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33 Kirkland, WA Woman


I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 28–45
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 10:37am
5′ 8″ (1.73m)
Body type
Full figured
Mostly anything
Cancer, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Art / Music / Writing
Strictly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
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I'm a happy, kind, strong, big-hearted, genuine person. I've moved to the Seattle area after living in Brooklyn for 7 years. I'm glad to be in a place that doesn't get to 119 degrees in the summer (true story), but I'm still trying to fall in love with the area. Maybe you can give me some reasons?

I enjoy baking, indulging my love of strange bits of history, old New England coastal towns, vintage tin litho toys, soul music, willows that weep into the water, the ballet, whirling dervishes, and wandering around aimlessly. It's the best way to find unexpected things.

I am torn between my deep love of the city and my inescapable desire to move somewhere rustic, slower, and very, very old.

I'm looking for a man to live life with: simple enough, isn't it? To travel with, make dinner with, support each other, grow with, discover humanity, and build a massive, crazy collection of experiences together. None of us knows how long we have - sure it's a cliche, but that doesn't change its fundamental truth. Let's go ahead and find each other.
What I’m doing with my life
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I was a writer and editor in Manhattan for seven years. Now I'm moving on to a new chapter and going back to school for a paralegal post-bac. Which feels sort of unnecessary since I already have a bachelor's degree, but it'll allow me to do what I wanted to in the first place: work in criminal justice. I took a pretty serious and pretty awesome detour along the way, but I'm super excited to get back to doing what matters to me.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I make the best fish face you'll ever see.
The first things people usually notice about me
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I hear a lot about the hair.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: Middlesex, everything by Yeats, Ralph Waldo Emerson, Frank O’Hara (“Now I am quietly waiting for the catastrophe of my personality to seem beautiful again, and interesting, and modern..."), Everything Is Illuminated, Sophie's Choice, Malcolm Gladwell, Chekhov here and there, John Irving, Flannery O'Connor, and Eudora Welty. And David Sedaris, because I'm trying to believe there are worse things than books that can be bought at the grocery store.

Movies: Metropolis, Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind, High Noon, Silence of the Lambs, Lolita (the original), Bamboozled, Malcolm X, Psycho, Singing in the Rain, The Pianist, Almost Famous, Big, Rear Window, In America, Dances With Wolves, Se7en, Mean Girls, L.A. Confidential, Modern Times, Remember the Titans, Rudy, Field of Dreams, He Got Game, the Sandlot, Love and Basketball, and Hoop Dreams. I hate sports, but love sports movies.

TV: Community, The Walking Dead, Louie, Mad Men, Orphan Black, Breaking Bad, Broadchurch, Endeavour, Motive, The Americans, , Downton Abbey, Sherlock, Homeland, Crossing Lines, Arrested Development, 30 Rock, The Soup, and Boomtown.

Music: Thomas Dybdahl, Alabama Shakes, Bon Iver, Florence & the Machine, Macklemore, MGMT, Mojave 3, Otis Redding, The Isley Brothers, Death Cab for Cutie, Ray Lamontagne, Amos Lee, Matthew Good, The Roots, Lucy Pearl, Raphael Saadiq, Maxwell, Erykah Badu, Marvin Gaye, Miles Davis, James Taylor, Paul Simon, Lyle Lovett, Van Morrison, Sam Cooke, Sam Cooke, Sam Cooke.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
I've had years of plenty, and later moved to New York with one suitcase to my name and slept on an air mattress for months. Experience has shown me there isn't much I can't do without, though I'm grateful I no longer have to.

That said, I really love:

My phone, but mostly because I get lost a lot. If I didn't have an unlimited plan, 3/4 of my bill would be for GPS usage.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Wondering why the people who talk about "no drama" in their profiles always seem to have the most drama.
You should message me if
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You're traditional in the best ways and progressive in even better ways.

You resemble Joel McHale in any way.

Or you have something to offer that's so amazing it makes me not care that you don't resemble Joel McHale.

You didn't answer the "most private thing I’m willing to admit" question with any version of "well, if I admit it, it won't be private anymore."

More seriously (though I am pretty serious about the Joel McHale thing), I'm looking for a man. Not a guy, not a dude, not a boy. The rest can be negotiated.