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31 Barrington, NJ Woman


I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 30–36
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Online now!
5′ 6″ (1.68m)
Body type
A little extra
Taurus, and it’s fun to think about
Banking / Finance
Rather not say
Strictly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), Latin (Poorly), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I'm a joker, but not a smoker or a midnight toker.... I have no interest in getting my lovin' on the run.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I am using ellipsis and periods together.... and having autocorrect failures make me sound like I'm staunchly in favor of cocoa puffs. (Points to you if you know where I snagged that gem!)
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Reading things upside down. Making people cringe/laugh.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Probably that I am easily startled when I'm not facing someone walking up to me and sometimes even when I'm looking in that direction too.
I'm not afraid or unobservant but I'm usually deep in my own thoughts every single time this happens.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Books: Fahrenheit 451, The Phantom Tollbooth, Brave New World, A Clockwork Orange, The Drunken Driver Has the Right of Way

Movies: The Wizard of Oz, It Happened One Night, The Goonies, Once, Memento

Shows: Jeopardy, The Wonder Years, New Girl, Law & Order, The Newsroom

Plays/Musicals: Avenue Q, You Can't Take It With You, How to Succeed in Business Without Really Trying, Waiting for Godot, Spamalot

Music: Josh Ritter, Ben Folds, James Taylor, The Magnetic Fields, Ryan Adams

Food: bread, berries, bourbon, brussels sprouts, brie (I swear I wasn't trying for an all B list)
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1- A journal
2- A good pen
3- water (I drink a lot of water)
4- adequate vision correction (glasses or contacts)
5- The Internet-- I met my last boyfriend here-- he was a French model. Plus, they can't put anything on The Internet that isn't true.
6- ????? TBD
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
"How am I going to word that?"
"Why do I have a phone voice with gas station attendants?"
"How am I going to get ahold of that video of me singing T-Swift on NYE and destroy it before it makes its way onto the Internet?"
"Why do I still capitalize Internet?"
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
either out with friends or getting my Hulu on.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
When I get off the train at the end of the day, if I am the first person to get through the turnstiles and out the door I feel like I won a secret race and that the rest of my evening will be AWESOME.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
you feel like it. You never know what will happen if you don't take a chance. I've been taking more chances on the unexpected lately.

Deal Breakers:
- guys who are more than 5 years older or younger than me
- guys who live more than 50 miles away from me
- guys who let drugs and/ or alcohol run their lives
- guys who aren't ready to be in relationships
- guys who are already in relationships