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TheSugarRay

26 M Cedar Rapids, IA

My Details

Last Online
Online now!
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 4″ (1.63m)
Body Type
Average
Diet
Strictly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Desperately
Drugs
Never
Religion
Agnosticism, but not too serious about it
Sign
Taurus, but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Sales / Marketing
Income
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), C++ (Poorly), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
I know that we are all more than our summaries. I am not perfect and am just as flawed as every sane person should expect to be. I am striving for the person I want to be and am disappointed whenever I think about how much I don’t measure up. I talk during movies that everyone has seen once. I disagree out of impulse. I use to play dumb all the time because I worried more about how someone should react instead of reacting honestly. My pet peeve is using the same word over and over, and the word “I” is making me feel so aware of my ego that I want to punch myself in the dick.
I’m funny because I used to be bitter. I cannot guess your age and most people cannot guess mine. I apologize too often. I work hard, don’t smoke, very nerdy, aware of my proximity to pretentiousness, and have religious tendencies.
What I’m doing with my life
Doing what I want to do in my free time and making plans to get paid for it.
I've made time to do lots of reading.
Recently, I have started working on being a regular somewhere.
I’m really good at
I'm good at telling stories. I notice patterns TV show plots and music.
The first things people usually notice about me
I'm told I am surprisingly funny for being so dry.
People either notice my smile or that am happy.
My friend tells me I wax philosophical too much.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Lists suck so here is a list of various things I like. (short lists)
Authors
I didn't use to have favorite authors because I didn't know authors and in a lot of cases crappy people write good books. Thanks to the internet and commentaries I have become familiar with some.

Chuck Palahnuik
John Green
Maureen Johnson (She is an amazing person.)

My favorite childhood book was 20,000 leagues Under the sea.

The Catcher in the Rye. I was severely depressed when reading it. So, it felt like less of a downer and more like company. I think it is fun and conscious, and Holden reminds me of myself more than I want to admit. It helped me come to terms with being kicked out of seminary. To hope for the future Ray.

The Great Gatsby was a wonderful tail of bewilderment and hope.

Then, there is paper Towns that helped me see that people are hidden and complicated and not just what the person my mind constructs.

TV Shows
Community
Californication
Ally McBeal
Star Trek: The Next Generation
Doctor Who

Movies
Groundhog Day
The Good, the Bad and the Ugly
Kate and Leopold
Bridesmaids
Clerks
Star Wars

Books
The Great Gatsby
Catcher In The Rye Really cannot describe how in love I am with CitR.
20000 Leagues Under the Sea
Alice In Wonderland
Fahrenheit 451
Scott Pilgrim
Fight Club
Paper Towns

Music
I picked up a Childish Gambino Album, on a whim. I'm pretty blown away by it.
Tegan and Sara
Seriously, Nirvana, forever.
I like the Pixies and The Postal Service
Lately I have found myself drawn to more folky music like Ingrid Michelson and The Mountain Goats.

Sushi and Lasagna
The six things I could never do without
The Internet
Trees
Humor
Books/writing
Lasagna
Friends
I spend a lot of time thinking about
I'm wondering what fever dream youtube videos I was watching when I answered these questions.

No one owes me anything.

I read on one of the okstupid blogs that visiting a profile and not sending a message means that she read it and doesn't want to talk. This isn't true for me. Sometimes I just feel like browsing profiles or only think of stupids and obvious things to say.

It is weird what I have left behind but hold onto in how I think of myself. I love camping but I don't have any camping gear, I am not currently camping and I don't know where in Iowa I would camp. What is this state of flux that I am in? I loved camping. I loved the camping trips I was on. I loved being out in the woods. I like the version of me that camps but I have spent years inside.

Stupid thoughts of mine that are probably not necessary to say.
You are all wonderful. I have preferences and there are some I wouldn't get along with but you are all great. (except the fake profiles. Which, I cannot always spot.)
On a typical Friday night I am
Getting my friends to play a new game I found or one of the older games I have found. Ultimately, too much time scrolling tumblr.

Sometimes, I'm trying to finish a book, when I am only eight pages in.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I physically, literally, cannot frown.

I keep too many tabs open on my browser.

I eat my cereal dry.

Sometimes, I cannot fall asleep until I think I have accomplished something.

I write a blog called SugarWords. I'd be flattered if anyone took the time to read it. I used to write beautiful things but it dark things seem to be coming out.

There isn't really a most private thing. I just share.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 22–32
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
If you read this far, why not?

If you are reading this and are excited right now.

If you thought it was already too late to respond. Late is better than never.

I'm super sad when one of you just disappear. I've heard stories about men on these sites and I hope that if you leave, it is to somewhere peaceful.

DFTBA