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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 32-52
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Nov 19
5' 11" (1.80m)
Body Type
Average build
Christianity but it’s not important
Dropped out of Space camp
Has kid(s)
My self-summary
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"Thanks for noticing me...." - Eeyore (my favorite resident of the Hundred Acre Wood)

I am optimistic, hardworking, family-oriented, open, thoughtful, very patient, nurturing, loyal and an excellent listener. (I’m a classic ISFJ “Protector - Guardian” personality type under the Keirsey Temperament sorter; you can Google it if you want more details.)

I was raised Protestant and I’m still spiritual, but I rarely attend church.

I’m comfortable with a wide range of people, cultures, and social settings, maybe in part because I've traveled to over 20 countries.

I am the product of Small Town America, and prefer small towns to big cities; but I realize each has its good points and its bad.

I have a military background (with the Air Force) and I was a licensed foster parent (teen mothers, sibling groups, etc.)... I'm not easily frightened - or shocked... :-)
What I’m doing with my life
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I’m the father of four good kids, three boys and a girl. They live with their mother, but our split was amicable and we have shared parenting; so I’m still very active in their lives. I’m also a leader with Boy Scouts of America, a Search Angel, and a “homemaker” in addition to working full time. So I'm fairly busy.

But I know I need to maintain some semblance of balance in my personal life, and I genuinely miss having a special woman to share things with. So I’m re-entering the dating scene after an absence of almost two decades.

I’m hoping the internet will be a useful tool to meet someone who I'm not *completely* incompatible with... ;-)
I’m really good at
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helping others... That's a broad statement, but it's true...
The first things people usually notice about me
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is probably my up-beat attitude... I appear to be in a good mood/having a good day - even when I am not...
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Favorite book: Probably Robert Heinlein's "Time Enough For Love"... But Douglas Adams "A Hitchhiker's Guide to the Universe" is a very close second...

Favorite movies: "Monty Python and The Holy Grail"; "Animal House"; "Pharaoh's Army"; "Taking Chance" and "The Quiet Man"...

Favorite musical: "Paint Your Wagon" ( Clint Eastwood AND Lee Marvin - and they SING!... It just doesn't get much better than that!... LOL...)

Favorite music: Classic Rock, Contemporary Country

Favorite food: Italian (by a hair) followed by Everything Else
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Seriously, we can all do without a lot of *things* if we have to... But I hope I will always blessed with...

My Kids
My Extended Family/Friends
My Morning Coffee
A Purpose
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
what I need to be focusing on next... I'm always juggling multiple things, but I *usually* keep everything airborne... ;-)
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
either with my kids (I have them every other weekend) or just chilling around the house or maybe with friends somewhere...
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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is all included in my profile... (I'm completely comfortable discussing private matters one-on-one, I would NEVER post anything truly private online...)
You should message me if
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I sound like someone you'd like to get to know better... :-)