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TheOldHippy

56 / M / Straight / Single

Portland, Maine

His Details

Last Online
May 15
Ethnicity
White
Height
6′ 2″ (1.88m).
Body Type
Diet
Smokes
When drinking
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Religion
Other and laughing about it
Sign
Leo and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from college/university
Job
Artistic / Musical / Writer
Income
Offspring
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
These days I'm layin' low. Tomorrow, who knows?

I'm a designer/illustrator/painter/sculptor/photographer and potter. I'm also a fervent fan of live music, an insatiable reader, and lover of good food and drink. The sea and the mountains are important parts of my life and I love growing/nurturing things, especially things that flower.

Money and status don't matter much to me, embracing and enjoying life does. I have tended to rise to the top of whatever pecking order, business, or organization I've been in, and then walked away from it. A close friend once said I was remarkably competent and bizarrely noncompetitive. (Or was it the other way around?)

I am eccentric, perceptive, and bohemian
What I’m doing with my life
I am seriously eager for spring, working hard and occasionally coming out to play.
I’m really good at
I can make intriguing/useful/evocative objects and/or images in a variety of media.

More than most folks I quickly understand ideas, feelings, situations, and the connections among things, and can communicate them and/or act on them.

Things grow and bloom for me.

I know when, and how, to take control of a situation.
The first things people usually notice about me
Those who know me notice that my hair is getting long again. After years of wearing it long, I tried it really short for a while. Those who don't know me generally notice me.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books have been an integral part of my life since teaching myself to read with Huck Finn ("see spot run" did nothing for me). Among my favorite writers: Calvino, Neruda, Joyce, Salinger, Nabakov, Faulkner, Pynchon, Marquez, Rushdie, Kundera, Ondaatje, and Murakami.

Movies: The English Patient, A Clockwork Orange, Rocky Horror, Last Tango, Swept Away (The Wertmuller original), Seven Beauties, Amacord, The Secretary.

Music is as important to me as reading, maybe more so. My taste is broad and eclectic. In the last few hours I've listened to: Nirvana Unplugged, Yes (the Morphine CD, not the annoyingly dull and pretentious 70's band), Go Two (XTC), Bridging The Gap (Black Eyed Peas), Inna Heights (Buju Banton), and The Lonesome Crowded West (Modest Mouse).

With food too, my taste is broad. I like flavors (both subtle and potent) from every cuisine. I cook a lot of asian fusion, as well as Mediterranean, and Latin American influenced dishes. My favorite kitchen tools are the wok and the grill.
The six things I could never do without
Passion, thought, laughter, friends, music, sex. These things are not necessarily listed in order, and they tend to overlap.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Working, playing, playfully working. The meaning of life. My next (or previous): meal, drink, book, etc. Sex. This list is not in any kind of order either.
On a typical Friday night I am
I don't do typical.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
That little leather case does not contain toiletries.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 34–56
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
Any (or all) of these apply:

1) Laughter only sometimes matters more than meaning, and money usually matters less than either.

2) Your spiritual beliefs do not involve a guy in the sky.

3) It is simply not possible to live your life without passion.

4) You are convinced that I am the one you've been waiting your whole life (or at least the last two weeks) to meet, and you don't really mind that I seem like a lunatic.

5) You've had an astounding insight while reading my profile and don't particularly care if my response is to suggest that you are a lunatic.