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TheGoldfather

33 M Los Angeles, CA

My Details

Last Online
Online now!
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
Black
Height
6′ 2″ (1.88m)
Body Type
Athletic
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
Drinks
Very often
Drugs
Sometimes
Religion
Christianity, but not too serious about it
Sign
Gemini, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Other
Income
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Pets
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
I have no idea what I'm doing with dating, online or in real life. I met my most recent ex-girlfriend on here, so this site is pretty legit. Just didn't work out, but i'm curious to see what else is out there. I am a nice, fun guy that likes to make people laugh. I'm kind, I have ambition, passion, I'm intelligent, can drink with the best of em, and I just know how to treat people right. I dunno how to do the profile optimization thing and tell you what you wanna hear, I can just tell you what im about. No pretenses

If you're into personality types im an ENTJ. Best of both worlds baby. Let's set the world on fire!
What I’m doing with my life
I am currently a partner in a DJ management company and I bartend a few nights a week. Last year i finished up as a tour manager for a globe trotting band based out of LA.

In the meantime I am constantly building on my small agency to include artist management. I'm working on establishing an artwalk in a very cool LA neighborhood and I'm developing a tv show for a dope Cleveland rapper who's definitely made good haha. Stay tuned. I'm trying really hard to be satisfied but I'm a worker from the Midwest. Striving is the name of the game! LA will know I was here!

I'm trying to be a better man and connect more with my family, especially my younger siblings. It's hard work and I'm not awesome at it, but I'm really trying. Ideas welcome
I’m really good at
Listening and offering advice. Making people laugh. Making fun of myself. Offering an opposing viewpoint to stimulate the conversation. Cooking. Trivia (master level). Witty conversation. Double entendres. Being a friend. Poker. Controlling the situation
The first things people usually notice about me
I smile a lot and/or my laugh. I project so you can pretty much hear it from anywhere, James Earl Jones style
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: From Good To Great, Where The Wild Things Are, Never Eat Alone, Schmoozing, The Rats Of Nimh

Movies: Rocky IV, The Secret Of My Success, Forrest Gump, any ESPN 30 For 30

Shows: Dallas (from the 80s), Seinfeld, True Blood, The Wonder Years,

Music: The Knux, Rage Against The Machine, Oliver, Treasure Fingers, The Rapture, Chic, Jamiroquai

Food: Anything Mexican, Thai, Korean BBQ, hot dogs, NYC style and Chicago deep dish pizza
The six things I could never do without
In no particular order:
Travel
Family
Food
Friends
Great lovers
Music
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Ways to change the world, how to get enough money to tell the haters to eat me and live doing good deeds while experiencing the fullness of life
On a typical Friday night I am
Though no Friday is typical per se, I can usually be found going to music related events and parties all over with friends, especially if there's an open bar. Or catch me at a live show, and/or seeing great djs around town.

But if you invite me to something, there's a good chance I'd tag along. Unless its "A Club Called Rhonda" Friday, lol. Nothing tops that
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I'm really not that private, but I guess my stepdad beat me up when I was 18 and it has literally altered the course of my entire family's life since
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 24–36
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex
You should message me if
You want nothing but a good time. How could you resist? No really.... If you like to laugh, are not a lunatic, and you enjoy conversation with stiff drinks, then we'll have a blast. You like to have fun and don't take yourself too seriously. I can come across as a hard case, but that's because I expect people to try and be at their best. I'm just a big ol softie on the inside. I just want to work hard, play hard and grow with someone.

I am definitely wanting a relationship at this stage in my life, but I'm open to weighing my options till that materializes.

If you want a guy that's a throwback, no bs straight shooter, will treat you right, honest, and fun as shit, feel free to drop me a line. If you don't want that, then you must be a lunatic (see above)