Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
"Thanks for noticing me...." - Eeyore (my favorite resident of the
Hundred Acre Wood)
I am optimistic, hardworking, family-oriented, open, thoughtful,
very patient, nurturing, loyal and an excellent listener. (I’m a
classic ISFJ “Protector - Guardian” personality type under the
Keirsey Temperament sorter; you can Google it if you want more
I was raised Protestant and I’m still spiritual, but I rarely
I’m comfortable with a wide range of people, cultures, and social
settings, maybe in part because I've traveled to over 20
I am the product of Small Town America, and prefer small towns to
big cities; but I realize each has its good points and its
I have a military background (with the Air Force) and I was a
licensed foster parent (teen mothers, sibling groups, etc.)... I'm
not easily frightened - or shocked... :-)
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I’m the father of four good kids, three boys and a girl. They live
with their mother, but our split was amicable and we have shared
parenting; so I’m still very active in their lives. I’m also a
leader with Boy Scouts of America, a Search Angel, and a
“homemaker” in addition to working full time. So I'm fairly
But I know I need to maintain some semblance of balance in my
personal life, and I genuinely miss having a special woman to share
things with. So I’m re-entering the dating scene after an absence
of almost two decades.
I’m hoping the internet will be a useful tool to meet someone who
I'm not *completely* incompatible with... ;-)
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
helping others... That's a broad statement, but it's true...
The first things people usually notice about me
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is probably my up-beat attitude... I appear to be in a good
mood/having a good day - even when I am not...
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Favorite book: Anything from Douglas Adams ("A Hitchhiker's Guide
to the Universe"), Spider Robinson ("Callahan's Crosstime Saloon"),
Harry Harrison ("Bill the Galactic Hero...") or Robert Heinlein
("Time Enough For Love")...
Favorite movies: "Monty Python and The Holy Grail"; "Animal House";
"Pharaoh's Army"; "Taking Chance" and "The Quiet Man"...
Favorite musical: "Paint Your Wagon" - Clint Eastwood AND Lee
Marvin - and they SING!... It just doesn't get much better than
Favorite music: Classic Rock, Contemporary Country
Favorite food: Italian (by a hair) followed by Everything Else
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My Extended Family/Friends
My Morning Coffee
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
what I need to be focusing on next... I'm always juggling multiple
things, but I *usually* keep everything airborne... ;-)
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
either with my kids (I have them every other weekend) or just
chilling around the house or maybe with friends somewhere...
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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is all included in my profile... (I'm completely comfortable
discussing private matters one-on-one, I would NEVER post anything
truly private online...)
You should message me if
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