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46 M Santa Cruz, CA

My Details

Last Online
Apr 3
6′ 2″ (1.89m)
Body Type
Atheism, but not too serious about it
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Has kids
English (Fluently), Russian (Fluently), Ukrainian (Fluently)

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My self-summary
Someone has recently asked me if I am here just lurking. She had a point. I find it super interesting to read profiles because many woman write here with a rare openness about themselves. Sometimes this site is just a really good read... thanks everyone. Excluding "6 things you can't live wothout" section. Obviously.

Let me sell my awesome qualities to you. I know, I am just lurking, supposedly. I am tall, bookish and a bit of a nerd, all in one. I like tai chi, technology and red wine. I am en entrepreneur, an inventor of sorts, cold blooded romantic and an artist. Also, I used to paint in the past, abandoned it, and just recently started doing it again. OK, how's that? Short and meaningless sum up but it sounds good.

I like outdoors, hiking, camping and fishing. Unfortunately I am not doing this as much as I like. When I lived years ago in Maine, I hiked parts of the Appalachian trail. I still dream about going for a 6-months long hike through the entire trail. Maybe one day I will. Meanwhile I rely on Bill Bryson's A Walk in the Woods for satisfying my wilderness craviings. Highly recomend this book, it's hilarious, both about man's nature and the wild nature.
What I’m doing with my life
I find myself constantly reinventing things. That's what I am doing with my life at the moment.
I’m really good at
fixing things, seeing big picture, understanding computers, fishing and catching fish, being intense, being dreamy while driving on a long road trip, brainstorming, jumping rope, juggling, throwing knives. I give great hugs (just ask me for one) and great massages (don't ask).
The first things people usually notice about me
No idea. If i were to have boobs i would say my boobs, but I don't. Height? Accent? An otherworldly appearance?
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I have a little bit of an intense nature, Eastern European flavor (The Unbearable Lightness of Being, Master and Margarita). I am sometimes a sarcastic son of a bitch (The Twelve Chairs) full of dark secrets (Steppenwolf) who also believes in true love (The Princess Bride) and true friendship (Three Comrades by Erich Maria Remarque).

My guilty pleasure (well, its all pleasure and no guilt) is SciFi and fantasy books. The good ones.
The six things I could never do without
Doing things, going places, meeting people. I have to do this or I will become a loner. Yes, I really could.

Humor. Nothing in life, or almost nothing, is so important that you cannot laugh about it.

iPhone. Because it is so sexy that it shall help me get a hot date on OKcupid. (I don't own iPhone and I really wish I could have a Ubuntu phone. Sarcasm of a geek.)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
figuring out nature of things, brainstorming existential questions, inventing new things, complexity and simplicity of things in life, my own destiny and where wild things are. Also, what's wrong with me and how do I get better.
On a typical Friday night I am
On a dance fight date.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I have awesome powers of Walter Mitty.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 30–45
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
Please message me if you think my profile is your kind of weird. If you are here not just to get married and not just for your sexual exploits (ignore this). If you are a famous writer and would like to read to me your unpublished manuscript. Same, if you are a not famous but don't mind paying me for listening to your not-yet-published book. Also if you think you can detect all instances of sarcasm in my profile and if you think that an infamous 50 shades of grey book was an utter crap.

( If for some strange reason you want to torture yourself by dancing salsa or tango with me, contact me right away. I will quit my lurking for a dance date. )