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TheNotoriousADD

40 Oakland, CA Man

Man

I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 30–49
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Online now!
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 11″ (1.80m)
Body Type
Average
Diet
Strictly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Not at all
Drugs
Never
Religion
Sign
Aries, but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Art / Music / Writing
Income
$80,000–$100,000
Status
Single
Type
Strictly monogamous
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), French (Fluently)

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My self-summary
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I think of myself as an idealist with realistic tendencies… a dreamer with hard-won survival skills and a natural inclination toward optimism. I love artistic expression, philosophical inquiry, the scientific method, the poetry of everyday life... and I maintain that none of these things are incompatible.

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I made a short video so you could get a sense of what I look and sound like. Still photos can be misleading (for better or worse) and a video does a better job of capturing anyone’s essence… even it’s nothing more than a one minute ramble: http://bit.ly/1yXx1fa

Note: The video is more than a year old at this point, but my first three pics are very recent.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I’m a writer. I’m passionate about literary journalism (creative non-fiction), screenwriting and poetry. People fascinate me, and I love finding the narrative arc in seemingly ordinary lives.

I’ve done the starving artist thing and have no desire to go back, so I write marketing and advertising copy for a living. I’m thankful to have a skill that can support me anywhere there’s a WiFi signal, but I haven’t given up the larger dream. I’ve got something else in the works... a whole master plan... but I won’t inundate you.

I also have an abstract vision of traveling the world and writing about how people find meaning and purpose in life. Care to join me?
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Brevity.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: The Unbearable Lightness of Being (Milan Kundera), Zen & the Art of Motorcycle Maintenance (Robert Pirsig), Into the Wild (John Krakauer), The Writing Life (Annie Dillard), Dress Your Family in Corduroy and Denim (David Sedaris), Unweaving the Rainbow (Richard Dawkins), The Happiness Hypothesis (John Haidt), The Stanger (Albert Camus)

Movies: American Beauty, Pulp Fiction, Y Tu Mama Tambien, Boogie Nights, The Truman Show, Run Lola Run, Jesus de Montreal

Shows: Six Feet Under, Breaking Bad, Sopranos, The Wire, Curb Your Enthusiasm

Music: Regina Spektor, Jenny Owen Youngs, Rufus Wainwright, Of Monsters and Men, The Shins, Cake, Ben Folds, Paganini, Die Antwoord, Chopin

Food: I'm a bit of a health nut. Lately I've been going buck wild with my Vitamix.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
* Conversation
* Intimacy
* World travel
* Creative expression
* Abstract ideas
* Dreams
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
* Why are we here?

* Why is there anything in the universe, as opposed to nothing?

* Are Kanye West songs produced by a random lyric generator... or am I just too white to understand them?

Speaking of whitey... what's up with all the white people and tiger pics?
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Here's an atypical Friday night: http://bit.ly/1A6VkLV

Seriously, so many possibilities… a lecture, a performance of some kind, a film, a dinner party, or at home lost in a book or delving into a project of my own.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Nancy Pelosi is my celebrity crush.
You should message me if
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You tend to embrace possibilities rather than dwelling on obstacles… you're enraptured by the prospect of wandering the globe, seeking novel experiences... you have a soft spot for humanity despite our salient flaws… you strive toward self-awareness and know how to communicate your thoughts and feelings… and in your own small way, you want to make the world a better place.