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I’m looking for

  • Everyone
  • Ages 30-40
  • Near me
  • For new friends

My details

Last online
Jul 10
Hispanic / Latin, White
Seeing Someone
Relationship Type
Mostly monogamous
5' 6" (1.68m)
Body Type
Catholicism and it’s important
Working on Two-year college
Doesn’t have kids but wants them
Has dogs
English (Fluently), Spanish (Somewhat)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I currently in a relationship for about one year now.

I grew up a military brat. Father retired from the USAF after 20 years. My parents split on good terms and have a good relationship. I treasure my parents for the wonderful way they raised my brother, sister and I. They taught us that precious unconditional love that family has for you no matter what.

I have a very sweet, QUIET chihuahua named 'Cailet' (Caisha) after a character in a book I enjoyed. Dog-lovers are definitely a plus.

All-in-all, I don't take myself seriously and take life with as much optimism as I can muster. I'm loyal to my family (almost to a fault). I have a selfish, careless streak that some people are unable to cope with. I love to read when time allows. I tend to start hobbies, but never stick to any particular one. I crave new experiences, but love to revisit old favorites.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
School for Medical Lab Tech
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Making people laugh. And logic games and puzzles - I've got this one block puzzle been workin' on for 5 years. YEARS I tell you, the silly thing is complicated.

[Update on the puzzle: a drunken, applied-engineering, friend put it together in under thirty minutes at a weekend party. The booger.]
The first things people usually notice about me
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The first thing they might notice, are my lips.

Secondly, I don't wear much makeup, but I think when I make the effort, my eyes tend to stand out.

Thirdly, is the fact that I tend to be terribly optimistic/upbeat.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Favorite Author: Tanith Lee
Favorite Movies: Cloud Atlas, Easy A, loads others.
Musics: Florence and the Machine, Marina and the Diamonds

Just discovered Amanda Palmer.

Current books I'm reading:
Blood Trail by Tanya Huff
Dance With Dragons by George R. R. Martin

Musical obsessions for the week:
Try out my Pandora station:

Or my Grooveshark collection:!/thesilversmile
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.

I love to read, my collection is far from complete.

My family. Some might call it a crutch, I call it love.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
I want to find myself spiritually again and with someone who's willing to take that journey or at least be waiting for me at the end. Someone who is looking for a family to join theirs with.

And I found them.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Usually spending it with family since it's the one day a week where we all have the same day off with no commitments. Oftentimes it's either out to dinner, or a home-cooked family meal, and some Magic: the Gathering and rented movies.

Or cramming for school on Monday.
You should message me if
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+You love to laugh.
+You've got a good relationship with most of your family.
+If you know who Tanith Lee is.
+looking for friends only

That said, I think personality and spiritual connection is just as important as a physical allure.
*I'm NOT interested in casual sex in any way, shape, or form. That includes sex-cam or phone sex.