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41 • Oakland, CA • Man
I’m looking for
- Ages 30–49
- Near me
- Who are single
- For new friends, long-term dating
- Last online
- Yesterday – 8:49pm
- 5′ 11″ (1.80m)
- Body type
- Strictly anything
- Not at all
- Aries, but it doesn’t matter
- Graduated from university
- Art / Music / Writing
- Strictly monogamous
- Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
- Likes dogs and likes cats
- English (Fluently), French (Fluently)
I made a short video so you could get a sense of what I look and sound like. Still photos can be misleading (for better or worse) and a video does a better job of capturing anyone’s essence… even it’s nothing more than a one minute ramble: http://bit.ly/1yXx1fa
Note: The video is more than a year old at this point, but my first three pics are very recent.
I’ve done the starving artist thing and have no desire to go back, so I write marketing and advertising copy for a living. I’m thankful to have a skill that can support me anywhere there’s a WiFi signal, but I haven’t given up the larger dream. I’ve got something else in the works... a whole master plan... but I won’t inundate you.
I also have an abstract vision of traveling the world and writing about how people find meaning and purpose in life. Care to join me?
Movies: American Beauty, Pulp Fiction, Y Tu Mama Tambien, Boogie Nights, The Truman Show, Run Lola Run, Jesus de Montreal
Shows: Six Feet Under, Breaking Bad, Sopranos, The Wire, Curb Your Enthusiasm
Music: Regina Spektor, Jenny Owen Youngs, Rufus Wainwright, Of Monsters and Men, The Shins, Cake, Ben Folds, Paganini, Die Antwoord, Chopin
Food: I'm a bit of a health nut. Lately I've been going buck wild with my Vitamix.
* World travel
* Creative expression
* Abstract ideas
* Why is there anything in the universe, as opposed to nothing?
* Are Kanye West songs produced by a random lyric generator... or am I just too white to understand them?
Speaking of whitey... what's up with all the white people and tiger pics?
Seriously, so many possibilities… a lecture, a performance of some kind, a film, a dinner party, or at home lost in a book or delving into a project of my own.
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