Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
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-I have a habit of dancing like nobody's watching, even though it
would be best if nobody did.
-I'm smarter than the average bear, despite what you may think or
what I will (or won't) say. -I'm a liberal idealist grounded by
midwestern conservative roots (and yes, I realize that might be
contradictory to some, but it's a delicate balance that is
constantly challenged and reevaluated), the end result being a
left-leaning moderate that always seeks compromise.
-I've been called a pompous elitist and if it is true, then I'm
failing at my responsibility of being one of the elite.
-I do have my faults, and I will not be making many people's hot
list this year.
-However, I am told by a few that on the whole I'm not terrible to
look at and I'm overall a decent person. You are welcome to
discover for yourself.
-For those that care about Meyers-Briggs: INFP, with moments where
I swing to INTP.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I hit a wall in terms of personal growth in Southwest Missouri.
Spent a year in San Diego, got my fill of the greener grass, and
decided to come back to Springfield.
In terms of career, I love kids, and most of my professional
experience has been working with children that were victims of
abuse/neglect. I have no children of my own and no immediate desire
to start having them, but I may want to someday (if you have kids,
please don't read this as a dealbreaker, just realize I have some
goals before I commit to being any kind of long-term parental
figure). My current job has me utilizing a skill set that sets me
up to be some kind of Superdad (at least that's what the women I
work with say)
I spend my days working (A lot. Boo on you salaried job!), playing
I keep telling myself that I'm going to learn Spanish, so far Self
replies with "STFU, here's something shiny."
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Since I am having trouble filling this out for right now, I'm going
to go with being modest. Or I could really not be really good at
anything, but be decent at about everything.
A friend told me at my Goodbye Missouri party that if I had a
superpower it would be making everyone feel welcome and connected.
I am not sure exactly what he meant by that, but I choose to take
it as a compliment.
The first things people usually notice about me
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Being large and hairy, but not in the gross way. Also, I am a
bigger guy, but it is a work in progress (lost 40 lbs in the last
year, first major plateau). Most are pretty quick to figure out I
am usually quiet and reserved, and that I'm willing to let others
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Books: Too many to count, but they tend to be of the fantasy genre,
or some kind of political/insightful.
: I'll watch
anything once, except for horror/slasher movies. I haven't delved
into the reason why, but they just make me angry rather than scared
or frightened, and that's not really how I like to spend my
Music: I enjoy any and all music, especially if I know anything
about the culture/subculture that developed it.
steamed veggies. I also enjoy a good steak, but growing up in a
cattle family has set that bar fairly high. If I ever become a
non-carnivore, it will be for health reasons, and I will probably
still be stubborn about it. With that said, go you if you managed
that kind of discipline, you have my respect for doing something I
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
alcoholic by any means, but if one day I was told I could never
drink scotch again I just might cry)
Good conversation (fairly rare)
Money (Not that it is overly important, but it's a necessity to
survive in today's society)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Who am I?
When will all these answers finally be matched to the right
Why the world sucks and
What I should be doing to make it better.
Where this crazy road of life leads.
How is it that there seems to be an overwhelming theme in this area
that girls over 5'9" label themselves as "Freakishly Tall" and the
like. Honestly, I don't see the problem.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
On my off-time I'm hanging out with the guys/gals, probably doing
something others would consider nerdy. Usually I work Friday nights
and just want to relax at home unless the guys browbeat me into
going out for a beer.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I am slightly internet famous for playing Dungeons and Dragons. Not
in an embarrassing way like you see on youtube, but I have earned a
small fan-club for it.
I also have an extreme, (nigh irrational) dislike of having my
photo taken, unless I've been drinking, which is why most of my
photos make me appear to be an alcoholic.
In all honesty, I have a handful of secrets that I don't disclose
except to the closest friends. Otherwise I am an open book.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You want to meet someone who cares enough to listen, but is
respectful enough to not meddle (unless you ask). If you can handle
sarcasm as a way of life, but sincerity as a driving
You want to meet someone new and see where it goes, I'd be game for
In either case, send me a message or rate me with 4 or 5 stars. If
we both find each other that interesting, I'll find something to
talk about. Chances are you have stumbled across here because I
popped up in your recent visitors. I don't mean to be a creeper,
but I will usually not send a message without some kind of mutual
expression of interest. I'm done with writing up messages with
thoughtful insights to the recipient's profile only to have them
ignored. Sometimes I will send a message anyway, so feedback is
That last bit sounds more bitter than it ought to in my head, many
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