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46 Omaha, NE Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 30–50
  • Near me
  • For long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Dec 10
Asian, Pacific Islander, White
5′ 3″ (1.60m)
Body Type
Agnosticism, and somewhat serious about it
Pisces, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from two-year college
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Likes cats

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My self-summary
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WHO AM I? I am your soulmate, the person who knows you and understands you better than anyone else on earth--maybe better than even yourself. I am your best and closest friend, and not just a lover.

I am a jack-of-all-trades and master of some. I think what sets me apart is my open-mindedness and willingness to try and embrace new things. Although I have my dislikes, I like more than I don't, and can appreciate and find the good in everything. I am looking for someone who is similarly open-minded, non-judgmental, and willing to embrace all that life has for them with childlike curiosity. I can't stand narrow-minded and judgmental people, and if you're an ultra-conservative, you may as well stop reading right now. I am a LIBERAL, and am strongly liberal when it comes to social issues and attitudes. I believe in saving the environment, combating global warming, legalizing marijuana, and normalizing gay marriage. Economically, I am moderately liberal as I also understand that capitalism is the backbone of our economy even though we need a strong social safety net. I just think that capitalism left unchecked is the breeding ground for greed and every evil that results from it, and therefore needs to be reigned in by government.

I am an Aikido instructor (not active), a current student of samurai swordsmanship (Shinkendo), and practice yoga when I can. I am a former Christian lay-minister, music leader, and bible-scholar that has since become a "spiritual atheist," wanting nothing to do with traditional (read fundamental) Christianity. I believe in the mystical (that which hasn't been explained by science yet), but do not believe in a God personality that is concerned about human morality. The closest thing to a God that I believe in would be the impersonal "force" of Star Wars, or the chi/ki/prana of martial arts and yoga. Philosophically, I am closest to Taoism with some Buddhist sprinklings thrown in. I also believe that spiritual experience has some yet unprovable relationship to mechanisms of quantum physics.

I am a Pisces and INTP, defy stereotypes, introspective and in-touch with my feelings, empathic and slightly intuitive, have a goofy sense of humor, and am a great communicator. I will talk about anything and everything (no, really), and am looking for someone who desires that level of transparency and intimacy as well.

I am a good cook (not quite Food Network level, but decent), am a nerd although I'm not "academic smart" even though I'm a member of Mensa, and am a superhero, sci-fi, and mild, occasional gaming geek. I love watching movies and TV shows, and have a 3D widescreen TV with surround sound in my living room. I also am an avid reader and am just as passionate about books as I am about movies.

It is less important that we share identical passions as it is to have the willingness to explore your partner's interests. I have had bad experiences in the past with selfish partners who would take advantage of my nice and generous nature and expected me to be the one to always compromise. No more. A relationship is a two-way street and I am hoping to find a truly nice person for a change.

I may be a bit older, but I'm at a good place in my life. I've learned a lot through past relationships and matured over the years, so all my sharp and rough edges have become smooth. I'm stable--financially, circumstantially, and emotionally--and have a LOT to offer someone. And I come with a money-back guarantee. ;-)
What I’m doing with my life
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Living in the moment.

Trying to decide what to read next.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Empathizing with someone.

I can do the Vulcan eyebrow thingy on both sides!
The first things people usually notice about me
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My long hair & smile.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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The Hunger Games series - Suzanne Collins ● The Enders Game series (even though Orson Scott Card is a prick) ● The Lord of the Rings - J.R.R. Tolkien ● Apprentice Adept series - Piers Anthony
● Incarnations of Immortality series - Piers Anthony ●
The Sword of Truth series - Terry Goodkind ● The Wheel of Time series - Robert Jordan ● Kinsey Mallone mysteries - Sue Grafton ● Anything by Ray Bradbury, Dean Koontz, or Stephen King ● The Art of War - Sun Tsu ● The Book of Five Rings - Miyamoto Musashi ● Books on the occult, spirituality, new-age, metaphysics, etc.

The Hunger Games ● The Lord of the Rings ● The Avengers ● Kick Ass ● Dune ● Star Trek ● Star Wars ● Blade Runner ● Dark City ● Pitch Black ● Alien ● Aliens ● Lagaan: Once Upon a Time in India ● Crouching Tiger Hidden Dragon ● Hero ● House of Flying Daggers ● The Last of the Mohicans ● The Princess Bride ● The Big Hit ● The Whole Nine Yards ● What the Bleep Do We Know!? ● Pink Floyd: The Wall ● Sliding Doors ● Jacob's Ladder ● Memento ● The Butterfly Effect

The Walking Dead ● Avatar: The Last Airbender ● The Vampire Diaries ● Battlestar Galactica ● Medium ● Star Trek (TNG, Enterprise, Voyager, DS9, TOS) ● Breaking Bad ● Criminal Minds ● Eureka ● Farscape ● Stargate (SG-U, SG-1) ● How the Universe Works ● The Ultimate Fighter ● Top Shot ● Ted-Talks

I'm more into mainstream than indie, but like my movie tastes, enjoy music that can grab your heart and take you on an emotional journey. As far as genres go, I like almost anything: crooning standards, 70's singer-songwriters, R&B, jazz fusion, new wave, hard rock, grunge, alternative, punk, progressive, some classical, and yes, I even like disco. I'm still a bit selective but can't really tell if I'd like something unless I hear it.

Sarah McLachlan ● Tori Amos ● Tool ● Pearl Jam ● U2 ● Tears For Fears ● The Cranberries ● Sinead O'Connor ● Matchbox Twenty ● Elton John ● Billy Joel ● Evanescence ● Bjork ● Kate Bush ● Peter Gabriel ● Steely Dan ● George Benson ● Boz Scaggs ● Santana ● Pink Floyd ● Def Leppard ● Black Sabbath ● Ozzy Osbourne ● Iron Maiden ● Meat Loaf ● Portishead ● VAST ● Sade ● Dead Can Dance ● Pat Benatar ● Fleetwood Mac ● Led Zeppelin ● Rush ● Boston ● Berlin ● The Who ● The Fixx ● 'Til Tuesday ● Simple Minds ● Howard Jones ● The Pretenders ● The Go-Go's ● The Doors ● The Doobie Brothers ● The Eagles ● The B-52's ● Supertramp ● Stevie Wonder ● The Sylistics ● Earth, Wind, and Fire ● Little River Band ● Enya ● Loreenna McKennitt ● Dido ● Kelly Clarkson ● Katy Perry ● Journey ● Foreigner ● James Taylor ● Jim Croce ● Heart ● Hall & Oats ● Air Supply ● Bread ● The Carpenters ● Burt Bacharach ● Johnny Mathis ● Mozart ● Israel Kamakawiwo'ole

Seafood! ● Thai ● Indian ● Korean ● Chinese ● Japanese ● Italian ● Mexican ● Hawaiian ● Filipino ● and good ol' American
[need to stop...I'm making myself hungry...]
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1) Intimate companionship
2) My integrity
3) My spirituality
4) A peaceful life
5) Mountain Dew
6) ???
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Anything and everything.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Either relaxing at home by myself watching TV or reading a book.

I am not constantly on-the-go and tend to be more of a homebody. Our society is obsessed with constant activity and busy schedules, and to me, that's not living. Don't get me wrong; I do go out and do stuff on occasion, but would much prefer quiet evenings and the company of someone. Be in the moment and savor it.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I like it when a woman swears and uses foul language, however, should be able to turn it on and off depending on the company.
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