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33 M Columbia, SC

I’m looking for

  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 21–45
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 1:56pm
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
Mostly other
Agnosticism, and laughing about it
Aries, but it doesn’t matter
Working on university
Relationship Status
Seeing Someone
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Cynicism inspired foreword:

I continue to be amazed at the majority of very high percentage match women on this site with no interest in conversing or meeting in a safe public venue to see if there's potential for the friendship they list wanting in their profiles. If you're one of those people, please deselect "looking for new friends" in the "I'm looking for" part of your profile so those of us who are legitimately looking for friends won't waste your time, then stop reading this and go about your merry way ignoring other (probably less thought out and polite) messages and profiles. K bai.

For everyone else:

I value humor, honesty, intellect, kindness, learning, and intimacy. Thus, I try to fill my life with those things.

I enjoy being creative, am a constant work in progress, and have proactively continued focusing my energies towards bettering myself and those around me.

I'm (overly) analytical at times and often have friends tell me I "think too much," so I've been trying to get out of my own head more and meet new people and try new things.

I'd like to find more people who do fun and interesting things to share experiences with, so I've been trying to make meeting people a priority.

I'm not a mind reader.

I spend most of my time with my GF molecutie. We're both currently trying to make new friends around here, so feel to toss either of us a message.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I'm in my last semester at USC. I plan on getting back into IT, design/media production, or a social work related field when I resume my career... hopefully doing something to increase social justice and better society. I'm particularly interested in addressing the dire need for sex ed reform in the US, teaching folks about informed consent, and de-stigmatizing human sex and sexuality.

As time and income allows, I'm proactively trying to make the time to build new friendships, indulge in new experiences, and figure out ways to become a part of or build towards a community I want to be a part of.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
- honest communication
- bad jokes and innuendo
- being sex positive
- knowing a little about a whole lot of stuff
- waxing philosophical about how to improve society
- games (especially MtG, fighting games, DOTA2, Guild Wars 2, and online FPS games)
- writing lists on the internet
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
If they've not seen me in awhile, how much my hair and/or facial hair have changed (I often significantly change or eliminate my facial hair a few times a year). In general, my assortment of laughs... and apparently that I exude "tall, sexy nerdiness." I've been likened to David Tennant more than once. I took this as a compliment.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I like a variety of media, though I've been more into TV shows as of late (yay Netflix?)

Books: "Awareness" by Anthony DeMello, "Way of the Peaceful Warrior" by Herman Hesse, "Hitchhiker's Guide to the Galaxy" by Douglas Adams.

Movies: "An Inconvenient Truth", "Les Invasions Barbares", "The Corporation", "Lady in the Water", "Moulin Rouge!", "Secretary", "Why We Fight", "World's Fastest Indian", "En La Cama", "The Girl Next Door", "Airplane!", "Idiocracy," Studio Ghibli films, Wes Anderson films, Kevin Smith films, Mel Brooks films, James Bond movies, Zero Woman movies, Troma Studios Films, I.G. Production Films, anything Monty Python.

TV Shows: Adventure Time, Arrested Development, Battlestar Galactica, Better Off Ted, Californication, Children's Hospital, Doctor Who, Eureka, Firefly, Futurama, Game of Thrones, Girls, Ghost in the Shell: Stand Alone Complex, Harvey Birdman: Attorney at Law, Invader Zim, The Newsroom, Orange is the New Black, Robot Chicken, Satisfaction, Stargate SG-1, Star Trek:TNG and newer (including Enterprise), The Venture Brothers.

Music: Kishi Bashi, "Still Alive" by Jonathan Coulton, Regina Spektor, "Skydiving" by Darren Styles, "I Just Don't Think I'll Ever Get Over You" by Colin Hay, Susumu Hirasawa. E.S. Posthumus, lots of movie, tv, and video game soundtracks.

Food: Vietnamese, Thai, Sushi, Indian, Italian, good Tex-mex (so hard to find around here!), fruit (my main snack food), lots of vegetarian and/or organic stuff
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
- beauty
- creating
- communication
- the ability to improve oneself
- affection / having fun with sex
- humor
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
- how can I make that person laugh
- how to improve myself and the world/society
- how best to go about building meaningful relationships
- questioning traditional relationship dynamics
- what the real meaning of "success" is and the steps necessary to obtain it.
- finding open minded folks to try fun hedonistic stuff with
- cultures and places I'd like to explore
- the importance of kindness towards others
- how sad it is that many people never explore their fantasies because they lack the communication or open-mindedness to give them a try
- wondering why a rare thoughtful message doesn't merit a response when around 99% of the messages in your inbox are "what's up."
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
usually working, studying, derping on the internet, or spending time with molecutie doing fun or nerdy stuff (like playing Magic, walking in parks, Netflix, laughing about all of the things, "that's what she said" jokes, etc.)
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'm pretty kinky, rather nerdy, want to go on more adventures and travels, question the practicality of monogamy, and will try most things (that won't kill or permanently injure me) twice. I'm also a little shy and awkward at first around people I find really attractive.
You should message me if
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you're interested in friendship and making time to get to know each other... especially if you're into fun nerdy stuff (science, art, video games, nerdy card games), are kind-hearted, find living things to be fascinating, desperately crave genuine honesty, are over a 75% match percentage, and aren't crazy socially awkward.

Everyone could use another friend, right?

If there's mutual attraction, the option of something more is a possiblity... as long as the notion of an open or poly relationship are of interest.

I'm happy to answer questions about myself, life, the universe, etc. as time allows... so there's one more excuse for you to message me :D