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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 28-39
  • Near me
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Today – 6:59pm
Relationship Type
Mostly monogamous
6' 1" (1.86m)
Body Type
Other and laughing about it
Post grad
Doesn’t have kids but might want them
English, Spanish (Somewhat)
My self-summary
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Hey girl,
So, I've kinda hit a point with this online "dating" thing where I don't want to waste my time with it unless someone really thinks she'd like to get to know me (see the "Message me if" section), and I find mutually attractive (generally only women above the 85% match). Which is to say that I'm done starting the conversation here. One too many thoughtful messages to seemingly-compatible women sent into the void with with no response. I've noticed that people are generally more open and interactive in real life where you don't know everything about a person.

If the rest of my profile appeals to you and you fit my interests, send me a message, it's very possible I'll reply. I might tune in here now and again for some mindless window shopping myself. I might even star your profile, but I probably won't start the conversation. Being new to town, I would like an activity buddy, and if you fit that description I'm interested to meet you. But I'm not holding my breath for a romance to evolve here.Now back to your regularly scheduled profile.

I am many things, much of which can only be hinted at here.
Healer, scientist, poet, activist, martial artist, dancer, naturalist, joker, witch.

If you really want the skinny on what I do:
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Living. Breathing. Loving. Fighting. Creating. Destroying. Healing. Laughing.

Finishing a 4-year ordeal in acupuncture school (April 2015), getting licensed, and ready to start a new career in the 2016.

My other big passion is organizing all-night sacred fire ceremonies full of music, dancing, poetry, spontaneity, and raucous laughter... I come from a really powerful community of performers, healers, magicians, artists, dancers, drummers, and witches- and we have a real good time.

Dismantling colonialism and all its various manifestations.

Enjoying the ride.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Archery, stabbing people with sharp objects (trust me, I'm a professional), climbing, being real, getting to the point, lighting things on fire, annunciating, reading astrology charts, poetisizing, making shit up, jumping into new things, rolling with the blows.

I love all things botanical and fungal (well maybe not all things), and am very versed in Pacific Northwest native medicinals/edibles as well as a fairly handy gardener/permaculturist.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I show up and not afraid to be seen. Some say I'm a smartass, I say that's better than a dumbass, or worse still no ass.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Books are important to me, and one of the things I use to assess compatibility with someone because they represent your ideals, philosophy, and overall world view.
I'm a big Tolkien geek, and love anything with a far-away, long-ago fantasy/sci-fi/romance theme. My life is the Fifth Sacred Thing. Also real into permaculture/ecology non-fiction, sacred geometry, holistic medicine, ancient history, and very into my Celtic roots so anything with that kind of twist, so to speak, is great. Rumi, Kahlil Gibran, Yeats, Loreena McKennitt, David Deida's works. I also read a lot about the prevailing international drama of our species (news). We live in interesting times.

Movies tend to follow the same pattern.
Not really a tv person. I hadn't really watched Game of Thrones till this past spring, and then I binged and caught up to season 4 in about three weeks.

I think John Stewart is a god and deserves a Nobel Peace Prize. Trevor Noah is doing a decent job filling his shoes.

Music- when I want to dance/zone in: beats antique, glitch mob, opio, lynx, etc.
When I'm feeling soulful: Loreena McKennit, Wendy Rule, Sarah McLachlan,
When I need to stomp some orcs and/or Romans: my most favorite band now is Eluveitie- Celtic folk metal:, tool, Black Sabbath

I love food from all over the world and will eat just about anything. But I'm really pretty adamant about it being organic, local, and ethically raised. I've a background in ecology and sustainable agriculture, so this is one of the most important shared values I look for in a prospective mate.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
The electromagnetic field

Shall I go on?...
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Asian/Holistic medicine.
Sex & relationships.
Food and sustainability.
Water sovereignty.
Sacred geometry.
Ritual and magickal tech.
Where are we going (as a society), and why I am in this handbasket?
How and where I'll manifest my dream eco-community.

On my bucket list now that I'm done with grad school:
-learn to ride horses again (I grew up riding)
-after that, learn to shoot archery from horseback
-get certified in Hakomi therapy
-I REALLY REALLY REALLY want a cat in my life again. I'm looking at getting a Siberian cat because they're some of the more hypo-allergenic cats around. And because floof.
-get better at partner dancing (blues, swing, etc)
-get my Wilderness EMT cert (already a WFR)
-climb Half Dome
-New Zealand
-pick up guitar again
-learn bodhran and lambeg (Irish frame drum, and large harnass drum)
-skydiving so I can eventually learn to maneuver in a wing suit
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Not being a typical atypical type, whatever that means.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Sometimes I stay up late at night, gazing into the liquid crystal display monitor, answering prodding, bizarre and sometimes irrelevant questions in hopes of finding a lover.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You want a be with a man who revels in deep intimacy, who is physically strong and capable but also has the hands of a healer, is blessed with a silver-tongue, and who is ready for committed relationship and all the adventure that it brings.

You think the tale of Luthien and Beren is the best love story evar!

You're open to the possibility of a real connection through this medium and know that true love happens not by analyzing someone's profile and sussing out the details of their life (though important), but rather by interacting with them as two embodied human beings discovering the Divine in each other's reflection.

You like to dance (actually and metaphorically) and can meet me there.