappropriate times, and also to make lame jokes~ If you like bad jokes, maybe you haven't heard really bad ones yet :D

What I’m doing with my life
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Starting a company with my friends~~

Going on 1 day hikes around Tokyo and then drinking with friends or just drinking with strangers I meet in Izakayas. Learning how to play the drum, anyone who wants to do a jam session are welcome, but I am a complete newbie :)
Basically enjoying life and all that nature can offer.

Finding the balance:
"I must learn to love the fool in me-- the one who feels too much, talks too much, takes too many chances, wins sometimes and loses often, lacks self-control, loves and hates, hurts and gets hurt, promises and breaks promises, laughs and cries. It alone protects me against that utterly self-controlled, masterful tyrant whom I also harbor and who would rob me of human aliveness, humility and dignity but for my fool." - Theodore I. Rubin, MD
"Why so serioussss?" - The Joker (Heath Ledger; The Dark Knight)

Looking for that special someone who will laugh at my lame jokes and counter-joke me, accompany me drinking, eating, dancing to the tunes of lives and sometimes just to be there together without doing anything or saying anything

Found this online and have started using it: 'When I'm scared to tackle an obstacle, I close my eyes and pretend i am an 80 year old man who regrets not tackling all the obstacles he wanted to in life. Then when I feel like that old man, I say to myself, "I wish I was young again", then I open my eyes....And BOOM! I'm young again.'

Next in the list of things to learn: Dance, Another language(probably Korean), Scuba Diving, Kendo
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
- Eating spicy food
- Creating the mood in nomikai
- Taking exam
- Finding direction by getting lost first
- Making decision when noone wants to
- Using Google
- Making lame jokes
- Listening to people
- Facilitate a discussion
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I like to smile and joke
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Author/Books: L.E.Modesitt Jr, Robin Hobb, The Alchemist, Stephen R. Covey, Daniel H. Pink, Mitch Albom
Manga: 星の五月雨, Doraemon, Drifters, Pluto, Monsters, Hajime no Ippo, Death Note(1st half)
Anime: Cowboy Bebop, Bakemonogatari, Durarara, Baccano
Movie: The Matrix(Sadly there is no sequel to it), The Dark Knight, Inception, 転々, Walk Hard, Hot Fuzz, King of Comedy, Kung Fu Hustle, フィッシュ・ストーリー, Ashes of Time, Mad Detective
TV series/drama: Friends, House, Glee, Supernatural, Nodame Cantabille, Love Shuffle, Galileo, Big Bang Theory, HIMYM, Running Man, Hannibal, 深夜食堂, 孤独のグルメ, Infinity Challenge
I like comedies and movies with good character developments. If you have any recommendation, please send me a message. Seems to be very difficult to find good movies nowadays~
Music: Background music, Game music, OSTs, Eric Satie, Jazz, pop, rock, anything. My mood is influenced easily by music
Food: Sweet and spicy, I am from Indonesia, and we like our food sweet and spicy there. But I am at the extreme end of the spicyness spectrum, I can't live without spice. Don't worry, Indonesian separates the spicy sauce from the dishes ;) And I eat basically everything except for bugs & balut.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
- Humour
- Music, if there is a venture that is trying to create automatic background music selector based on heart-rate, count me in
- My sketchbook
- Health, I want to climb all the famous mountains in the world
- My kindle
- My Backpack, I want Doraemon's pocket :(
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Is there a way to make everyone enjoy their jobs?
How to conquer the world...
Other than that just be happy
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Dinner with friends, walk around Tokyo to find something interesting, Karaoke, drinking in a neighborhood bar and just enjoy talking with new & old nakama
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I am very frugal as I am saving most of my money for viewing the wonders of the world, dinner with friends and future business opportunities

I believe in love and I just want to be a fool in front of love
You should message me if
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You love eating food from a street-side vendor as much as food from a high-class restaurants, you like drinking in a rowdy place as much as drinking in a quiet bar
You know and love Stephen Chow and wants to discuss about his movies.
You are feeling lucky
You want to be a heroine in my life. I am looking for a partner in crime.
You are just bored and want to talk to someone