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46 M Omaha, NE

I’m looking for

  • Straight women only
  • Ages 30–50
  • Near me
  • For long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 4:20pm
Asian, Pacific Islander, White
5′ 3″ (1.60m)
Body Type
Agnosticism, and somewhat serious about it
Pisces, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from two-year college
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Likes cats

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
So, I've been on here a while, and have been rather discouraged by this online dating process. I'm keeping my profile active and may go weeks without checking in, so don't be discouraged from dropping me a note even if it appears that I haven't visited for a while. I will get notified by email and look you up in a timely manner.

I used to have a LOT of info about me in my profile, but it didn't really seem to make much of a difference, so I reduced it to a short summary: Who I am is a Jack-of-all-trades and a master of some. I am not a stereotype and can't be categorized easily. I have a goofy sense of humor, don't take myself too seriously, and am intelligent (a member of Mensa), but not an academic. I work as a software developer, teach martial arts (Aikido), study samurai swordsmanship, practice yoga, and am spiritual but not religious. In fact, I'm a former Christian and want nothing more to do with the faith. I'm liberal, but not extreme, believe in the responsible medical and recreational use of pot, and am an avid reader and love movies and select TV shows. I am a communicator, in touch with my feelings, and open minded.

I am at a good place in my life right now and am looking to share my life with someone. I am looking for my "soul mate," not in some magical we-are-destined-for-each-other sort of way, but which means that I want to find someone who "gets me" and vice versa. I believe that couples should be best friends in addition to lovers. I've seen so many couples who are nothing more than glorified roommates, and I am looking for a relationship that's much deeper than that. If you are too, I'd love to hear from you.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Living in the moment.

Trying to decide what to read next.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Empathizing with someone.

I can do the Vulcan eyebrow thingy on both sides!
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My long hair & smile.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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The Hunger Games series - Suzanne Collins ● The Enders Game series (even though Orson Scott Card is a prick) ● The Lord of the Rings - J.R.R. Tolkien ● Apprentice Adept series - Piers Anthony
● Incarnations of Immortality series - Piers Anthony ●
The Sword of Truth series - Terry Goodkind ● The Wheel of Time series - Robert Jordan ● Kinsey Mallone mysteries - Sue Grafton ● Anything by Ray Bradbury, Dean Koontz, or Stephen King ● The Art of War - Sun Tsu ● The Book of Five Rings - Miyamoto Musashi ● Books on the occult, spirituality, new-age, metaphysics, etc.

The Hunger Games ● The Lord of the Rings ● The Avengers ● Kick Ass ● Dune ● Star Trek ● Star Wars ● Blade Runner ● Dark City ● Pitch Black ● Alien ● Aliens ● Lagaan: Once Upon a Time in India ● Crouching Tiger Hidden Dragon ● Hero ● House of Flying Daggers ● The Last of the Mohicans ● The Princess Bride ● The Big Hit ● The Whole Nine Yards ● What the Bleep Do We Know!? ● Pink Floyd: The Wall ● Sliding Doors ● Jacob's Ladder ● Memento ● The Butterfly Effect

The Walking Dead ● Avatar: The Last Airbender ● The Vampire Diaries ● Battlestar Galactica ● Medium ● Star Trek (TNG, Enterprise, Voyager, DS9, TOS) ● Breaking Bad ● Criminal Minds ● Eureka ● Farscape ● Stargate (SG-U, SG-1) ● How the Universe Works ● The Ultimate Fighter ● Top Shot ● Ted-Talks

I'm more into mainstream than indie, but like my movie tastes, enjoy music that can grab your heart and take you on an emotional journey. As far as genres go, I like almost anything: crooning standards, 70's singer-songwriters, R&B, jazz fusion, new wave, hard rock, grunge, alternative, punk, progressive, some classical, and yes, I even like disco. I'm still a bit selective but can't really tell if I'd like something unless I hear it.

Sarah McLachlan ● Tori Amos ● Tool ● Pearl Jam ● U2 ● Tears For Fears ● The Cranberries ● Sinead O'Connor ● Matchbox Twenty ● Elton John ● Billy Joel ● Evanescence ● Bjork ● Kate Bush ● Peter Gabriel ● Steely Dan ● George Benson ● Boz Scaggs ● Santana ● Pink Floyd ● Def Leppard ● Black Sabbath ● Ozzy Osbourne ● Iron Maiden ● Meat Loaf ● Portishead ● VAST ● Sade ● Dead Can Dance ● Pat Benatar ● Fleetwood Mac ● Led Zeppelin ● Rush ● Boston ● Berlin ● The Who ● The Fixx ● 'Til Tuesday ● Simple Minds ● Howard Jones ● The Pretenders ● The Go-Go's ● The Doors ● The Doobie Brothers ● The Eagles ● The B-52's ● Supertramp ● Stevie Wonder ● The Sylistics ● Earth, Wind, and Fire ● Little River Band ● Enya ● Loreenna McKennitt ● Dido ● Kelly Clarkson ● Katy Perry ● Journey ● Foreigner ● James Taylor ● Jim Croce ● Heart ● Hall & Oats ● Air Supply ● Bread ● The Carpenters ● Burt Bacharach ● Johnny Mathis ● Mozart ● Israel Kamakawiwo'ole

Seafood! ● Thai ● Indian ● Korean ● Chinese ● Japanese ● Italian ● Mexican ● Hawaiian ● Filipino ● and good ol' American
[need to stop...I'm making myself hungry...]
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1) Intimate companionship
2) My integrity
3) My spirituality
4) A peaceful life
5) Mountain Dew
6) ???
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Anything and everything.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Either relaxing at home by myself watching TV or reading a book.

I am not constantly on-the-go and tend to be more of a homebody. Our society is obsessed with constant activity and busy schedules, and to me, that's not living. Don't get me wrong; I do go out and do stuff on occasion, but would much prefer quiet evenings and the company of someone. Be in the moment and savor it.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I like it when a woman swears and uses foul language, however, should be able to turn it on and off depending on the company.
You should message me if
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You want to get to know me better.