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TheLadyEve

28 / F / straight / Single

Maypearl, Texas

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Ethnicity
White
Height
5' 8" (1.72m).
Body Type
Average
Looking For
New friends, Long-term dating, Short-term dating, Activity partners, Long-distance penpals
Smokes
Drinks
Sometimes
Drugs
Religion
Atheism
Sign
Virgo and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Medicine / Health
Income
Kids
Likes children
Pets
Likes dogs and Likes cats
Languages
English (Fluently), Spanish (Okay)

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I am resilient, affable, and generous.

My Self-Summary

I am a southern girl transplanted around the country. I just moved from Chicago to the wilds of Texas. I'm out in the country right now but hope to move to the DFW area after I get a few things here squared away.

I love big cats but I am wary of very small dogs. I like the mountains (climbing them, not falling off of them). I love to cook. I read a lot. I'm really into movies. Netflix is not one of the six things I couldn't live without, but it's damn close. I even write my own film blog, Celluloitering. Of course, who doesn't have a blog these days?
I love to travel and want to do more of it. I believe in getting as much out of being alive as possible while I'm still here, and I am slowly gaining the insight that many of the limits that keep me from doing everything I want to do are self-imposed.

What I’m doing with my life

I'm a therapist by trade. I recently left my job at a psychiatric hospital in Chicago and got a new job doing crisis counseling in rural Texas. We'll see how that turns out. I'm hoping to eventually settle into a job that's not quite so high stress--working in a psych ER was just one long day's journey into an ulcer for me.

I’m really good at

I like to cook and bake and people tell me I'm good at it. I also like to read Tarot (though I'm not into psychoanalysis, pondering Jungian archetypes is a bit of a hobby). I love games especially spades, dominoes, rummy and trivial pursuit.
I am also decent at sizing people up and remembering the little things about them

The first things people usually notice about me

My conjoined twin...and my bouncy hair!

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

Books/Authors: Crime and Punishment, Lolita, Italo Calvino, Douglas Adams, Cat's Cradle, Roald Dahl, Nicholas Nickleby, Clive Barker, Terry Pratchett, Philip Roth, P.G. Wodehouse, John Steinbeck, James Thurber, e.e. cummings, Anais Nin, Isabel Allende, Evelyn Waugh, Charles Addams, The Selfish Gene, Love's Executioner, The Sun Also Rises, David Foster Wallace's essays ___________Movies/TV: Some Like It Hot, Mad Men, The Godfather, Rashomon, Harold and Maude, The Sting, Singin' in the Rain, Carrie, Tampopo, The Producers, Dr. Strangelove, Wall Street, Annie Hall, Caddyshack, The Big Lebowski, 8 1/2, Groundhog Day, Dawn of the Dead, the original Sabrina, Jackie Brown, Touch of Evil, The Fog of War, Ghost World, Wild Strawberries, Sunset Boulevard, Eternal Sunshine, Top Chef, Dexter, sooo many more, I can't list them all __________Music: The Beatles, Bud Powell, Lou Reed, Miles Davis, Elliott Smith, Tori Amos, Andrew Bird, George Clinton, Santogold, Bjork, U2, Radiohead, The Pixies, Outkast, John Lee Hooker, Dinah Washington, Tom Waits, Django Reinhardt, The Clash, Frank Zappa, The Magnetic Fields, the Kinks, Rasputina, Beethoven, Pantera, Mos Def, The Dead Kennedys, Girl Talk, Del tha Funkee Homosapien, TV on The Radio, They Might Be Giants, Abba, Bessie Smith, Johnny Cash ________ Food: Sushi, real vanilla ice cream, spinach, mangos, pastrami on rye, asparagus, vindaloo, strawberries, pancakes, good bourbon, better beer, vintage port, etouffee, bagels, peanut butter, a chicken caesar salad (easy on the dressing)

The six things I could never do without

Not counting the basics (food, water, air): My passport, good conversation, freedom, solitude, humor and music

I spend a lot of time thinking about

insanity, situational ethics, birds

On a typical Friday night I am

Either going out to a movie/coffee shop/bar/restaurant/concert or spending time at home playing my computer, watching movies or catching up on my reading. I spend a lot of time on my own but I am trying to be more social. I love people, I just have a hard time making plans to see them. Ha! This is something I need to work on.

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

Sometimes I eat peanut butter out of the jar.

You should message me if

You're bored and you want to have a fun conversation.