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TheGreatDer

38 M Canton, CT

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 6:14pm
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Average
Diet
Anything
Smokes
Sometimes
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Religion
Agnosticism
Sign
Aries
Education
Dropped out of university
Job
Art / Music / Writing
Income
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids
Pets
Has cats
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
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I'm a full-time musician and private music instructor. I play strings and brass; most of my work as of late has been as a bass player and I am at or near the top of my craft. I lean towards intellectual with a side of morbid sarcasm sprinkled with just plain silly sometimes.
What I’m doing with my life
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I am laser-focused on music; it is my life's pursuit.
I’m really good at
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Music, making coffee, Jeopardy!, conversation, etc.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My hair, my lexicon.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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There's a special place in my heart for Umberto Eco and Jorge Luis Borges. I'm an adventurous eater and I love trying new stuff save pickles, anything with the word "salad" in it when it is not a salad and obnoxiously spicy foods designed to impress sadists. Haven't had television(regular TV)for many years now. Delightful! I was a film scoring major in college so I am something of a movie snob. I would love to talk about this.

Music...I went to music school; my answers may not be common. Bach, Mozart, Chopin(my favorite), Beethoven, Tchaikovsky, Prokofiev, Stravinsky...Charlie Parker, Miles, Coltrane, Bill Evans, Herbie Hancock(another favorite), Chick Corea, Jaco Pastorius, Béla Fleck...Steely Dan, The Police, Paul Simon, Metallica(before the Black Album), Jamiroquai, The Mars Volta, Antonio Carlos Jobim...I could go on all day. Ask me what I hate!
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My organs and tissue systems, oxygen, coffee, my kitty, temperate climate and my musical career.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
...more than I could possibly describe here. Music. Philosophy. Humanities. Art. How much math I've forgotten(music is a base 12 number system and 13 is as high as I'll ever need to count)...my addiction to my perception and senses. Things that make me happy.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Playing a show somewhere.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I took it back.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 21–40
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
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...it's a day ending in "Y". Don't message me on Bleen.