Im a bit goofy and loyal but its hard to say who i really am on here, the best way is to talk to me. I like to think I'm laid back and and easy going, most of the time. I am just a goofy person i love to make people happy and my favorite way is to just be a bit nuts, setting harmless pranks or going out with bunny ears on or any number or odd things i do. Other then that I'm a great listener, i can usually lend a sympathetic and unbiased ear. I believe the greatest foundation for a good relationship is friendship. I have seen to many couples destroy themselves because they didn't start out as friends or jumped into things way to fast. I like slow and steady, if i plan to be in it for the long run i want to savor those first few weeks or months of gaining each others trust and becoming friends. I don't believe in the whole find some one screw em move in with em and then fight every day, that's not a relationship that's torture, if i wanted to fight with some one every day i would of taken up boxing, it would hurt less. I guess you could call me old fashioned but i love to scheme up romantic little dates, and since im a great cook it makes it even better.

I am silly, goofy, and ridiculous

Im working on becoming a Chef, i currently work at an irish pub as the kitchen manager/head cook. Other then that im just searching for friends or something a bit more, I would like to start a family before im 30 though, which is just under four years away, but no rush right?

A friend asked me what the 5 things i wanted to do before i died, are. I am proud to say i was able to name them with out hesitation.

1. Own a Restaurant.
2. Have my name recognized as a great chef at least throughout OkC.
3. Go to Europe, specifically Great food countries.
4. Have a family, no matter the form.
5. Find true love.

I am a great cook. I love to cook, i am a very creative person but besides what i think isn't half bad writing, I'm pretty much useless when it comes to artistic things. So i pour all that creative "genius" into my food.

Im weird, not in your usual that guy is weird type of way but... "why is he wearing a leather trench coat in 110 degree weather with bunny ears on."
I just enjoy being different, i really dont have a reason for it i just do it. Other then that im a bit shy with people at first but i usually open up.

Any thing written by Alan Dean Foster or Steven Brust. i prefer high fanasty and sci-fi books. Movies well action and sci-fi and fantasy of course...still not much of a tv watcher though i prefer interactive things, course i love hiting the movies to watch the newest blockbuster. As for music i prefer stuff with passion that you can feel coming from the song, Evanescence is my favorite Godsmack too.
Fooooood.... i love food anything and any kind preferably when i make it... hehe, they say a chef is his own greatest fan and his own greatest critic.

There really isnt anything i could never do with out. Im adaptable, or at least like to think i am. Ive gone with out friends, or family or pets, days off, sleep, money, sex, ect ect ect... all the things people commonly say they cant go with out... But i will tell you the things i try to allways keep in my life. Friends, family, food(not to eat but mostly to cook),pets, a good long night's(or morning's) rest, and last but most cliche of all LOVE... but thats just cause im a bit of a sap.

Work, its always dominant in my mind, since it takes up a good bit of my time even when i have a day off, i always have to keep thinking about inventory and recipes and what not. Other then that i worry whether or not ill be able to start a family before I'm 30.

Working then just cruising the internets, if i can get them together me and my friends do some good ole fashioned dnd. but other wise my social life is a bit lame... not that im complaining never was one for large crowds and i dont do the bar scene to much any more since i decided to not drink so much... But if you just wanna chat just im me shoot me a message on here and we can get in contact, even if its just chatting.

Im a giant DnD nerd...

Your a nice girl looking for a slow relationship that may or may not last for the long run... every one deserves a shot.