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30 Shawnee, OK Woman


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I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 30–40
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Oct 15, 2014
Hispanic / Latin, White
5′ 5″ (1.65m)
Body type
Mostly anything
Catholicism, and somewhat serious about it
Virgo, and it’s fun to think about
Working on two-year college
Strictly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Has dogs
English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I grew up a military brat. Father retired from the USAF after 20 years. My parents split on good terms and have a good relationship. I treasure my parents for the wonderful way they raised my brother, sister and I. They taught us that precious unconditional love that family has for you no matter what.

I have a very sweet, QUIET chihuahua named 'Cailet' (Caisha) after a character in a book I enjoyed. Dog-lovers are definitely a plus.

All-in-all, I don't take myself seriously and take life with as much optimism as I can muster. I'm loyal to my family (almost to a fault). I have a selfish, careless streak that some people are unable to cope with. I love to read when time allows. I tend to start hobbies, but never stick to any particular one. I crave new experiences, but love to revisit old favorites.
What I’m doing with my life
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Currently I took a full load of college classes in the day-time (8am - 2pm) in hopes of finding what I want to do with my life. For now, I'm looking at something in high demand in the medical field, but still haven't found my niche.

I still work full-time usually closing shifts from 11am-8pm on weekends and 3pm-8pm weekdays after school. I live with my siblings and our dogs in Shawnee. We all have our chaotic schedules and are in and out all the time, but try to make time for each other in the thick of things.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Making people laugh. And logic games and puzzles - I've got this one block puzzle been workin' on for 5 years. YEARS I tell you, the silly thing is complicated.

[Update on the puzzle: a drunken, applied-engineering, friend put it together in under thirty minutes at a weekend party. The booger.]
The first things people usually notice about me
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The first thing they might notice, are my lips.

Secondly, I don't wear much makeup, but I think when I make the effort, my eyes tend to stand out.

Thirdly, is the fact that I tend to be terribly optimistic/upbeat.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Favorite Author: Tanith Lee
Favorite Movies: Cloud Atlas, Easy A, loads others.
Musics: Florence and the Machine, Marina and the Diamonds

Just discovered Amanda Palmer.

Current books I'm reading:
Blood Trail by Tanya Huff
Dance With Dragons by George R. R. Martin

Musical obsessions for the week:
Try out my Pandora station:

Or my Grooveshark collection:!/thesilversmile
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.

I love to read, my collection is far from complete.

My family. Some might call it a crutch, I call it love.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Recently, I've started considering what I want my future to be and who or what kind of person I want to make myself worthy of. I've stopped looking at it as 'shopping' for someone else, but focusing more on what I have to offer someone else rather than what they have to offer me.

I want to find myself spiritually again and find someone who's willing to take that journey or at least be waiting for me at the end. Someone who is looking for a family to join theirs with.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Usually spending it with family since it's the one day a week where we all have the same day off with no commitments. Oftentimes it's either out to dinner, or a home-cooked family meal, and some Magic: the Gathering and rented movies.

Or cramming for school on Monday.
You should message me if
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+You love to laugh.
+You've got a good relationship with most of your family.
+If you know who Tanith Lee is.

I'm attracted to:
Men with beards enough to make Gimli jealous
Thick-bodied men
Blue eyes pretty much make me melt.

That said, I think personality and spiritual connection is just as important as a physical allure.
*I'm NOT interested in casual sex in any way, shape, or form. That includes sex-cam or phone sex.