The most important thing that all of you wonderful ladies should know about me is that I try hard every day to be the kind of man I would want my daughters to be with. I treat women with the utmost respect and never like objects. I know that sounds like a line, but as a father of two beautiful little girls it's something I really consciously try to live up to.
I am Al Capone, The Dali Lama, and Marilyn Manson...but you can call me Sammie...
I'm kind, considerate, generous, and full of passion for life as well as compassion for others. I love my kids and would give my life and more for them. Leila Rene (DOB 5/20/06), and Bella May (DOB 8/20/11) are the two true loves of my life. Bella is pronounced "Bay-uh", and I sometimes jokingly refer to her as eBella because I met her mother right here on OkCupid. After having had two kids with the wrong women and kicking myself for making the same mistake twice, I now want a friendship so undeniable that a relationship inevitably happens on its own. I'm not looking for someone to "complete me", I am a whole person already. I am not looking for a cure to loneliness, for that exists in each and every one of us and I have found it in myself. I would like to meet my best friend, and while it can seem daunting at times I am willing to wait for that to come along. I will settle for nothing less.
I consider myself to be of a different breed than most people these days. Not because I'm arrogant, but because I have come to realize that most people are foul creatures that will lie, cheat, and steal to have their way. I walk a different path. I believe in honesty and kindness. Simply put, I am real where others only claim to be without even understanding the meaning of the word. Some people are thrown off by this at first, but if you get to know me it doesn't take long to see that I'm genuinely kindhearted.
I abide by the golden rule and try to always treat others the way I want to be treated. Compassion is a beautiful thing indeed.
If you like what you see here and think you might want to know me, talk to me. You can learn way more that way than you ever will from a written summary. If all you want to do is read about me and never meet, you are welcome to buy a copy of my book when it's finished.