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TheLadyInShadow

26 Watervliet, NY Woman

Woman

I’m looking for

  • Everyone
  • Ages 21–36
  • Near me
  • For new friends

My Details

Last Online
Dec 23
Orientation
Bisexual
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 1″ (1.56m)
Body Type
A little extra
Diet
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Other, and very serious about it
Sign
Pisces, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from high school
Job
Other
Income
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Mostly non-monogamous
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Pets
Likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), Spanish (Okay), Bulgarian (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I'm weird. I'm celtic / pagan. Celtic as in the religion, not the nationality. I'm also Bisexual.

I like to try new things. Most anything at least once.

I firmly believe that life is not about taking shelter from the storm, it's about learning to meet it head on and enjoying the sheer clash of power and exhilaration of the resulting dance of control and surrender.

I try to live my life based on the why not of things, rather than the why. I don't want to look back on my life later and see it littered with all the things I wish I had done, the things I wish I'd taken the chance on, things I wish I'd risked. You might say it's one of my biggest fears, that I will look back and regret. I do not tend to regret my mistakes, though there are a couple things, as with everyone that I do, it is not -those- regrets I fear happening. It's the possibility that I will miss out on exciting and wonderful life experiences because I was afraid to take the risk and go for what I want.

I am free-spirited, adventurous, and creative.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I'm trying to figure out where I'm going with my life at the moment.

Though I still enjoy playing tabletop roleplaying games like Dungeons and Dragons, and World of Darkness, and I haven't given up my Aetolia, or my artistic aspirations, most of my time anymore is spent job-hunting.

I really need to get a board-gaming group set up, too, miss playing Catan,Pandemic, Ghost Stories and Resistance. Other games, too.

Very much considering heading to college for a bit and majoring in either Psychology, Journalism, or Teaching. And then I remember that there's no money in any of those, and make sadfaces. ^.^ They'd be fun though, I think.

Considering getting a TEFL cert and just...going and living in Europe somewhere while teaching English to the kiddies over there. Not a whole lot of money in that either, but the adventure and mystery in it appeals to me. Something like that sounds like it'd be epic-level fun.

More and more though, I'm thinking I just want to go back to St. Louis. I miss it.

I worked at the Texas Renaissance Festival in 2009, which was an absolutely amazing experience. I would really like to work faire again at some point.

I like to talk to people. I talk a lot. Conversation topics ranging from completely random thoughts to just things I've been thinking about. I like talking to people who listen AND contribute to the conversation. I don't talk to hear myself speak, I talk to share ideas and thoughts and get other people's opinions and so forth. I love debating about topics I'm passionate about.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Writing.

Roleplaying.

Picking up bits and pieces of other languages.

Talking too much.

Making friends.

Getting attention.

Diplomatic endeavors.

Coming up with boredom curing endeavors.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Either my eyes...they're a pretty goldish green color usually, but they change colors, or my tendancy to dress in 'non-normal' clothing. I run around in my cloak, and renaissance-style shirts and skirts and corsets and the like.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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To list a very very few, as the list of books and music at least, grows exponentially by the day. Limiting each section to four and a half lines.

Music: Nightwish, Kamelot, Blackmore's Night, Ludo, Muse, Metallica, Gym Class Heroes, The Offspring, Echoes of Eternity, Erzsebet, Korpiklaani, Ayreon, Basshunter, Bloodhound Gang, Aina, Avantasia, Apocalyptica, Epica, Finger Eleven, Iron Maiden, Rihanna, Edenbridge, Pentatonix, Peter Hollens, Lindsay Stirling, and Voltaire

Books: The Mists of Avalon--and about everything else by Marion Zimmer Bradley and Diana Paxton. The Black Jewels Series by Anne Bishop. ASoIaF by Martin, The Vampire Chronicles/Mayfair Witches Chronicles by Anne Rice. In the Eyes of the Dragon by Stephen King. Lord of the Rings. The Harry Potter series.

Movies: The Princess Bride, PotC, LotR trilogy, Serenity, Sweeney Todd, The Phantom of the Opera, Chicago, Moulin Rouge, RENT, Dr. Horrible's Sing Along Blog, The Prestige, and The Illusionist.

Shows: Firefly, The Simpsons, V, Family Guy, House, Glee, TrueBlood, Game of Thrones, HunterXHunter, just about anything on the History Channel. Online: The Guild.

Food: Pizza, Ice cream, Cookie dough, Chocolate of most varieties, Cheesecake of most varieties, Pasta of most varieties. I'm...not really a food person much. Or a TV person.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Love

Sex

Kittens

Internet/computer

Friends

Books

Not nessecarily in that order
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Love, Sex, Life, Aetolia ...not nessecarily in this order
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Hanging out with friends or at home being geeky on the computer.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I just got ordained as a Minister. (Nov 4th 2010)

I'm polyamorous but not really into most poly relationship setups. What I mean by this, is that I'm not interested in being anyone's third and I'm not really interested in random threesomes.

I am completely unashamed of my love of Disney movies.

Anything else you want to know message me and ask. There's a high likelihood I'll tell you as I don't give a damn who knows what about who I am, what I've done. etc.

I am, if you'll pardon the cliche, an open book.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You're bored.

You feel like talking.

You think i'm interesting.

...or something.

And you don't mind the fact that I'm extremely open and a bit crazy.

You're adventurous, interesting, intelligent, or otherwise fun to talk to.

As an aside: if you message me something that indicates an inability to type out your words (u, ur, 2 and so forth) I -will- ignore you. While I don't expect perfection therein, if you can't utilize proper spelling and grammar to some extent, don't talk to me, because it's a waste of your time, not to mention mine.