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TheOwlsAre_Not

29 / F / bisexual / Single

Somerville, Massachusetts

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Ethnicity
White
Height
5' 3" (1.60m).
Body Type
Looking For
New friends, Long-term dating, Activity partners, Long-distance penpals
Smokes
No
Drinks
Sometimes
Drugs
Sometimes
Religion
Agnosticism and somewhat serious about it
Sign
Pisces and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from college/university
Job
Rather Not Say
Income
Rather not say
Kids
Likes children
Pets
Dislikes dogs and Dislikes cats
Languages
English

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I am Fiery, Funny, and Introspective.

My Self-Summary

Firecracker. Passionate about the things and people that are important to me! I moved to Boston from Chicago about a year ago and have had trouble meeting people outside of work so here I am. I am looking for a partner-in-crime, confidant, buddy: someone to spend some time with and see how things develop from there. Ideally, I am looking for a special relationship with someone trustworthy, passionate and fun. What is fun? Well, I love movies. I went to school for film and spend most of my free time watching DVDs or occasionally on the big screen (when I can afford it!) Some of my favorite directors are David Lynch, Kubrick, Haneke, Jordoworsky, Bergman, etc. etc. I am also really into music and seeing live shows: I love old stuff, 50's and 60's garage, 70's punk and glam, DEVO, Eno, Bowie, Lou Reed, Donovan, New York Dolls, Billy Childish, Small Faces, Otis, Nobunny, Sneaky Pinks, The Yolks, Brian Jonestown Massacre, psych, rock and much more! So basically you have to be someone who wants to sit around, watch movies and listen to music with me. Going out: dive bars, the creepier the better. I rate a good bar on how likely you feel you may get stabbed while drinking there. What can I say, I like a little danger every now and again. What else? Oh, I love to travel so hopefully I can find someone who likes to get outta town whenever they can, even if its just for a day or two. I like to have things to look forward to. I plan and plot. Please let me. And be logical because I'm not!

What I’m doing with my life

Working in fundraising for a local hospital, Zzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz... wishing I was somewhere else. Dreaming of a life where I can travel and be footloose and fancy-free... and be unchained from my cubicle. Outside of work I make it my business to be the best person I can be - always working on self-improvement and helping and caring for others... It might not look like it to the outsider, but I am making the world a better place in my own special, subtle ways...

I’m really good at

Giving advice, even if I don't follow the same advice myself! I am good at losing myself in movies, getting swept away into fantasies... Dream worlds... I am not good at falling or staying asleep but I am good at dreaming. I am good at thinking about things critically - a by-product of art school I'm afraid. I'm great at making laziness fun, but I am also good at planning future adventures. I like to plan because it gives me something fun to look forward to... and makes life worth living!

The first things people usually notice about me

My red hair. Its a blessing and a curse.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

Books: Brave New World, Woman Awake, Please Kill Me, Crackup at the Race Riots, Ways of Seeing, The Westing Game, The Autobiography of Special Agent Dale Cooper, non-fiction, Choose Your Own Adventure books, technical film and videomaking guides, the Dirt, Camera Lucida, Darkness Visible, Catching the Big Fish

Music: Brian Jonestown Massacre, Adam and the Ants, ZOLAR X, Seeds, Hawkwind, Night Terrors, Roy Orbison, DEVO, New York Dolls, Bobby Conn, Stooges, DEVO, Gore Gore Girls, Small Faces, The Rachels, Monks, Rocket From the Tombs, DEVO, Cramps, Television, old country (must have slide guitar!), Vee Dee, Eric Satie, Dead Boys, Voidoids, Modern Lovers, DEVO, B-52's, Patti Smith, ENO, Pleasure Seekers, Donovan, Bowie, 60's garage, DEVO, Northern Soul, DEVO, 70's Punk, Stranglers, Lou Reed, the Boys, Damned, DEVO, Runaways, Thee Headcoats/Headcoatees

Movies: HAROLD and MAUDE!!! The Holy Mountain, I Love You Alice B. Toklas, Children of Men, LOLITA (Kubrick), Fire Walk With Me, Dr. Caligari, AUTUMN SONATA, Norman McClaren, Hiroshima Mon Amour, FUNNY GAMES (in German), Welcome To the Dollhouse, BLOOD ORGY OF THE LEATHER GIRLS, Fahrenheit 9/11, La Jetee, 1984, Blue Velvet, ROPE, My Own Private Idaho, CITY OF GOD, Rushmore, SPIDER BABY, DR. STRANGELOVE, Being There, Benny's Video, Wild Strawberries, Beat Girl, Russ Meyer, A Short Film About Love, Kind Hearts and Coronets, SATAN'S SADISTS!, The Piano Teacher (La Pianiste), The Beyond, I Heart Huckabees, B-MOVIES and documentaries

Food: Vegetarian delights, anything dipped in peanut sauce, chocolate (not sure if good dipped in peanut sauce yet)

The six things I could never do without

My Bike
Records/Record Player
Movies/Movie Player
Paper/Pen
Clothes
My Teal Moon Boots

(This is just off the top of my head and should probably be examined at a later time)

I spend a lot of time thinking about

What the purpose of my life is and how I can use the time I have to do something positive, how I can improve my life, ease my mind and change my responses to the events of day-to-day life for the better... I spend a LOT of time wishing I could escape the trap of the 9 to 5 world, which I don't think I am cut out for. Wishing I was free. I think about all the places I want to go and people I want to meet over my lifetime, and how having to support myself financially hinders this dream... Is this what its all about?

On a typical Friday night I am

At the movie theater alone, at home in my pajamas watching movies alone, eating something delicious (my end of the work week reward system) or out somewhere dancing to the limited number of good bands that come through Boston.

I'm a loner, Dottie. A rebel. You don't wanna get mixed up with a guy like me.

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

I have tendonitis in my right wrist and have to wear a splint that is reminiscent of the Ove Glove to bed every night. Very sexy.

I wear Halloween themed socks all year round.

You should message me if

You wanna.