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20 F Carbondale, IL

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 2:43pm
5′ 4″ (1.63m)
Body Type
Trying to quit
Agnosticism, and somewhat serious about it
Sagittarius, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from two-year college
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Likes dogs and likes cats
English, German (Poorly), Sign Language (Fluently)

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My self-summary
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My life is fairly complicated right now. Just got out of an LTR, not looking for anything committed or serious right now. I am potentially looking for casual sex and short term dating. This does not mean I want to fuck random strangers. I am interested in meeting new people and developing connections and if there is chemistry going from there.

My main hobby is poetry, I consider myself a poet first and foremost. If you aren't an equalist and are homophobic or anti-men or anti-women's reproductive health or think people are bad for having sex with lots of people we probably won't connect very well as friends. I don't believe in gender or race, I think they are constructed concepts cultures created. I would drink wine every day if I could. I live with my family and they are pretty important to me, especially my sisters. My cats are the pajamas. (snrrk)

I don't know what I want to do with my life overall, but I know I want to help people. I know that I want to push this world closer to equality. I try to be aware of subconscious conformity to any cultural standards and modify my behavior if I deem appropriate. I'm very counter-culture but I wouldn't call myself a non-conformist. There are some things our culture enforces that I am very happy about!

I also laugh, a lot. Humor is really important to me. Gotta be able to joke and be goofy and make bad jokes because that is my default state.

Stuff, things.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Writing and performing a lot of poetry, going out to bars and DDing for my friends, meeting and spending time with lots of great people.

Just graduated from an IPP program, so I'm fluent in ASL, trying to become an interpreter. I've sang in choirs and played trumpet in bands and orchestras for years. I play various different kinds of video games. I love table top gaming, I really enjoy getting into the character of whatever character is generated. I also play a ridiculous amount of board games. I like to travel, I go to medieval/fantasy boffer events all around the country. I have all kinds of hobbies born from that (sewing, leatherworking, roleplay, learning about history, blahblahblah). I love learning about all different kinds of things, from molecular biology to space to the psychology of infants. Anthropology has probably the strongest grasp on me though. Culture and the study of it is probably above any other educational pursuit I have come across thus far.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Being passionate, mixing drinks, learning languages, cooking, poetry, grappling, not thinking in straight lines, music theory, singing, scrabble, softball.
The first things people usually notice about me
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Usually, I'm either seriously engaged in conversation or laughing. If I'm alone I try to look scary and intimidating to keep people from trying to create a friendship with me. Grrrrrr!

For poetry, how passionate and intense I am. Lots of people call me angry, but I think that is misplaced. I'm not usually angry, just very passionate and don't always talk about happy things.

I wear a lot of clothing I sewed myself. Also depends on if I'm dressed up as a goblin or not. I'd have to guess my laugh and loud personality otherwise though.

But if you're a regular person who cares about typical American things probably what you'll notice and care about most is that I'm fat, have weird hair and sometimes I wear weird clothing.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I'm skipping the first three because I am trying to shorten my profile.

I am into basically all genres of music, just gotta find the right artist. My very favorite is Nine Inch Nails/How to Destroy Angels and anything else Trent Reznor has ever touched in his life. Massive Attack, Portishead, Ray Charles, Bill Withers, Howlin' Wolf, Glitch Mob, Tech N9ne, 50 Cent, Nelly, Atmosphere, Lorn, Amy Winehouse, Mindless Self Indulgence, Violent Femmes, L7, various 90s music. Anything by Dave Grohl is pretty tits too. I also like most live music, when it's actually live not just on a computer. The energy at a good show is unlike anything else.

I like basically everything, I am not a picky eater at all. I've been cooking with a lot of turmeric, mustard seed, and fennel seed lately though.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
7 things, cause I break rules! These are not in order of importance.

Learning, as much as I can about anything and everything I can.

Traveling, and NOT being stuck in southern Illinois all the time. Not that's it's not beautiful here, just don't care for seeing all the same things every single day.

Music, and I don't just mean "cuz i just luv listening 2 it! lol!!!" I am constantly singing something in my head or tapping my foot to something or creating rhythms or beats or songs in my head. Ask anyone who is close to me, I hum or whistle or breathe beats and different music frequently.

Writing poetry and other expression with words.
I host a local poetry night and I write very frequently; probably a poem every week or so. It is my "church". It is my favorite way of expressing myself, and typically is an overflow of intensity and excessive emotional/energy build up in me leaking out. Which is like puss seeping out of a wound; kind of necessary for it's healing process.

I feel this doesn't require much explanation. Equality efforts in America have made being more than property or a second class citizen possible.

I lose my mind with animals. Doesn't matter what kind, I basically love all and turn into a derpy mess when I'm around them, even being dangerous. I once while visiting an alligator reserve park in Houston got less than a meter away holding onto a tree leaning over the water to take a picture of a wild alligator.

I mean more than just as a basal need. Holy crap, I love food. I eat that shit everyday. I know my way around a seasoning cabinet and love to cook. Food is my main addiction, good cooking is one of the many keys to my heart.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How young I am and how much yet how little life I have left to live, and the multitude of things I want to do with life!

Agnosticism and how we can never truly know anything.

The future in all of it's forms. In my own life, in science, for this world, for the universe, for technology, for cultures everywhere, etc.

How technological progress does not equal better and morality is relative. Who is to quantify what makes something better? Something better to me is not better to you. Cell phones and air conditioning and computers and concrete are not necessarily better than living a basal life in a tribe in a jungle. What is better is for each individual to decide.

Various oppressed people and how trivial it is to treat people like badly for perceived differences. We are all so small in the grand scheme of things, hating and killing each other over perceived differences is the saddest thing.

Being bitter about christianity/religious zealots and how most brainwash their children in a way that I feel is emotional/mental abuse.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
It really varies. Sometimes at home relaxing, sometimes out at the bar, sometimes over at a friend's house, sometimes out camping in whatever state.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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My username is because I'm really into goblins. I love dressing up and acting like one.

Not private, but admittances:

I hate the word "sexy".

I ask a lot of questions.

I am fascinated with and have done a lot of research on serial killers.
I’m looking for
  • Guys and girls who like bi girls
  • Ages 18–40
  • Near me
  • For new friends, short-term dating, casual sex
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You won't run screaming "HYGIENE!!!" from armpit hair and leg hair.
Don't message me if you think women have an obligation to shave/wear make up/look feminine and that men aren't allowed to.

You should NOT message me if you are a Tumblr-ite "feminist" misandrist queer otherkin self-diagnosed autistic racist against white people. You would hate me, and I already immensely dislike the hatred and misandry and racism that Tumblr breeds.
(edit: Okay, typically it is difficult for me to maintain friendships with people who ascribe to Tumblr Feminism however I don't want that to keep me from being someone's friend. I have met several folks who aside from these beliefs I greatly enjoyed their company and wanted to look past our differences.)

Don't message me if you are okay with transgender people but not okay with transethnic people.

You consider food, healthcare, and safety a human right.

You have watched this video and agree with her.

You don't think Big Bang Theory or Tosh.0 are funny.

You aren't going to copy paste a message you send to all the pages you go to. "im intersted in talkin 2 u u have a cool profile". Tell me why you want to talk to me.

You play Dagorhir.
You feel we have something else cool in common.
You are interested in ASL and/or are involved in the Deaf community.
Or you want to be my friend! :)