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24 Minneapolis, MN Man, Non-binary

Man, Non-binary

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I’m looking for

  • Everyone
  • Ages 18-45
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My details

Last online
Nov 24
Relationship Type
6' 0" (1.83m)
Body Type
Other and laughing about it
Doesn’t have kids
English (Fluently), Japanese (Somewhat), Spanish (Somewhat)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Think Captain Jack from Doctor Who and you're pretty close. I am queer. In all senses of the word. I am a quirky, rambunctious, opinionated, pansexual, beautiful train-wreck of a human being. It's hard not to find me smiling. Someone once described me as 'the most easily pleased person' they had ever met. It didn't always used to be that way. There were issues... way more than I have now.

I've come from a life of pushing myself to the limit, of nothing being good enough, of constant worry about getting enough things done. But I maxed out on stress and decided to make some changes.

Nowadays, I'm calm. I always think zen is a great word. I love to talk with people about any subject, but I am a bit political so I do get really into those talks. I'm a very physical person, preferring a hug to a handshake. I like being really active and doing physically intense things, but I'd much rather just chill with good people and enjoy music, movies, food, drink, conversation, maybe throw a peace pipe in there? haha. Anyway, the point is, I finally learned to take control of my life and go after what I want. And that's to be happy. For as long and as often as possible.

But don't be fooled, get me around enough people and I explode with energy. I'm very promiscuous and sometimes even sprite-like. My sense of humor pervades most situations, sometimes just to diffuse tension. I'm very sensitive to the energy of a room, so I like to keep it up when I can or else I can get pulled down.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Trying to be better than yesterday. I'm always seeking to improve myself and find ways to expand. I work a lot, but when I'm not I like to go see a show (concert, stageplay, movie, whatever). I like picking up random skills and hobbies. I'm GF(but I don't bring it up constantly), so I do most of my own cooking and have really come to enjoy that so food has become a much bigger part of my life. I just recently started making my own yogurt.

I do some modeling work, but acting is my focus. I used to be much more stage focused, mostly landing parts in musicals. These days, I'm focusing exclusively on film, commercial and television. Hoping to take a stab at standup soon. It doesn't pay the bills yet, but I'm well on my way.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Crazy faces and voices
Picking apart movies
Bad Jokes
Silver linings
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Books: HP, Xenocide, The Hobbit, Cloud Atlas

Movies: Capote, Little Miss Sunshine, Silver Linings Playbook

Shows: Bojack Horseman, Parks and Recreation, Daria, Food network

Music: Right now I'm really digging Courtney Barnett and Modest Mouse. Rock, prog. rock, indie, some EDM, enjoy jazz and classical, but don't have any

Food: Bacon, Steak, Sushi
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Red Wine
Sweet mj
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
The incredible capacity for humanity to suck. But also, I spend a lot of time thinking about the people in my life that don't suck.
Ideas for jokes, stories, etc. Life in general, I have a noisy brain.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
doing something while in an altered state.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You do you better than anyone else
You don't apologize for who you are
You're also promiscuous and fun-loving
You're confident
You don't want to live a life of regret.
Badasses get bonus points

I'm a Leo, so I tend to feel like people should come to me first. Haha. Aka, I'm not good at opening lines, so I hope you are.