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TheSugarRay

27 Cedar Rapids, IA Man

Man

I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 22–32
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Online now!
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 4″ (1.63m)
Body Type
Average
Diet
Strictly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Desperately
Drugs
Never
Religion
Agnosticism, but not too serious about it
Sign
Taurus, but it doesn’t matter
Education
University
Job
Sales / Marketing
Income
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Monogamous
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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I'm at my new place in southmost CR.

I know that we are all more than our summaries. I am not perfect and am just as flawed as every sane person should expect to be. I am striving for the person I want to be and am disappointed whenever I think about how much I don’t measure up. I talk during movies that everyone has seen once. I disagree out of impulse. I use to play dumb all the time because I worried more about how someone should react instead of reacting honestly. My pet peeve is using the same word over and over, and the word “I” is making me feel so aware of my ego that I want to punch myself in the dick.
I’m funny because I used to be bitter. I cannot guess your age and most people cannot guess mine. I work hard, don’t smoke, very nerdy, aware of my proximity to pretentiousness, and have religious tendencies.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Doing what I want to do in my free time and making plans to get paid for it. Until then, I work part time to have more freetime and stability.
I've made time to do lots of reading.
Recently, I have started working on being a regular somewhere. Then, I forgot about this goal.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I'm good at telling stories. I notice patterns TV show plots and music.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'm told I am surprisingly funny for being so dry.
People either notice my smile or that am happy.
My friend tells me I wax philosophical too much.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Lists suck so here is a list of various things I like. (short lists)
Authors
I didn't use to have favorite authors because I didn't know authors and in a lot of cases crappy people write good books. Thanks to the internet and commentaries I have become familiar with some.

Chuck Palahnuik
John Green
Maureen Johnson (She is an amazing person.)

My favorite childhood book was 20,000 leagues Under the sea.

The Catcher in the Rye. I was severely depressed when reading it. So, it felt like less of a downer and more like company. I think it is fun and conscious, and Holden reminds me of myself more than I want to admit. It helped me come to terms with being kicked out of seminary. To hope for the future Ray.

The Great Gatsby was a wonderful tail of bewilderment and hope.

Then, there is paper Towns that helped me see that people are hidden and complicated and not just what the person my mind constructs.

TV Shows
Community
Californication
Ally McBeal
Star Trek: The Next Generation
Doctor Who

Movies
Groundhog Day
The Good, the Bad and the Ugly
Kate and Leopold
Bridesmaids
Clerks
Star Wars

Books
The Great Gatsby
Catcher In The Rye Really cannot describe how in love I am with CitR.
20000 Leagues Under the Sea
Alice In Wonderland
Fahrenheit 451
Scott Pilgrim
Fight Club
Paper Towns

Music
I picked up a Album by Maria Mena after I forgot to check her out for four years. She is really good.
I'm pretty blown away by Childish Gambino.
Tegan and Sara
Seriously, Nirvana, forever.
I like the Pixies and The Postal Service
Lately I have found myself drawn to more folky music like Ingrid Michelson and The Mountain Goats.

Sushi and Lasagna
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
The Internet
Trees
Humor
Books/writing
Lasagna
Friends
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
I feel your pain but not literally. I feel a version of your pain. A version that is observed and loosely connected that is ignorible for a time but not escapable.

How different people look from their pictures. Not in a 'this doesn't look like you' kind of way. The motion, the thought, the warmth, and the thoughts just aren't there the way they are in real life.

I don't know how to feel about in-boxes being full. Can I just hate the men on this site?

I'm wondering what fever dream youtube videos I was watching when I answered these questions.

You are all wonderful. I have preferences and there are some I wouldn't get along with but you are all great. (except the fake profiles. Which, I cannot always spot.)

How to move the things I want to do from inside to outside.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Getting my friends to play a new game I found or one of the older games I have found. Ultimately, too much time scrolling tumblr.

Sometimes, I'm trying to finish a book, when I am only eight pages in.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
The education details are not very detailed. It gives the options two year degree or University. It was just a college. I don't want to steer anyone wrong.

I physically, literally, cannot frown.

I keep too many tabs open on my browser.

I eat my cereal dry.

Sometimes, I cannot fall asleep until I think I have accomplished something.

I write a blog called SugarWords. I'd be flattered if anyone took the time to read it. I used to write beautiful things but it dark things seem to be coming out.

There isn't really a most private thing. I just share.

INFP
You should message me if
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You do not owe me anything. I would like you to send me a message. That would be cool.
You are willing to participate in a party where we read Shakespeare.

Ask me anything. Tell me anything.

DFTBA

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