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56 • Santa Monica, CA • Man
I’m looking for
- Ages 40–56
- Near me
- Who are single
- For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
- Last online
- Online now!
- 5′ 11″ (1.80m)
- Body type
- Mostly anything
- Graduated from university
- Entertainment / Media
- Has kids
- Likes dogs and likes cats
That's me... one of the "mad ones". Part art boy, part business guy. At heart a bohemian, but can dress corporate when called for. All about the creative process and drawn to creative people and crazy ideas. I'm politically active, culturally engaged, consciously healthful, endlessly curious and eternally glass half-full.
I'm looking for my creative counterpart. A woman of substance and wisdom and grace and joy. With an urgent appetite for exploration. Fiercely independent, yet capable of deep connection. An intimate partner to share the ride.
I speak at a lot of conferences, moderate a lot of panels. Travel regularly. Mostly in the US, but occasionally Europe and Asia. Particularly fond of Italy.
Physically active. In the gym 5 days a week. Hiking, biking, playing sports with my 13 y.o. son (lives with his mom, a few blocks away). Also have two adult boys and a large extended family back east.
I'm a news junkie. Interested in politics, local and global. A bit of a lefty, with a little libertarian sprinkled in. Listening to lectures, attending film screenings... museums, art galleries, concerts.
I've been very fortunate. And I love my life. But it would be that much better, if I could find the right woman to share it with (I know you're out there).
2.) keeping it light, having fun (but in a serious way)
3.) extreme communication (kinda like "emotional bungee jumping")
4.) romance (flowers, love songs and back rubs)
5.) fatherhood (my kids voted me "Father of the Year"... 6 times)
6.) making lists (enough said)
2.) quick smile
3.) expressive green eyes
4.) mellifluous voice (yeh... I had to spell check that one)
2.) Scorsese (Martin), Lynch (David), Altman (Robert)
3.) House of Cards, Mad Men, Breaking Bad
4.) Baker (Chet), Springsteen (Bruce), Marley (Bob)
5.) Venice, London, Jerusalem
6.) New Orleans, New York City, San Francisco
7.) Bay Cities, Father's Office, Caffe Luxxe
3.) intellectual stimulation
4.) art & music
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