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TheLastDoctor

29 San Francisco, CA Gender Nonconforming

Gender Nonconforming

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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 20–35
  • Located anywhere
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My details

Last online
Jul 27
Orientation
Heteroflexible, Queer
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 11″ (1.80m)
Body Type
Thin
Diet
Mostly vegetarian
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Religion
Atheism
Education
Dropped out of Ph.D program
Job
Technology
Status
Single
Speaks
English (Fluently), Spanish (Okay)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Do you feel a deep ethical pull to try and provide as much information as possible to aid someone's decisionmaking process on these things?

Do you look at a form or social protocol and immediately get flattened by the need to subvert it at any cost?

Do you wish it was okay to create a series of parallel OKC profiles tailored separately to different audiences and to cultivating different sorts of desired relationships?

Do you pause over OKC's gender option and twist yourself in knots trying to weigh whether to focus on how you feel internally (a bose-einstien gender condensate, thanks for asking) versus how you're privileged/situated externally?
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I'm presently almost finished writing a relatively long work laying out a more string theorist friendly position within philosophy of science. Kinda. It's more snarky and passionate than an academic monograph, but it's also quite involved. It's hard to succinctly explain what it is. It's been a four year project, although the majority of the writing has been the last six months. So that's a thing I'm doing.

I guess everyone still categorizes me as an activist, but I only show up at my community center (Omni Commons!) irregularly, attend events sparingly and have diligently avoided sitting through a consensus meeting for years now. But once upon a time -- when I was 13 -- I fought in the streets of Seattle against the WTO. And a decade later I narrowly avoided 7.5 years for "Criminal Conspiracy to Commit Civil Disobedience in Furtherance of Terrorism."

I try to code just enough to keep a roof over my head so I can use the rest of my time to explore. Also I grew up homeless and then in the projects, so I can't really stand the yuppie tech world.

I write for an anarchist think tank and am attempting to effectively finish my graduate studies in theoretical physics on my own. Also several dozen other things.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I wanted to be a physicist since I was nine and my room is still filled with textbooks and a large whiteboard. But all I get praised for these days is my writing. I don't want to pretend like my prose will win any literary awards, but I guess I can't deny that I'm good at every-so-often cranking out something very earnest, snarky and dense with ideas.

It's kinda horrifying to phrase it as though all I'm clearly good at is writing think pieces.

I really wish I could get away with replacing my profile here with essays on love, sex, relationships, etc.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I used to be a partisan of new wave science fiction like Ursula K Le Guin and Samuel R Delany. At some point I betrayed them and cast my lot in with future-shock writers like Ken Macleod and Charlie Stross. But I most dearly love those writers like Ted Chiang and Iain Banks that straddle the gulf between both camps.

I guess my long-lasting fandoms are: Jurassic Park, Star Wars, Babylon 5, Firefly, Steven Universe, & the good ship #Korrasami. I currently have very good feelings about Sense8. Beyond that, well, I grew up in a 2nd-wave-feminist bubble -- forbidden from watching any popular media -- so naturally I've made a point to be highly fluent in huge array of films and shows.

These days I listen to a lot of Taylor Swift, Grimes, Lovers Electric, and Chvrches. I like a lot of post-rock too. And I've had longstanding affinities for The Mountain Goats, Everclear, The Goo Goo Dolls, The Taxpayers, and Ike Reilly.

I like avocados a lot. Burritos play a critical role in my life. I make a mean ratatouille and eat indian food on my birthday. I think we should burn down slaughterhouses and support vegan businesses, but I don't think individual consumer choices are ethically relevant as long as the state subsidizes animal products against falling demand and Safeway orders the same amount regardless of what's bought. Seems like we moved from talking about burritos to talking about arson pretty quickly didn't we? Well in Germany I once tried to order a burrito from a mexican restaurant and it came with *mayonnaise* in it.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
All the academic fields that I haven't devoured yet.

Philosophy, ethics, politics, sociology. Interpersonal power dynamics and the future of spacetime. Feminism, queer theory, social justice, critical race theory, etc and the flows of internet discourse. The current technical/strategic landscape in the cypherpunk war. The current ideological/memetic and social landscape of radical politics (leftist, postleftist, and libertarian).

I wake up each morning with a nagging anxiety about a different sub-realm of knowledge that I haven't sufficiently explored yet. Some days I vanquish this nagging feeling. Some days not.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Burrowed deep in my laptop, reading or writing, serenely massaged by the baselines of all the bars on my block.

An extrovert I am no longer. Although I occasionally play one on TV.
You should message me if
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You're earnest, driven, and starkly empathetic. You're abnormally inclined to valuing communication and intimacy. Audacity a bonus.

Your idea of fun is something like walking around the city excitedly talking about the ethics of time travel.