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TheLoserElimist

21 / M / Bisexual / Single

New York, New York

His Details

Last Online
May 19
Ethnicity
White, Other
Height
5′ 7″ (1.69m).
Body Type
Skinny
Diet
Kosher
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Judaism
Sign
Education
Working on college/university
Job
Student
Income
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
This one seems too complicated for the moment and so I shall procrastinate for a bit and will add items as they occur to me.

1) Please message me first as it is unlikely I will initiate a conversation. While my friends would never describe me as shy, this is only because I know them. When first encountering new people I am often quite timid.

2) I like to dance. I also cannot dance. Well, I am a mediocre swing dancer, which I very much love but that is the extent of my ability.

3) I AM LAZY

4) I am not vegan but the restaurant I most enjoyed to date was
What I’m doing with my life
I seem to be living. At least, that's what people tell me. I personally can't recall any other state of existence so who knows. I'm also a student slaving away over assumed responsibilities and homework. One must never forget the homework. At some point in my life I hope to graduate, get a job and/or get into graduate school. However, since I seem to be pretty normal, at least from my point of view, I have no idea what those plans are and so fill my time accumulating as much experience, in many fields and learning new skills, as I possibly can.
I’m really good at
I am really quite good at freaking out. Of course, we all are but that was nearly almost the first thing I'd thought of in response to the question. Some others include, planning events, organizing things solving problems, cuddling (I kinda like it, sue me), losing arguments, walking away after I've lost an argument (its not as esay as it sounds, most people do it all wrong). There are others, but I'll add them when I have another 5 minutes freedom from life's oppressive responsibilities. Darn those friends! :D
The first things people usually notice about me
How slender I am followed shortly by my rather bizarre personality. Of course this is an assumption, I don't actually know what people think when they first see me. I've never asked. I should probably do that.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I just encountered the book, How I Became Stupid and am really enjoying it.
I also just finished the above book and really enjoyed it, though I thought the ending rather lame.
My favorite food was, a vegetarian or possible vegan protein sandwich, and no I am not vegetarian or vegan. I simply like the food.
The others are far more transitory
The six things I could never do without
people, privacy, water, food, toilet paper/tissues, and my glasses

an alternate list might be the following.
the internet, chocolate, alcohol with friends, star wars, hair, and the occasional coffee high
I spend a lot of time thinking about
My emotional well being and the effect of various stimuli on it.
When I have some extra time I will often create elaborate daydreams by hijacking the universe a given author created in their literary works while using alternate character types and occasionally inserting myself into the storyline.
However, I spend most of my free time, not that there's much of it, thinking of ways to avoid thinking. That stuff is for work and social interactions.

I also spend a lot of time thinking about how YOU are thinking. It gets somewhat circular but it really is a lot of...
well i was going to say fun, now I'm not sure. :D
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
My greatest secrets will be told in person if I decide you are worthy of my trust, though by then they will probably not be a secret from you.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 20–23
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
Talk to me if you want to. I would probably enjoy having a chat though it seems to me like I'm being asked to tell you if you are going to like me or something and I'm not sure how comfortable I am doing that. Not to mention I have no idea whether or not you would enjoy the conversation as its rather difficult for me to anticipate your preferences without knowing you. Hopefully that slight rant gave you some insight into my character.