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30 Portland, OR Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 26–36
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Today – 4:28am
5′ 6″ (1.68m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Gemini, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Banking / Finance
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids
Likes dogs
English (Fluently), Spanish (Okay)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Me? Later. Let’s talk about you.

You're a reflective person who pauses to admire little things: fallen petals on the sidewalk, quality tools and elegant mannerisms. But you don't stop at mere appreciation- you’re fascinated by how things work, and probably love science.

What else? Your cleverness makes you witty and insightful, but your superhero ability is synthesizing many perspectives. This bestows you with a rich inner world, full of parallels and connections that seem hidden to others. As Antoine de Saint-Exupéry said:

"Behind all seen things lies something vaster; everything is but a path, a portal or a window opening on something other than itself."

Even so, friends know you as practical and driven, and you feel accomplished if you go to sleep with dirt under your fingernails.

And of course you think cigarettes and random hookups are lame.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Daydreaming about ancient sages and nodding my head to reggaetón as I send millions of dollars to the four corners of the earth.

Rediscovering piano. Yoga. Going on idealistic rants in the shower while I'm still waking up... my roommate must think I'm a card- I'm sure she knows my whole party platform by now.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Gravity. Vocabulary. Presence. Smile.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Please enjoy the music while your party is reached:
Dance Mix
Chillaxation Mix
Latin Mix

I love this passage.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
The foundations and firmaments.
Becoming a better human becoming.
Typical INTJ musings about absurdity and global domination.
Stuff Buddha said. And tarot cards.
Awkward things I did today that make me burst out laughing in retrospect.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I like chivalry, but I have a fairly egalitarian idea of it. Let me paint you a picture:

You're the kind of princess who, when kidnapped, single-handedly takes out all the guards in the castle by the time I ride up on my bitchin' white stallion. Inwardly, I'm disappointed because I wanted some exercise after my long commute, but outwardly I say 'I've brought the wine, darling!' in a hokey English accent. You smile, but don't care to ask what kind, because wine is just wine. We share a toast in the amber evening light, get silly, and you provoke me by tickling (which I hate) until we're wrestling across the courtyard- whereupon one of us bangs a shin on something and there is just cursing and laughing, and then kissing. And they lived happily ever after....
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You're likewise looking for a sexy-ass equal/companion/friend.
Imagination and precision are your right and left hooks, and your third eye can lase through tank armor.
I like people who have their shit in order but are still quirky enough to make interesting conversation.
In Myers-Briggs terms, I sync best with fellow iNtuitives.

No thanks if: you're poly or have children. Sorry! I respect ya, but we're in different places.


Possible conversation starters:

- My dad's a mestizo from Guatemala, and my mom's a Swedish/Norwegian hybrid (and both are social workers), so if you want to share a conversation about gender, ethnicity, class, etc., you can bring your experience and we'll have fun decompressing all this madness.

- I love talking with self-aware, open-minded people, whether spiritual or atheist. I've explored many paths and favor naturalist outlooks, like pantheism, Taoism and Zen.

- I'm very impressed by athletic ability and fitness, but televised sports bore the hell out of me. The only way I would watch a game on TV is if there was a radical change, like "Tonight, the losers will be castrated." I guess that's why I watch Game of Thrones instead.

- In my early 20's I had a psychedelic 'phase' where I figured out a lot about my values and purpose. I got what I needed from the experience and now live a somewhat sober lifestyle of 0-3 drinks per week and very little caffeine. I'm a fan of simplicity.

- I've been to Spain and Norway, Mexico and Guatemala, Chile and Bolivia, the Dominican Republic and Easter Island, Washington DC and Native American reservations. I'm a homebody who likes crowds and adventure.


Wait... maybe listen to some Yann Tiersen, and remember what you want. Then holla.