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34 M Santa Rosa, CA

I’m looking for

  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 24–40
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Sep 10
5′ 9″ (1.75m)
Body Type
Strictly other
Other, but not too serious about it
Graduated from university
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Likes cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Okay), German (Poorly), Arabic (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I strive. I try to do right by the world. I work with troubled veterans. I teach martial arts and let me tell you, getting paid to do your hobby is almost as awesome as it sounds.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Building a whole new life. Its a lot of work but its a chance to see a lot of things again for the first time.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
One thing I've definitely got is an alarming array of skills. What am I *not* good at: intentionally succeeding. I always seem to find things I didn't know I was supposed to be looking for.
The first things people usually notice about me
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I've been told my eyes are very noticeable. They're bright blue. I expect my bald head of Patrick Stewart-like awesomeness also stands out. I'm told I'm fast on the draw with snarky remarks, but not in a mean way.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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There aren't enough hours in a day to list my nonfiction reading. Nerd culture, cult films, prog rock (and 70 other genres of music), food I didn't cook, food I did cook.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Antiquity and what it tells us about today. How things have changed. How things have not changed. What I want my life to be.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Unwinding from my week, possibly lesson planning for the class I teach on Saturdays.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I don't know, guess you'll have to try me and find out.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over. are reading this. If you've spent this much time reading, just message me, I'd love to hear from you and I don't bite. For serious, stop reading and write me. Do it. Don't be a jerk. Do it.